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Tuesday, December 18th 2018

Sparkles and partys and beautiful shoes xx

Hi guys how are you all?

I hope that you are all really good, I have been a little MIA the past few weeks, and because I like to keep it real on here I will be honest and say that I have been struggling a little bit with my mental health, I am feeling so much better now, but the past 2 weeks were really hard for me, I did the mimimum amount of work, just focusing on regular clients and webcam clients, the good thing for being on adultwork so long is that I have met some lovely clients who really understand what I am about and know when I have good days and not so good days. It is so hard for me when I have these periods of feeling crap, I have no idea why but I know that there have been a few triggers, I obviously wont go into everything here, but I wont also pretend like everything is okay because thats not fair to the people that read here at all, we are all allowed to not be okay once in a while and its important to reach out and talk to people, to identify what has happed or triggerd things and to reevaluate, sometimes its just about acceptance, sometimes we are just generally flat. For me I have managed to use some lovely self care in order to feel a little better, and for the other part it is just about being able to wake up every morning and be positive. I just want to say that If any of my clients or other ladies are struggling with there mental health I am here, to talk, learn and listen, without judgment. Whatever it is, I know it seems so huge and scary and painful now, but please just try and cling to the fact that it will not seem that way forever, that you are loved, and that you my dear are enough. To those that have tried to book with me and I haven't replayed to your emails or messages or phonecalls I have really tried my best but when you are that bad it feels so overwelming, so please, if you would like to book send me a text and I will try my best to see you.

Anyway I am feeling so much better now, and I am hoping that the christmas joy will soon creep up, the decorations are up ( will post a pic of my tree on twitter for those that want to see it) and I have a smile on my face, but I arnt really feeling very festive yet, I am trying not to put pressure on myself though and just accept it. On friday I had my charity work chrsitmas party (thats my pic on here) and on thursday I have a dinner dance with friends and family so a dance and a boogie and some food might put me in the festive spirit. I have a new sparkle dress I wore on friday that I might wear on thursday but not sure yet, you will have to let me know what you think? its not my usual style, but I kind of liked it in a way, I didnt want to have my boobs out too much because its a family party, does sophisticated do it? or do you prefer busting out of her dress lucy? maybe I should wear the dress that I wore on my birthday in london? who knows!!! one thing that always stays the same though is my lovely red irregular choice shoes and red lipstick.

Anyway guys, as always I will try and blog more, famous last words huh? I at least will try and show you my outfit, and run though my highlights for the past 12 months, there has been so much to get trough,

on my website and twitter there is a link to my amizon and love honey wish lists, gifts are not at all compulsory but I know I have regulars who like to treat me. And of corse you will always get pics of me wearing or using the gift.

All my love

Lucy xxx

Sunday, October 21st 2018

Dirty dancing and new shoes xx

Hi guys how are you all? Hope you have had a wonderful weekend?

I have had one crazy 13 days! I have met some absolutely amazing men to massage, its times like this that I very much love my job, One day I could be massaging a millionaire and the next be chatting to a guy who wants to see me covered in custard! Both equally interesting, the one thing that I love most about all of my clients is that they are so respectful of me, Yes I know I dont offer everything on here like the other beautiful ladies, but most of my clients don't want that, most of my clients want to pass though and have a beautiful natural naturist massage with a chatty bubbly smiling girl - and of coarse the added bonus of a long, slow, oily lingham massage is the cherry on top aswell.

In my non massage world things are going well, It is the end of the season now for much of my other work things, I did 6 events in 6 weeks and now I need a sunday off! last week I went to Leicester for a conference which was so useful, it was a trade show with speakers in the other industry I am now in, but I hadn't accounted for the fact that it would be so amazing for my lucyjones world too, I must admit, some of the things that they told the new businesses to do made me feel so smug because I already do them, but in life we are always learning and I believe that amazing customer service can always be improved, though my lovely massage can never be improved, can it?? hehe.

Its Sunday evening now and I have just finished watching x factor, its all dark outisde and my house is filled with candlelight, I adore closing all the curtains down when its all cold like this - I cant believe its autumn now! Yesterday I had a such a lovely walk with my mum and nephews at a local country spot, it was so nice to have the sunshine on my face, and I am totally going to try and get out and walking more often. I also went to see dirty dancing on friday (where you can see the pic of me in my blog header) i wore my new irregular choice and I had a lovely time.

