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| Thursday, March 26th 2020 |
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| Sex Work shutdown |
It goes without saying that the sex industry in Europe has come to a halt. There are many blogs here where workers are outlining their position.
Its gratifying to see so many escorts shutting up shop for a while. We are no different from the rest of the population. We get ill and die also!
We must obey the govt instructions and rules. But many aren't. They think they are safe but this virus kills - no matter the age.
This site has a responsibility to its members. But at the moment I see no announcement from the site managers. They should encourage all members to refrain from any physical contact for the duration. Of course, they can only advise but this site has enortmous sway with customers and providers. I couldnt find one word outlining the govt restrictions and Adultwork saying they agree with them and asking all to follow them. Maybe I have missed a statement. But there's nothing on the Home Page.
Today I did a search of the site. I have tweeted my findings
I searched for "Available Today" escorts
(not cammers).
Results:
UK: total over 1200
London: over 450 (!)
Surrey: over 150
North West: over 100
West Mids: almost 100
Yorks/Hum: 90
Scotland: over 40
East Mids: 40
North East: just 10
Wales: 15
N.Ireland; 2
To be fair - looking through the profiles of who is working during this outbreak - a large number of the London escorts are from S.America and Eastern Europe. It appears huge numbers of excorts are isolating which is fantastic.
But we all know most guys think with their dicks and girls who would rather take risks than seeing their kids starve. But I bet many of the "Available today" escorts are simply greedy and stupid.
We must all stay safe and the next few weeks are going to be very difficult for all. But we will all come through this.
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| Tuesday, December 24th 2019 |
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| Parties and Health |
Following on from our last blog entry (ages ago - yes sorry!) about the HIV shutdown in Europe, there has been a lot of talk recently about sexual health and sex parties.
Professionally arranged sex parties in UK are big business. We are not talking swinger parties! Sometimes it's difficult to explain to swingers the difference between "pay" parties and swinger parties. Professional girls are booked (sometimes amateurs also) and the guests know the score. They pay to attend and fuck the girls. The girls are paid to fuck the guys. Respect is paramount on both sides. Girls will fuck any guest who is clean on the outside and respectful. But what about on the "inside"?
Girls are escorts or porn performers or both and are regularly tested for sexual viruses. But what about the guests?
Guests are called "civilians" which is a name given to anyone not working to the adult industry. Civilians don't need to be tested as regularly as sex workers but everyone who visits escorts or attend parties (swinger ones included) should be sti tested (ideally) every 3 months. Probably 6 months is good. Even annually. But so many don't get tested at all. This is either through laziness or ignorance or nerves or even fear!
The UK sex party scene is huge and very clean and safe. But there are big risks for all. Just because you use a condom for penetration doesn't mean you will be 100% safe. If you receive bare blowjobs you are at risk of many viruses. So is the party girl. Many are now stopping giving oral without.
This blog is written as we know many of our regulars and newbies read the blogs. We know its virtually impractical for all parties to have guests showing a recent test certificate but we want to encourage more party goers to seriously think about their sexual health (and their partners - if they have one).
You don't know if you're a carrier of a virus unless you are checked. It gives peace of mind for all.
We all love our dirty fun and nothing should stop us enjoying ourselves. But all fun comes with rules and conditions. Try and make this one of your rules in 2020. Get tested. Use the internet to see where your nearest GUM clinic is. Most are free and all you do is book an appointment. The NHS also provides a fantastic home testing service.
If you have any questions (not medical ones!) just message us.
Happy Horny 2020!!
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| Sunday, February 17th 2019 |
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| HIV Shut Down in Europe - Parties on hold |
Welcome to 2019!! It's a bit late I know but so far this year has already been a BIG year in the adult industry. To start with there has been a change with the Obscene Publications Act. Originally, sexual predilictions such as fisting, watersports, squirting, bdsm etc were classified illegal under the OPA. If these were broadcast via the media the CPS could prosecute the broadcaster. Now the OPA has been amended to de-criminalise these activities. In other words, if you made a video of yourself fisting someone or if you pee'd over a willing participant the CPS would probably look the other way or "use discretion" as they put it. This is a BIG DEAL in the battle against government control of what people want to see or do (in the media). Well done Myles Jackman and Pandora Blake who fought for this and continue fighting against control of our sex lives.
