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Tuesday, May 16th 2017
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A little bit of what you fancy
I've upped my training and tightened my diet recently to stop an upward weight gain spiral in it's tracks, and also improve my general level of fitness in preparation for a sponsored walk I've entered. Morning powerwalks, and tightening my diet on top of my usual training regime have really made a difference. I have only lost a couple of pounds, yet can feel and see my body getting tighter by the day My size 10 jeans are fitting much better, and this is the first time I've not yo-yo'd up to a 12/14 which is an old pattern of mine.

In the last few months I have made arrangements so that I can now offer a couple of incall bookings each week. I am still primarily outcall focused, however if you cannot accommodate an outcall, and can read the information on my bookings page (and if new, or haven't seen me for a while new clients page) there is now the option to see me incall.

In the last week I have had a short professional photo shoot, I came away with 4 quality images a couple of which I have posted on my profile. They show off my trim curves really very well, and I was so pleased that I treated myself to a meal out afterwards. The sticky toffee pudding and ice cream dessert reminded me why I avoid such things, I only ever want more and it's much easier to not have it in the first place. So lovely treat over, I was back on the usual food and training the following morning.

Every so often a little bit of what you fancy does do you good.

Until the next time
Ruth x

Sunday, April 30th 2017
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Something new
I've decided to try something new, and alter my photography policy.

As you'll know I like to have a mixture of professional photos, and photos taken by myself. A few clients have said they'd like to take a photo, and I've decided that so long as I can have the option to use the photos on my AW profile, I will be happy to allow in-session photos to be taken using my equipment (camera or phone). I'll then forward suitable images to you either by email, text message or if you can supply one, on a memory stick at our next session. I'll need to know in advance of your booking if you'd like me to bring my camera, otherwise we'll use the camera built into my phone.

If at anytime I feel uncomfortable I reserve the right to decline, and I'm sure you'll understand the need for these rules. I'm hoping to make this work so both you and I can benefit.

Warm regards
Ruth

Sunday, March 5th 2017
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Boundaries
Boundaries are important in all areas of life, in work, play, leisure and incredibly important when being an Escort.

One of the problems I've been having for quite a long time has been boundary pushing. Boundary pushing can take many forms, all of which leave myself feeling a bit yueck. Boundary pushing is often thought of as only happening withing bookings, if and when this happens I will make my feelings known to the client so it they can be quite clear about the problem.

Sometimes boundary pushing happens outside the booking, and even without having ever met.

I've experienced quite a lot of this over the years, and have tried to rectify this by being very clear in all my communication, adverts and this profile. I keep everyone up-to-date whether it's at point of enquiry, or in my blogs etc.

Recently I've gone to a lot of effort and worked very heard to make it so easier for some clients to see me. Unfortunately despite me keeping folk up-to-date, making it clear what is and isn't on offer, quite a few people have continued to chance their arm and ask 'just in case'. I know they've read my profile, it would seem they have an 'if you don't ask, you don't get' attitude. To me being on the end of some of this feels very much like constant harassment, and as if nothing I can do is ever good enough.

Ever since I made major changes to the way in which I accept bookings, I've had a lot of clients and potential clients ask me to explain myself, and even tried to persuade me to break my basic boundaries.

From now on if I receive an enquiry which is clearly pushing my boundaries, I will be simply not willing to take the risk and will not be advising them not to contact me again This will also apply retrospectively to anyone I feel uncomfortable about. In my experience if someone behaves in this way, it's a good indication that they will continue to try and push the envelope time and time again. I used to give a lot of chances, being very patient and helpful, and I'm afraid I've had to learn the hard way.

I chose to work in a way which works for me, which I am comfortable with which is the whole point of being a self-employed, independent Escort. I only want to accept bookings with clients who respect my decisions, and I do meet some wonderful clients who are able to do just this. One thing that does come out of all this is a real appreciation of those clients who just don't feel the need to push boundaries, they make everything worthwhile and are a pleasure to spend time with.