Anyway guys I hope that you are all amazing,

Hope to see you soon

Love lucy xxxxx

Monday, May 21st 2018

The Chelsea flower show! x

Hi guys how are you all?

I hope you all have a wonderful weekend, what did you get upto? I had such a chilled out weekend, last week was such an important weekend for me business wise and I am so proud to say that it all went ok! the first evening there was one challenge for me which led me into the next day not as confident as I could have been, but I put my trust in my product and a huge smile on my face and gave myself the right tools if i came towards any issues, and thankfully my preparation paid off and it all went excellent!

This weekend was lovely! I went over to my mums and we had some prosecco and a bbq and watched the royal wedding, did you all enjoy it or were you just waiting for the FA cup final, im not really a football kind of person but i watched a little of it, bit boring lol, back to the royal wedding, it was lovely, Prince harry is SO dishy! Im not sure if i loved megans dress though, the veil was lovely but the dress was a little too plain for my liking!

This week is such a busy one for me, On friday I am going to london for the weekend with my mum, it will be the start of my birthday celebrations (its on the 11th of june) We will be going to see school of rock on the evening, and on the Saturday we will be going to the Chelsea flower show which I am so excited for! I just adore Chelsea flower show and I have now decided to get to at least 2 RHS shows per year, next year I would like to visit Hampton court. Its my first time in London this year so far (its gone so fast this year) but I will be going back a few more times this year as i will be doing my annual trip to watch Wimbledon (court number 1 of the second week this year) and I am booked into watch Hamilton towards the end of the year which I can not wait for!

Life at the moment seems so perfect for me, I have amazing people and friends, Amazing family, the best best BEST clients in the whole world, Adultwork is the best site to work on, my home and garden feels so lovely and generally I am so grateful to be me and be alive! I love to be happy and positive with every one of my clients, and pass on some of my positivty and sunshine within my massages!

Im thinking about wearing this tea lenth dress to london, what do you think?

See you all very soon
Love lucy x

Wednesday, May 2nd 2018

May day and naughty videos x

hi guys how are you all?

i'm just writing you a quick blog wile I am waiting for my tea to cook (heck chicken sausages and mash if you relay have to know hehe) - Then i am off for my wednesday night quiz night, which probably is my favorite night of the week because I just love to quiz!

Things have been good for me, I have been doing my usual fun massages and concentrating on my other business which I now have upto 11 bookings so I am so happy with that, but the big news probably is that I have uploaded 4...yes 4!new movies! I wont say too much as blogs really arnt for me to promote my movies, but I filmed them with a lovely friend of mine and I very much enjoyed them, the reason I did them was because I had so many requests for me to do a facial and a titwank (im blushing guys that is relay naughty for such a good girl like me) Anyway I did them and I am very happy with them and hope you are aswell :-)

In other news how lovely has the weather been? I have been able to get so much in the garden, did I mention a lovely client of mine put some outside electric in for me? I cant remember now! it has honestly changed the way I garden! I love having my roberts radio blasting out, having my water feature and fairy lights on and its made me spend so much more time out there - next weeks job for me is to start to get some cuttings from daliahs, and to get my sunflowers sorted out (im abit late with them but spank me monty ;-) )

What will you all be upto over the bank holiday? I will be out and about going to my favorite thrift market, spending time with my family and maybe a spot of lunch somewhere on the monday - who knows! I of corse will be about at some point most days for a massage, most probably in the evenings.

I am so boring that I really have nothing to report! In fact I am being far too boring for a girl of my age and I really need some new friends to have some fun with. Maybe I should get a new guy to buy me dresses and cocktails and to get into trouble with - if you want to apply send me a message with what your favorite cocktail is and what trouble we can get into. :-)

Anyway guys I hope that you are all really well,

Here is a pic of one of my new dresses I just brought x

All my love
Lucy xx

Wednesday, February 7th 2018

Botox, Business and a new month x

Hi guys how are you all? I hope that you are all well.