There has been an outbreak of HIV iwith a well known porn star (male) being diagnosed positive. He is patient zero and his co-performers have all been traced and are being tested. However no-one knows (yet) how many performers worked with any of patient zero's colleagues. Because of the seriousness of this outbreak the adult industry across Europe has shut down productions. This is not mandatory and some producers will continue to make porn and take the risk. Some party hosts will go ahead with their parties (especially if hiring porn performers) and risk putting the girls health at risk.
I have cancelled two Intimate Parties for late Feb and early March.
It's unsure at this stage how long the shut down will go on for. The hibernation period for HIV is approx 3 months so this shut down could be until Easter!!
We are keeping a close eye on the events unfolding in Spain where the outbreak occurred.
If you're unsure of your sexual health condition you are strongly advised to go to your nearest GUM clinic or - if you are in the London area to visit Dean St Express. Register online and make an appointment. You will be treated with courtesy and respect and you will be tested for all the most common viruses. Plus you will get a text the same day with your results. And it's totally free!! |
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| Saturday, September 1st 2018 |
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| Thoughts on Escort customers and Party guests |
Happy September!!
Summer is officially over and it's been a fantastic one! Great heatwave and everyone wearing next to nothing! Of course we don't body shame anyone but it might be a good idea if a few people looked in the mirror before they went out!!
We have many friends who are porn stars who escort and escorts who dabble in occasional porn work. So we get to hear first-hand the disrespect they are shown by men. Fortunately through the party scene the majority of guys/guests are polite in their initial contact. Most don't read the profile (we know it's a bit long) but if we wanted to go to an party for the first time we would certainly find out where it is, how much to be admitted and how long it lasts (plus which girls will be there). All this information is here on the profile but we constantly get people asking where the parties are held and so on. Escorts tell us the same thing. Most don't look further than the pictures and location. Perhaps many can't read.
These are the top dislikes by escorts (not in order):
1. No shows (these are the worst)
2. Guys who book and keep changing times
3. People who ask for directions/ask for nearest station
4. Customers who negotiate
5. Customers who get off on texting
6. Rude people. Showing no respect.
7. Customers who see you outside work and greet you like a friend.
8. People who ask for 15 min booking and expect you to get dressed in special outfit
9. Customers who book 2 hours then when they arrive say they can only do 30 mins.
10. Ones who say they are allergic to condoms.
11. Everyone who asks for anal (if it says on the profile you don't do)
12. Everyone who asks for watersports/hardsports
13. Guys who email you a book telling you (in tiny detail) what they require from booking.
14. Customers who call you "babe"
15. Customers who brag about their dick
16. Customers who ask for an overnight and aren't prepared to pay a deposit
17. Guys who want see more pictures of you
18. Customers who ask if you need pictures/video done (for free!)
19. People who don't understand it's a job. Even when "Not available" they phone at 3am.
20. Drunk and drugged up customers.
There are many more of course. Everyone has their pet hates. Mine is "When is the next party?" when it's clearly advertised here.
So just a few thoughts on the idiots we all have to put up with. Colour and age is no bar to idiocy. Fortunately there are many lovely customers around who know the meaning of the word Respect. They show politeness and it's these people we want to look after.
See you soon!!
xxx
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| Thursday, February 15th 2018 |
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| Reliability and Respect! |
Valentine Day has just passed and as there are a lot of "lonely" people in UK it's certain it's a day most "lonely" people would rather forget. It's no fun being unloved and alone in this big world. We know there are thousands of elderly folk who live solitary lives. This is very sad. But there are also thousands of younger guys and girls who want to enjoy life but in the company of someone else. ValentinesDay is another big commercial ruse to get everyone to spend money they dont have.
The rant this month is over people who are not Reliable (or cant make up their mind) and the lack of Respect there is in society.