Saturday, January 7th 2017
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Communication
Happy New Year all, I hope you had a great festive season. The New Year is often the time, when clients new to me decide to take the plunge and get in touch for the first time.

This week has highlighted a few issues with this, and so in an effort to iron out a few frustrations on both sides I thought I'd clear a few things up.

Firstly my phone does reject withheld numbers, if you phone and only ever get voicemail please do check that your number is not withheld. A very frustrated message was left on my voicemail this week, by a man who had phoned at the time when I said I'd be free to speak, yet his call didn't ring out because his number was one which is withheld. This particular person did leave me a number on which to call him back, which is absolutely fine and something I will do if and only if explicitly requested. Unfortunately the number left didn't work, I listed to it several times, yet each time I phoned I only got the dead tone of 'number not operational'.

Talking of numbers not operating, my phone number does work, if however you have sent me a text AND are someone new to me (having not got to the making a definite booking stage) or using a new number, my phone will issue an auto reply advising that the number doesn't accept text messages. The number will however accept your phone call. The information on my Booking, and New Clients section does explain that I don't use text messaging with new clients. Once we've gotten a definite booking, deposit paid, and we've had at least one phone call, I am happy to use text messaging for on the day confirmation and then to arrange future bookings.

Do remember that you can phone me at any time, if I do not wish to be disturbed, or it's not convenient my phone will be turned off, and my voicemail greeting set to advise a good time to call me back. I will not phone you back unless you specifically ask me to. Sometimes I'm asked "Can I call you?", "When is a good time to call?", it's a bit like how long is a piece of string, if I say 2.30pm tomorrow something may change, or I could get a booking for that time. Please just phone when you are able, you cannot intrude and no time is too early - if I'm sleeping the phone is off, simple. If I pick up it's because I want to pick up.

Ok so you may decide you prefer to email in the first instance, which is absolutely fine. A few have asked me a variety of questions, with the aim of 'making things easy' for me. The way to make things easy is to read and understand the information on this profile, once again my Bookings and New clients sections explain the information I need you to provide when you get in touch. If you can do this that is the biggest thing which will make things easy for me.

Yay, I'm so glad we've gotten all that cleared up. My phone number is displayed because I want accept your call or email.

All the best for the start of 2017
Ruth x
Thursday, November 10th 2016
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Weekend away
This last weekend I went away to Whitby Goth festival, I've attended this event a couple of times in past years, but not for a few years.

The drive over is quite long, approximately 3 hours not including breaks, it was late at night when we arrived at the B&B.

The next day I got my training in, then got dressed up to go out. If you've never heard of Whitby Goth it's a festival based in the town, in which you can participate or simple be there to see the amazing costumes. I'm more of a casual, hippy sort of Goth - I have a fab pair of very distinctive New Rock boots, which I like to wear with a pleated mini skirt, corset, and blouse or polo neck top. Woolly tights, long coat, hat, gloves and scarf are a must because of the Whitby weather. This year the weather was particularly bad, with a wind so strong I was blown onto some parked cars. It was actually really scary, and combined with the crowds in the town really restricted my activities.

Despite the weather I did manage to get a morning coffee at the famous Sherlocks coffee shop, and also went out to a Steam Punk night at the rifle club. Brass Zeppelin were headlining, they played steam punk versions of very well known rock & heavy metal songs. The sound set up added to their character, and a slideshow displayed the altered words so you could keep up. My favourite was Nights when I've Sat In, a play on Nights in White Satin. It was really funny and also reminded me of a scene in Heartbeat when Nights in White Satin accompanied the burning down of a farm during a foot and mouth epidemic.

I came away from Whitby feeling refreshed, and windswept. A 3 hour drive back over the North York moors, followed by the Pennines finished my trip away.
Wednesday, November 9th 2016
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Keeping in touch
In the last week I've had a lovely coffee meet and my first overnight in just about 1 year. I also have a blog about red lipstick planned, but for now I'd like to get some business-stuff out of the way.