Who elce is glad that january is over? it sounds like everybody was saying that it just kept going and going, thankfully my little winter sun trip after Christmas helped and when i came back I only had 3 weeks to do, but by god did they drag! The main reason they dragged because every weekend for 3 weeks I have been at events with my new business mainly drumming up business and now I have taken a few bookings, I adore the events but they do make me tired by the end of the day - but after amost 9 years here on AW it is so nice to have a new challange and throw myself into something new, abit like the early days of AW, every day was new, a new web cam show, a new escorting (back in the day i used to escort) and then when i finally made the switch to massage every new massage client would blow my mind at how amazing they was - that part hasnt changed, I still absolutely love people which is probably why my new business is very people based, I just love to make people happy and to see a nice smile on there faces, its addictive to be such a people lover and once you do it once you want to do it over and over. dont worry though guys, my number 1 love is Adultwork and I will be here for many many years to come!

yesterday was a fun if not painfull day! I went for botox for the first time ever! I know, its something that I have always wanted to get done but never found the right person to do it as I always wanted to go to somebody recommended, well once i found the person I was happy with I decided to go for it! The part I had done was just inbetween my eyebrows as there is wrinkle that seems to have been passed through the generations of my family (my poor mum has a very well placed fringe) so i decided to nip it in the bud. It didn't hurt at all, in fact I was surprised how little it hurt! I cant see the results yet as its supposed to take 2-5 days to work but i'm really excited to see if it will work, it may not work this time though as I only had one area done but in 2 weeks I have to go back anyway so i may go for a top up if that pesky wrinkle is still there! But dont worry I wont be going crazy, botox is all il be having!

How about you guys? has any of you had botox? would you get it?

The only other thing to mention is that I have almost finished my friends house, (well the bits shes going to live eat and sleep in) the spare room can wait! The flooring is down and most of the paint is on the walls and she has even had furniture delivered! I am so excited as it means I will finally have a little more spare time to dedicate to you all agein so watch this space! I am just so excited for it to get lighter at night! the dark nights I hate so much because I just have no enthusiasm to do anything, I love it when it goes dark later and I can get out in the garden - Where I have BIG plans!

Ok guys I will see you all very soon
All my love
Lucy xxx

Thursday, January 11th 2018

a suitcase full of sunshine x

Heyyyyyy guys im Homeeeee!

Well we made it to 2018 in one piece didn't we! Did you all have a lovely new year and a good start to 2018? I had such a lovely evening. It is my brothers 21st birthday on the 4th of jan so I decided to throw a joint new years and birthday party with lotts of banners, a photo booth,and a cake! it was lovely to have people over for the new year (i dont relay entertain very often) and it was so lovely showing everybody my home. We had such a fun night playing games, taking silly pictures and doing a new years quiz! then at the sound of 2018 we got through a few bottles of moet to toast in the new year. - it was all lovely.

Then on new years its self i spent all day tidying from the night be4 aswell as taking my tree and decorations down as on the 3rd i was off on my holidays for a week. Now as you all know I love my Christmas decorations, but theres nothing better than that feeling where you feel that everything is bare and empty and clean and crisp, however i might have to get a few new bits to make it feel more like a new year! any excuse to shop haha!

I had a fab time in tenerife with my mum, my brother and my mums friend. it was so hot every day and we only had one cloudy day which was still super warm! my brother had a lovely birthday and celebrated with getting his 2nd ever tatoo, its lovely and although a tatoo something i dont think id ever get i think that they look lovely on other people! the rest of the week was super chilled, pool or beech, followed by a nice meal and a few jugs of sangareer and abit of entertainment at the cocktail bars - it was so nice to get away for some winter sun and its certainly gonna be something that i do every year in the early months! Sun and light is important for us all but because I work from home I probably dont get as much as some others, so starting the year with a suitcase full of sun has certainly i feel set me up for a happy sunshine filled positive year ahead!

Will I be having any new years goals like I did last year I hear you ask? I only have 2 once you cut the crap and think about whai cant really is important! 1 - Develop my busisness and be the best professional I can be in every aspect of my working life.
2 - go out and have more fun! Sometimes I dont do this, I stay in and work, or I do so many favors for other people that I dont enjoy my life - I will think to myself whats the point in doing this or that because I could just overpay my mortgage instead (i really want to be mortgage free by 35!) but then I miss out on some lovely times and I kick myself! so having more fun is certainly on my 2018 list.

Im now home and Il be back to work in the coming days, for those that called and texted while i was away, I wasn't ignoring you! I was just zuzzzing on the sunlounger!

See you all soon guys

Love you all
Lucy xxxxxxx

Monday, December 4th 2017

Have a very pink Christmas x

Hi guys I just wanted to wish you all a very merry christmas time.