Doing parties and photographic shoots has taught us one thing! Nothing happens until it happens. Every party guest is an individual with unique needs. But many party guests are just not reliable and we have to live with that problem. We dont have an open door policy - we get an exact number of guests and dont go over this. So when one of these guests doesnt show up or tell us why - it's also disrespectful.
In a similar way when a customer books an escort she will clear that time in her diary. When he doesnt show up she may already have turned away other customers. No Respect. It happens very frequently.
It's a human right to change your mind at last minute but the least that can be done is to tell us or the escort you are having to cancel.
Also good communication shows Respect and Reliability. Some guests are brilliant communicators - others are hopeless. Same with party girls or models. One model recently hadn't responded to a shoot date request for a week so another model was booked.
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| Sunday, December 31st 2017 |
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| Happy New Year and Looking forward!! |
Happy New Year to all our hundreds of party guests, subscribers and many fans!!
What an amazing year 2017 was!! So much happened!! Thank you to everyone who we met this year - we met a large number of new friends. Some have become regular party goers and others we hope to see when they find the time. To all of you - a huge
THANK YOU!!
Im not going to one of those stupid Review of the year things - just looking ahead at 2018.
This is going to be a very big year for the UK adult industry. Age verification was made law in April 2017 and the adult industry has been given a honeymoon year to get their house in order. The law will start being implemented on April 27th 2018. On that date any adult oriented website will need to confirm that the viewer/subscriber is 18 or over. This is done through add-on software or through a third party. If the BBFC (British Board of Film Classification - the appointed watchdog) wants to warn, fine or block an adult website without verification they can. Its clear they will certainly use their powers early on so everyone else will see they are serious. The industry is currently going through turmoil as no-one seems to know anything.
This applies to Adultwork also. In the next weeks/months this site will undergo a change where verification will be required for everyone. So if your not verified with AW it might be a good idea to do it! Obviously if youve purchased credits here or proved you are over 18 already then youve no worries.
This change in the law means the UK will be the most censored country in the western hemisphere. Other countries are watching with interest. Of course no -one wants kids watching porn but that's a whole different debate. How to prevent them? Education of kids and parents is the answer. Parents using controls more vigorously and understanding their children.
The party scene will continue but much smaller parties. We will be trying out different venues around London. The lovely Leia has a fantastic home and our Xmas party there was a big success! More to follow certainly!!
The porn shoot is definitely going ahead. Its been postponed for a year because of the fire. It will take place hopefully (!) in late Feb or early March. Still with Satine Spark of course!!
Please stay in contact with us and if you have any ideas or suggestions just message here. x |
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| Wednesday, November 29th 2017 |
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| Back to NORMALITY!! |
Perhaps not necessarily back to "Normality" more like back to more "Perversity" lol.
After being away from sunny Croydon for almost 8 months I am now back in my beautifully refurbished house. One side of me is sad as I had a blast in Hemel. We did great (smallish) parties and lots of shoots. Plus the summer weather was good and some of the shoots were outside in the local woods! (see picture)
Now I'm back on my home turf and really pleased to be able to get more parties under way and more shoots.
I am helping Leia (see her profile link at foot of main page) do her first parties at her lovely home near Notting Hill. The evening party was full within 48 hours so we decided to have a small afternoon one also. These will be Xmas parties. Im not doing a Xmas party at my house this year - but will be getting some dates together and post them here asap. The days of doing big parties in my house (ie 40 people plus) are over. I will be concentrating on the Intimate Parties - between 5 and 8 guests with between 2 and 4 party girls.
I have already shot Olga Cabaeva here and have another model (Red Rose) here next week. My friend Sammi (or Sammilicious) will be staying here for a couple of days and Leia herself is coming over to work next week. Eva Johnson and Sarah Jane are planning to visit soon also.
I also intend to do more fetish related events in 2018. Foot worshipping and strap on parties are being considered.
I am proud to say I have been elected to the committee of UKAP for 2018. I hope I can contribute as much as possible.
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| Thursday, September 28th 2017 |
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| Changing Times!! |
Yes still in Hemel area. But about to move back to sunny Croydon!! Just updated profile so hopefully we'll be seeing our friends again. Its been a long time as you know. Its been quiet on party world here because lots of friends couldnt travel north to join in the fun!! Like we are on MARS???? We get people coming from Scotland!!