What I'd like to talk about right now is expressions of interest in future bookings. Eighteen months ago I changed the way in which I work, I moved to a slightly different location and ceased regular incalls. At the same time quite a few clients asked me to keep them informed of any incall opportunities, and indeed I have been about to offer these every 6-8 weeks. Others also wished to know if I was ever closer to them, to make out or incall more convenient.

Over the last 18 months I have indeed done just this, texting or emailing those who have given me permission. As a result I have several clients who respond and are able to arrange to make the incalls on a fairly regular basis. There are however some clients for whom the location, timing, date just isn't convenient. This is fair enough and completely understandable, so I get in touch the next time. If he can make it, brilliant, if not I'll let him know the time after that. There are some I've been contacting for a long time now, it's never convenient and sending the messages out for the same reply does start to become a little self-defeating. I've therefore decided that to be included in my circle of contacts when opportunities arise for these incalls I need you to be able to make at least 1 booking in a year, or even better 6 months.

Anyone who I don't notify is however still more than welcome to respond to any incall days, or other town visits I mention on my profile, and I'll be more than happy to make arrangements see you. If you've only ever seen me once or twice ever and there's a long gap, I may also require a deposit to be paid just as I do with new clients or anyone else who's not seen me for a long time. My aim is to make arrangements with clients who are reliable, willing and able to commit. Please also remember if I don't want to see you, I will say so, there's no guessing with me!

Warm regards
Ruth

Thursday, September 8th 2016
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Thank you
A couple of great bookings in the last few days has brought me out of what I can only describe as a 'dour' time for me.

Both were quite different, both gave me a kick up the backside and brought me back to life.

What struck me most was when someone explained they'd chosen me because they figured I was bright enough, experienced enough to be understanding and accepting. Also to provide that caring human touch.

This is exactly what I aim to do, I'm no swinging from chandeliers, shoving things into various orrifices type pornstar and I don't pretend to be. I am an attractive woman who will just 'be' and go with whatever you bring. This doesn't mean I lie back and 'bear' it, any booking is always a two-way street, and I will let you know in a constructive, non-confrontational way if there's anything which is not working for me.

All the best, with warm wishes
Ruth x
Thursday, September 1st 2016
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Overnights and dinner dates changes for September
I've decided that after a long, successful period this year I'm now going to start easing off the strict diet and training regime. My aim is to recover, be a little more relaxed, whilst getting stronger ready for my next competitive bout next year.

The main change for anyone interested in my Escort availability is that Dinner dates and Overnight bookings will now be possible once again.

A dinner date is usually 4 hours outcall including a meal, plus private time and this can be at any time, evening or lunchtime. True northerners have dinner at midday!

Overnights often start at 6.30pm running through to 8am the following morning. I require at least 5-6 hours sleep during an overnight, and meals are totally optional I really do not mind, but do need to know what to expect at the time you place your booking.

It's also worth noting I am tee-total, and drug-free. This means I'm totally unsuitable for a boozy overnight or dinner, and it's also not polite to try and persuade me to 'go on just have one'.

If you like to bring a gift a scented candle is still always preferable, to cheese or chocolate.

The changes in my regime do mean a change in my figure, I'll no longer be as ripped and lean as I have been. I won't suddenly become unfit overnight, I will be gaining a few pounds but at the moment I'm still a firm size 8-10 and weigh at least 8-10 lbs less than I did at the beginning of this year. So if you like a slightly softer look, but still athletically slim and firm, it's time to make a booking! Photos in my gallery have dates written against them so you can look back for comparison, and I will post some recent ones when they become available.

I look forward to some great times ahead.

Ruth x
Friday, August 26th 2016
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An opportunity
There may be a future opportunity for me to offer a few incalls on a regular basis, this will only be for previous reliable regular clients, or those who are willing to show personal ID and make a significant deposit.