I havent been too active on aw lately and iv only really been doing 3-4 massages a week for the past 4 weeks, theres been a few reasons why which i cant really go into on here, but the main reason is that I have been having some issues with my back still, the disc is still hurnated but its not in spasm, but sometimes il just wake up and it randomly will hurt so I am just trying to do what I can when I can.

The house is looking so lovely at the moment because as you all know I frecking love christmas, from the decorations to the tree, wrapping the gifts i just adore it!! I have 2 trees this year, one in my lounge (an 8ft real spruce) and a fake one in my massage room, I have decided to go for pink fairy lights and i spent a wonderful festive Saturday night watching my fave Christmas movie (the holiday) eating Chinese food and decorating the tree.

I have also been so busy with my non AW business, its so amazing that I get to spend my whole day doing just what I love, massageing lovely guys, webcaming with the most lovely people and in my non aw business travel to some great places and providing a fantastic service! if my year is like this next year i will be one lucky lady!!!

Anyway guys hope you are all really well, and I will be posting a couple of new clips in the next few days to keep you all nice and horny over christmas.

Love you all
Lucy xx

Friday, October 6th 2017

Vintage dresses and Lacey basques

Hi guys how are you all?

I just wanted to let you all know that my back is feeling much better and that I should be ready to go back to work from monday. Despite having almost 3 weeks away from massaging and really missing it I am so so glad that I have had a break.

Sometimes doing something like hurting your back can make you relise how much we need to look after or bodys and how we can take life and living for granted. I will admit, I have had a few dark moments while being on my back for hours every day, painkillers can only do so much, and going though physical and emotional pain has made me relise that life is to do things for yourself that you love to do, that you enjoy to do, or just want to do. I know in myself and defiantly know more now I have had alot more time to think, that we all are guilty of putting boundarys in our way. Now I am on the mend I am going to vow to do what ever I want to do in life and just go for it! If i want to just go on holiday...Go for it! If i want to paint my office hot pink....go for it! If i want to start a new oprtunity...Go for it!

I urge you all to just go for it guys, weather it be to book me for a massage, see a beautiful lady on here for some fun, or view somebodys lovely content, dont let your mind or your fear put you off - take care of your mind and your body, it is the only one you are ever going to have, dont let it down!

I think by me writing such a long blog you can see that I am already feeling abit better! I think also you can tell because I have now started to wear my vintage dresses and red lipstick again. I had so many clients asking to see me in my outfits I decided to post a few compilation clips out there with my favorite dresses and basques on. I hope you guys enjoy it!

Just a side note and a thank you to a few clients that have really looked after me this last few weeks a huge thank you for being who you all are, without you I could not be me and I am truly thankfull. To my amazing client who has found love and will sadly not be a client - I am truly wishing you all the luck and love in the world and I am truly happy you have found your soul mate, I know we will still be friends but maybe not naked ones!!

To another guy who I blocked this week, however many texts or calls you make to me, I cant see them, they are blocked, they dont come to my phone! There is no way you can contact me. Goodbye!! I really hate it when things go wrong with clients and I really don't want to go into the inns and outs of it, but this client was very rude to me on over 3 or 4 occasions and there gets to a point where it keeps happening over and over agein over and over. I am so glad that this guy cant contact me anymore.

Anyway guys
Take care have a fantastic weekend
Love lucy xxxxxxxxxxxx

Thursday, July 6th 2017

All England Lawn Tennis and Croquet Club xxx

hi guys how are you all?

I just wanted to let all of you that asked about my trip to london how it went!

As you all know I went to Wimbledon to watch the tenis with my mum, this will be my third year going and it probably is one of my favorite yearly events! This year we were so lucky with the weather it was so so hot! to the point where I had to put sun cream on!

We were on court number one for most of the day and we saw Venus Williams win her match and then we were lucky enough to see a great match by rafa nadal, then the night rounded up by seing anna konta our birtish number one. Because we stayed over we wernt restricted on time so when we saw that there was stan wawrinka tickets on center court for sale my mum and I just couldn't resist! sadly stan didnt make it which was a huge shock, but it was great tenis, great weather and the atmosphere on center court was just great!

after our fab day we had a pims or 2 on murry mount (or henman hill if your old like me!)

After we took our tube back to our hotel in chelsea (a great hotel i might use for a tour in the future!) we had a few glasses of wine and dinner, and then spent a hour walking around the streets just taking in the mew houses (mew houses are my favorite things in the whole world!) walking under the stars with your mum putting the world to rights at 2am while looking at glorious houses was just perfect!