But times are changing again and hopefully in next few weeks we will be back in our normal residence!! Come and say hello!
But we have been busy lol. So many shoots with so many amazing girls. Some of who might come to a future party who knows!!
Unfortunately at moment there is a virus outbreak in Budapest so many porn productions are shutting down for a 30 day moratorium. This was well reported in press but the usual gossip has started. Everyone thinks they are medically trained!! The clinics will advise. But it does put into the debate of doing bareback sex. Even porn performers can get a virus.
We have a small gb tomorrow night with a new girl and just 4 guests. A nice 5some!! Stay tuned!! |
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| Wednesday, June 28th 2017 |
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| Latest news!! |
For those who read this blog - welcome back!!
Yes we're still in the Hemel area and loving it!! Parties are under way and a Mistress/sub event is planned for end of July. In August we're trying a new angle - appear in a porn film!! Many people fantasise over porn and would love to be in an adult movie - but only a few actually get to do it!! So we decided to shoot a porn movie and invite a load of people along to fulfill their fantasy!! Its been postponed twice because of various reasons but its set to go ahead in early August. We're insisting on STI checks for everyone - this is good as sexual health is vital. So many people haven't been anywhere near a clinic and if they see escorts and attend parties it's important they go and get checked. In these days of the internet there is no excuse not to know where your local GUM clinic is and the process. We go to Dean St Express in London. They are amazing and you can register online. You will be given results in hours. Porn people get certificates to show they are "clean" and this is what we are asking guests at the porn shoot to do.
Other events are planned but unfortunately some of our regulars cant come and see us here in Hemel area. Too far they say lol. However we have been contacted by new friends in this area.
Stay tuned!!
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| Wednesday, May 10th 2017 |
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| Events Postponed!! |
We have received so many messages asking why we are postponing events/parties/shoots/filming etc. The reason is we had a fire at our house and the smoke caused quite a lot of damage. Fortunately everyone was safe and fine. We were not in the house when the fire started.
But this does not mean all our fun will stop! Far from it - we have been offered other venues by friends (& fuckbuddies lol). We had our first party last week in Richmond and it was fantastic!! A young Asian girl came with a guest and - although nervous at first - she finished up fucking anyone who had a cock and the girls leapt on her also - rubbing pussies into her mouth! A great addition to a special event.
We will be renovating the property over the next 2/3 months so events will be held at other venues.
Our base will be near Hemel Hempstead. The owner is a party guest and connected to the adult industry via a well known porn company based in Portsmouth. Shoots and events are often held in his house.
To everyone who wanted to be involved in next instalment of Persuaded to Watch - just be patient. This will take place eventually - maybe in July.
Parties will continue but be smaller numbers (probably no more than 12 people in total). Our (girl) friends will still be available to have fun - its just a temporary change of location lol.
Hope to hear from you soon!!
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| Wednesday, April 5th 2017 |
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| Whats a Content Shoot? |
Had some great parties since last blog. We came together with House of Poitier in Sutton to do our first joint party. Was a huge success!! All our friends came and lots of great guests. It was Chanel's birthday so we got our sexy little minx a birthday cake of course! Everyone stopped fucking for five minutes to give our special friend a treat!! No - not a giant cake in shape of a cock - a normal cake with candles. We all dived in lol. There was quite a mess at end but who cares - we all had a great time!!
We get asked about doing content (shoots) with girls from this site and other sites. Many girls here in AW rely on good quality content to attract business and have different ways of getting images and videos. Some use their boyfriends/girlfriends or partners - others get a professional in - some are mailed with offers of content "share" (ie no money changes hands) and others even try do it themselves!!
Having a partner do your pics is often best method as its someone trusted but often the partner has no idea how to portray their modelling partner to their best. A professional can charge lots depending on their status. Trying to do it yourself is ok as people like selfies and shows the girl is (at least) willing to show themself.
Many girls in AW get contacted by content providers. These vary from guys looking for free sex and again have no idea how to get best images and/or video to people with lots of experience who do it as they enjoy it and mostly don't ask for compensation.