If you are interested do get in touch using the telephone number, email or username in which you have booked me in the past. These details are essential so I can recognise the nature of our previous relationship. Telling me you are 'John the one with a smile' or describing where you visited me will not do that.

Please be as helpful as possible, and I will reciprocate.

Best regards(and slightly excited)
Ruth x
Monday, August 15th 2016
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Please don't be disappointed
A couple of potential clients in the last few months have tried to book me at a time when, for various reasons I am not available. In an effort to persuade me to see them they have innocently tried offering drinks and dinner, and I've a feeling they have been disappointed when I've said "No thank you".

Someone who I had seen once or twice a few years ago, recently offered me some delightful snacks and really wished me to indulge in a glass of wine with him.

It isn't a secret that am totally tee-total. Alcohol once threatened to end my life, and it was certainly ruining it. In the end I managed to get to a point where I was able to quit, and my life has totally turned around as a result of that decision. It therefore truly surprises me when someone who I've mentioned this to even says "just one glass?".

Success in my sport requires me to adhere to a very strict diet, and fairly heavy training schedule. Even if they could cater to my very exact requirements, sitting in a restaurant near delicious tastes and smells is more akin to self-torture. I just do not wish to be there! Even when I'm not in serious training mode, I still exert quite a bit of control so that I don't end up having to work harder the next time around. This doesn't mean I don't like food, I'm simply very focused and on the very rare occasion I do eat out (usually a 4 hour window post-competition) it's at a very specific time when I'm just not available. There will be a time at the end of the year when I will want to eat out, but that time isn't yet.

So don't be offended when I say no thank you.

If you are new to me and wanting to make a booking what I do need is your name, the time, location, duration and how you'll be paying your deposit. Keeping it simple is all I require, and if it's possible I most certainly will make sure I make your day.

Gifts are never expected, nor a requirement but if you do then wish to give me a real treat, a scented Neom candle, or pack of decaff ground coffee suitable for stove-top expresso makers will be much more appreciated than any meal, chocolates or wine. Itunes vouchers also help me add to my ever growing music library, some of which I use to create playlists to accompany me during training sessions.

All the best
Ruth x
Sunday, July 10th 2016
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Having fun
The last couple of weeks have been a bit more relaxed than usual, I now have quite a long period until my next competition, so the heat has been off a little. It is however time to get serious again.

I am really enjoying being so fit and lean, I've also gotten into running again and recently entered and completed my first park run. I finished high up in my age group (40-44), and was really pleased to do so. My current training isn't for running, it's to acheive a certain look and I'm often running 'unfuelled' ie in energy deficit in order to reduce bodyfat. I only do 2 running sessions per week, this is one steady run of around 5-6km and one hill sprint session. Running has been recommended for tightening my bum even further, as well as providing higher intensity than the power walks, cycling and x-trainer work which have been the staple of my regime. Weight training continues as usual which is 5 days per week, mostly free weights including big lifts (squats, deads, benche press, shoulder press) with a bit of machine and cable work.

The diet has to get strict again since I had a few too many relaxed (read over the top) days recently. I have a couple of months to get into the best shape of my life, get even leaner than the photos on this profile and see if I can acheive my ultimate goal. If I don't then I've had a great summer and will be focusing on one target next year.

In the meantime I am currently a little softer than some of my most recent photos, amazing what a bit of rebound glycogen and water can do - thanks to some chocolate florentines and a few other things last week. If you prefer to see me not quite so 'hard' the next few days and perhaps week is the time to see me, after that I promise I'm going to be back to that sort of standard pretty quickly!