Recently it has been brought to our attention of one particular photographer (no names) who smooth talks the girls and they let him manage their profile (as part of a group). Overall there's nothing wrong in what he does as his pics aren't that bad and he does work hard on managing the girls profiles. But if a girl upsets him in any way, he makes sure they know about it. He has contacted our friends and we do know he has been responsible for getting one of our (male) friends profiles de-activated. We think because if our friends profile is down he can take over his female friends content work. Very sneaky!! But friends are loyal!!
Fortunately there aren't many content providers like him in AW. The site is very strict on making sure profiles are genuine and obey the T&C - thank God. This is a great site and has helped many of us with our work.
On another note - The Digital Economy Bill becomes law this month. Watch this space as the honeymoon period (12 months) draws to a close.
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| Sunday, January 29th 2017 |
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| Nun shoot and into 2017!! |
Last week we did our first NUN shoot!! We went to House of Poitier where we are doing a joint party in March. This house was perfect for a naughty nun shoot!! Very fortunate in having Satine Spark as the nervous novice nun who was collecting for charity! Unluckily (or luckily) for her she rang the bell of a very naughty house lol. Once inside the two dommes (Leia Organa and Amber West) took her under their control and finished up taking advantage of a young nun who had never experienced women sex!! Videos and pictures all done and we will post some of them here in AW soon. Stay tuned!!
We had a small party with the staggeringly beautiful and insatiable Eva Johnson a few days ago. Such a wild crazy night. Just 5 guests who all gave the lovely Eva their cocks and cum. She is such a great party girl - loves sex and parties. She's here again soon with the amazing Zara Day.
Tempest Raven is having her birthday party on 10th Feb so some of her many friends will be coming to it. We limited the numbers this time - just 10 male friends and 5 of her girlfriends. Will report back after how it went.
Also MAJOR news!! Many parties are held by the House of Poitier people. We've done parties in their big house several times. Over the past 3/4 years we've discussed possibility of doing joint parties but for various reasons we couldn't get a party off the ground. Now it's happening on March 24th!! So our inaugural party is going ahead! It will be themed but we have no idea (yet) of the theme. Any suggestions?
Finally - please think carefully when you want to book a girl. There are still so many time wasters out there. We get many messages from people who ask the silliest questions about parties and other things. Just read the profile (or some of it anyway) and think before you write a message. Fortunately there are many genuine and polite guests who we can't thank enough for their good attitude and consideration.
Also - with Trump now trumping everything with his autocratic style, Brexit about to kick off, the Conservatives about to censor the web, Labour a totally spent force, Russia resurgent - maybe it's time to forget our problems and party like there's no tomorrow. Which there probably won't be lol
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| Sunday, December 18th 2016 |
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| End of 2016 - Start of 2017!! |
2016 has to be the craziest year in the history of crazy years. with Trump in charge in USA and UK leaving EU - the changes going on in the world are scary for many people. Rich getting richer and poor getting much poorer. We live in a hugely divided society. Sometimes we feel doing sex parties tends to take people's minds off problems for a few hours.
In 2016 we cut back on the bigger parties (ie between 20 and 40 people) and concentrated on smaller, more intimate ones. These proved to be very popular. The sizes varied between 2 girls with 5/6 guests and 4 girls with 8-10 guests and combinations in between. Much more chilled and relaxed and easy going. New guests enjoyed the atmosphere. Big parties take a LOT of arranging and can be crowded and noisy. Smaller ones are easier to plan for and the girls love them.
We started doing our cafe themed parties in August and September - these were a huge hit!! Being served lunch or afternoon tea by very sexy waitresses who you can play with for dessert! These will be continued in 2017.
We just had our biggest party of the year - XMAS party with almost 40 people. Hours of endless fun lol. 12 girls came plus special female guests who were unexpected.
Our party girls want more fun in 2017 so will have to think up new party themes!!
Finally....
A word about "immigration" and sex workers.
We all remember the bad jokes about Polish plumbers and how you could get a better job done at a much cheaper price.
Well, the same thing has happened to the escorting business. With the influx of Eastern Europeans in all sectors they have taken control of the market in certain areas. Here in Croydon the majority of independent working ladies are either Romanian or Hungarian. Their rates are far less than other nationalities and most of the girls look amazing - young(ish) and very good at what they do. Infact the feedback we hear about these girls is first rate. We hear more complaints about British girls than Romanian ones. So other nationalities either have to cut their rates to compete or (possibly) get less business. The old adage - you pay for what you get - isnt always true. I like shopping at both Waitrose and Lidl. I get fantastic items at both. Many guys dont see a girl for conversation - so what if the Romanian girl cant speak much English - she is very fit and fucks like a porn star and she's almost half the price of that local girl. Most girls live off their regulars and seeing new customers is the icing on the cake. But many girls tell us that their new customers are becoming less and less. Guess who they're going to see now!!
We believe 2017 will see two things happening:
1. The sex worker industry will be affected by more overseas girls coming to work in the big city areas before the borders become more difficult for migration.
2. More Government control over porn and adult media once the DEB is passed into law in March 2017. Then the Govt will be able to restrict access to sites unless age verification is completed. This great site will possibly come under that legislation. So will new and existing customers to AW be forced to verify their ages? Who knows.
Have a great Xmas and see you in 2017 (we hope!!)
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| Tuesday, October 11th 2016 |
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| Future Parties!! |
PARTY FUTURE DETAILS
We had a great time at the two recent parties (the Cafe themed ones) and the guests and girls (or waitresses lol) enjoyed all sorts of sexy dishes lol. But it has been decided that these could be our last parties for quite some time. Why?
Its difficult to explain why - after 7 years of doing parties - we have decided to take a break.
We provide a "service" - which is an environment for people to have a good time - to have fun and do what they want (within reason!). At "normal" parties guys will be eyeing up the girls and thinking "I'd love to have fun with her" but the girl is usually with a boyfriend or husband or even "out of their league". At "fun parties" the guys/guests can chat to the girls and play with them as the girls are up for fun!! Everyone knows the score and in an atmosphere with music, drinks, lights and noise everyone can have a blast for a few hours.
But (as in any business) a huge amount of work goes into making the party a success which the end user does not see or know about.
Over the past few months, organising parties has become a chore and we are finding that more and more time wasters are out there. We answer every email politely even though some emails are written by neanderthals who can barely write. We started getting "abuse" from guys if we said the party was full or when we tell them the cost of admittance. Because we have a deposit system which ensures we get accurate numbers and therefore one of the best ratios of any party anywhere this involves more work. Then people cancel and deposits are refunded or people change their minds. Yes - we know this is "life" - but having done parties for so long we truely believe it's time to take a step back and put the parties on hold for a while.
There is also a shortage of top rate party girls. You will think - that's impossible - there are hundreds of girls on AW all saying they are "party girls". Well, sorry to disappoint you but these are not party girls. They do not know how to socialize at parties which (for us) is the most important quality. The other activities are expected but many girls simply have no idea how to interract with guests. We have had to say goodbye to several of our party girls over the past few months - they have either left the business, moved overseas or far away, got married and not doing parties, having babies (!) etc etc. We still have a fabulous core of girls who never let us down and are amazing. But again - trying to co-ordinate their availability can be difficult. With fewer girls its tough to ensure the right girls are at the parties.
We get requests every week (usually 4 or 5) from girls who want to come and party. In previous blogs we've explained why the majority are unsuitable. One particular girl who sounded perfect (Irish, 30s, gorgeous, intelligent and very articulate) but she lives in Portsmouth and is very popular in the area so we havent been able to get dates where she can party with us. Another girl we were keen on working with - beautiful, fun, also 30s,- she travels and tours - but again difficult to co-ordinate a party date around her tours. We still get enquiries from young girls (ie below 25) and we always see if these girls match the professionalism of the milfs/gilfs. Their communication skllls are very poor (as per blog March 1st) and they still confirm our view of the younger party wannabees.
We're carrying on doing the small "Intimate" small parties (ie approx 5/6 guests with 2/3 girls) but the days of the 30-40 people parties are over for us!! Sorry!!
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