My figure is still around a size 8, I'm sat in a pair of size 8 jeans right now and they seem to fit very well indeed. I'm very small and it's really enjoyable. I've ordered a new set of lingerie this week to show off on my fabulously fit figure, Pleasure State Trixie Lou. I really wanted the camisole top but the supplier had sold out, so it's just the knicker and bra I've got. I didn't realise the colours are actually a navy blue with shell pink until it arrived. I'm not sure whether to wear navy or neutral stockings with them, I think either would work really well.

Perhaps you'll get a taste of Trixie on your next booking?

My availability is now a bit better than it has been, a college course I was attending has now finished. Whilst I may be starting a new venture very soon, I now have slightly more hours available. My training and diet regime means that whilst I can be very flexible and do only accept one booking each day of availability, I do usually need advance booking. This is partly so I can plan out my training and diet for the day, as well as making sure I'm not already booked. Some days if I'm not booked I will also accept personal commitments, and like any commitment I make in any area of my life, I won't change it - it's set in stone. So do make sure you get in touch with as much notice as possible, then we can go ahead and make arrangements to have a great time.

Warm wishes
Ruth x
Thursday, June 30th 2016
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Rant alert!
Perhaps this will be a rant, perhaps it won't be.

My blog is usually fairly peaceful however some things have been causing me some issues recently, and I'd like to take time to put some of it here.

Ok in the last year or so the emphasis of my Escorting has changed, I moved area slightly and only accept outcall bookings. Because of high unreliability from some clients I started asking for deposits for the first booking, and that has on the whole worked really well. Some have even opted to pay their entire booking and done the same for future bookings this way.

I really enjoy Escorting because it's damn exciting, I love going out dressed up and making someone's evening or afternoon, day or morning.

I have specifically laid out my booking requirements on my profile, what I need from any potential client. I also back this up by explaining the information, and steps I need to anyone who is interested in making a booking.

What I like is to be able to arrange and agree a booking, then get on with my day happy that everything is in place for a definite booking. I can plan my other activities out, get ready, travel and arrive relaxed ready to do the exciting bit.

Unfortunately I'm finding that even after laying this out quite clearly, I'm having to chase up and 'extract' even the simple basics, sometimes having to ask 2 or 3 times. This is usually done by text or email, and although I have heard that for some people texting and emailing is the most convenient for them, all it does is distract and detract from my other activities and my occupation. In fact texting or emailing isn't allowed whilst I'm practicing my other job, certainly not compatible with my sports training nor driving or cycling to places where I carry out these things.

In short new bookings are affecting my day, and spoiling the pleasure and excitement.

For this reason I've decided this could be a sign to step back, certainly from taking new client enquiries.

I would like to take the opportunity to recognise the new clients who have been absolutely fabulous, who have provided me with everything I need for my screening and booking confirmation, without having to go around the houses for it. You're most appreciated, it also shows me that it can be done, but at the moment the can't be done guys are overwhelming me!

So for now I'm going to say that I am going to focus on the regular clients who I've built up a pattern with. If you are new to me, have read the information on this profile and can provide the information I require when requested, I will be very happy to accept your booking, and give you a hearty warm welcome.

If you have seen me several times and get in touch with a new name or number, you must provide previous contact details (phone/email/AW name used). Telling me you are 'Dave' and describing my fixtures and fittings isn't enough. I need to know that we had a good relationship, also that you have been reliable in the past (and telling me you are reliable I'm afraid won't wash!).

Thanks for reading through this, I hope you can bear with me whilst I work out where I am going. Things are happening this summer which need my attention, Escorting is a fun sideline for me and I wish it to stay this way.

All the best
Ruth x
Friday, June 10th 2016
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Summer's here
.....and it's wonderful, at long last it's warm enough to wear clothing which shows off my figure. No need to pile on the jumpers and fleece jackets, I can come straight out of the gym in crop top and short shorts, cycle home showing off my ripped arms, legs and a six pack instead of hiding it from the world. I'm absolutely loving it.

I'm still competing at the moment, and although at times it's a real battle with the strict diet, 2-3 hours per day training, plus all the other little details I have to get right for an actual competition I'm aiming to stay tight for a little bit longer.

Quite a few clients are really enjoying this, and are totally supportive. A couple have however asked me to 'not lose any more weight'. This isn't helpful, and it isn't anything to do with them. My body and my goals are my own concern to do with how I wish. I also am going to do everything in my power to do my very best in competition. If that requires me lowering my bodyfat further, then so be it. To tell me to 'not do well' - which is what "Ooh don't lose weight love" is, is really totally selfish and unthoughtful. It also makes me feel anger and hurt. I'd rather surround myself with those people who are totally supportive, understanding and who want me to do well, that is what I truly appreciate.

So I'm carrying on, and will be in competition shape at least until July, and if I do as well as I would like to, up until the end of September. Once this season is over I won't be going to seed, as I have done in the past. This year marks the achievement of greater control, and overcoming some dieting issues which means an end to the yo-yoing with weight which has plagued me for many years. Whilst I will let my bodyfat reach healthier-than-now-levels I still aim to be very fit, and trim permanently.

In the meantime had a few enquiries from men who really want to see me whilst I'm in this current amazing shape, so I'm looking forward to meeting them and having my hard work appreciated.

As you'll see from my 'bookings' page I'm able to accept some appointments on certain dates in the Lancaster area during July, and I'm making a very rare visit to London in October 2016. Specific dates and times are listed in the write up in that section. If you'd like to make a definite booking get in touch providing me with the date(s), time(s) and duration you'd like. I'll then reply with what is or isn't possible.

Do note that incalls and visiting different areas are not something I do on a regular basis, it doesn't fit with my lifestyle, training or study commitments, and I'm not someone who wants to see numerous clients (so often isn't financially beneficial). The reason I'm stating this is that it can be disappointing when I have to repeatedly tell someone that no, there are no other dates for visits or incalls in the pipeline.

So if you can make the days listed, that's fabulous, if not you'll have to keep popping by to read my blog (if you can bear it!), and keep up with the info on my bookings page.

Serious stuff over, it's time to eat, followed by some coursework for the fitness trainer (PT) course I'm currently working on......training later this afternoon, then a very naughty booking tonight before a weekend of, well I'll tell you about that next week.

Best wishes
Ruth x

Friday, May 6th 2016
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Reverse bookings
I've received a couple of requests in the last few months, to take a look at reverse bookings (RBs) placed by interested potential clients who are visiting the area.

The first one which was brought to my attention, I couldn't access because he'd only stipulated women up to the age of 39. At first I didn't realise this, and it was only by trial and error that I was able to discover the real reason why. So when placing RBs do be sure that you have included your target audience in the particulars given, if you wish them to be able to view and of course bid.

There is a reason I don't bid on RBs, this reason is that whilst I am interested in seeing new clients, it doesn't make sense for me to bid at a lower rate. The time I have available for Escort bookings is more than likely to be taken, or already booked directly at my usual rate. If not then I use that time to do some of the many other things I have in my life.

I am quite honest about being difficult to book, my screening process is very high and although you might consider yourself to have great feedback, I have had a great time meeting with men who haven't any feedback, and have had a terrible time with some with positive lists as long as your arm.

The only time I'd consider making a bid would be if the booking was to an event or place I really really wanted to visit. Once upon a time 3 years ago, I did spot such a reverse booking however I'd already bought my own tickets and arranged to go with a very close friend, none of which could be cancelled. I wrote to the RB telling him how much I would have loved to have attended, that we'd be there at the same time, if only I'd seen his RB sooner.

At the moment due to my training, dieting and other commitments I do not wish to accept longer bookings, dinner dates or travel out of the south lakes area, so this type of booking isn't attractive to me.

In the meantime I'm happy seeing the people who do wish for the type of bookings I do offer, and hope Reverse Bookers find someone who can meet their requirements.

Best regards
Ruth x


  

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