The next day the plan was to go shopping but it was far too hot for that so in the end my mum admitted shed never really done the London sights since the 80s so I took her for a full day sight seeing, when she last went sight seeing there was no London eye, no shard, so it was really cool to see her enjoy the day! I think sometimes she gets abit scared of trying new things, Like us all we can be abit scared for the unknown - obviously she is now thankful to have a daughter that exudes adventure confidence and who is awesome finding her way on the tube....(ok the only truth in that sentence was that i really am good on the tube for a northan bumpkin with big boobs!)

then it was back to sunny stoke to my little cat and wonderful clients, i did miss home but i am certainly feeling the blues today haha!

I really enjoyed London alot, it got me thinking should i work there more? i used to think that there was alot of choice especially when my services are a more relaxing and holistic service, work there be much of a demand? Let me know guys!

Anyway guys I'm off to go and see spiderman tonight, - bit gutted it isnt still the rather handsome Andrew Garfield (he seems to be doing ok for himself though lol) what annoys me more that at the end of the last and my personal favorite they left alot of the story to carry on for the next one and they just took it away from us! however I am excited to see how the new spiderman does and how it compares to the comics and cartoons!

Speak soon guys
Love you all
Lucy xx

Tuesday, April 25th 2017

I didnt happen :-(

Hi guys how are you all?

I just wanted to write a quick blog to explain my week.

By now I thought I would be in my huge lounge and dining room, siting in my light filled room at my lovely dining table sipping something amazing like a cup of tea or a glass of chocolate milk, that was the dream!

So let me set the scene, all weekend I put off plans with friends because I had to get to work moving things, I moved coffee tables, rugs, dining tables, took photos off walls, I put plastic stuff all over my stairs and i sealed up my walk in wardrobe and massage room, I did bloody everything and It looked as if dexter lived here! .....on tuesday I wake up excited, I packed my stuff and my cat up and was ready to move to mums for the week...........then the builder didnt turn up!

I was seriously so annoyed! you all know how excited I was and how sure I was that I found the right builder, needles to say I was not a happy bunny! of corse a few days after the monkey got in touch telling me blah blah blah excuses but I still have not spoken to the organ grinder.

Now I have had a few days to catch up and take stock of the situation I can only see what has happened as a good thing, If he cant be bothered to turn up then he clearly wouldn't have done a good job - at least he did not run off with my money as I obviously wouldn't have paid him untill the work was done. So now I am on the look out for a new building team, out of the 12 builders I called last week only 4 turned up, Its really frustrating! but im not going to rush things, Im taking my time and sooner or later something positive will come up!

In other news I am almost ready for my holiday in cyprus in a few weeks, I am so excited to go on a girly holiday, even though I go on ALOT of holidays I have never been on a girly one before and even though Im way out of my comfort zone I decided to say yes and go for it!

Anyway guys for now I am back to normal working etc, I will keep you all upto date as soon as I know more about my buikding work.

Ps my pic is a screen shot of a cam show yesterday xx
love you all
Lucy x

Monday, March 20th 2017

go with the gut!!

Hi guys how are you all? I apologize for my lack of blogging, i havent had much time for anything recently.

Part of the reason for this is that I have had another attack of virtigo and to be honest it is has been getting me down a fair bit, for a few days last week all i could do is just lay in bed, i couldnt move my head or see daylight it was awfull, Is a really hard situation to be faced with because one one hand I really want to be able to tell you all when im not well, but it isnt very sexy is it? some of you have been really understanding, and some have been really rude and vile - needless to say those that are rude, and send me countless messages without me even having time to respond will be blocked. - I am only one person and there is only so many texts and calls i can respond to between massage, so please be patent with me guys.

Another exciting thing had happened, a relay very good and special friend and I have decided to go into business together, doing something that I very much love and enjoy, I am not going to mention too much yet as we have to wait for a few weeks, but I am very excited to see where this will take me and what opportunity's arise out of it all, my friend is more of a numbers person, and I am more creative and a people person, - hopefully a combination of the both will be a good recipe for success and will be the start of a side business for me which will grow and grow.

Life is all about taking risks and going with your gut sometimes those statements are counter productive, but there is something in my gut that is telling me that this is right for me to do, my gut is something that I have to rely on so much in my job, and there are times when I have ignored it and the outcome be not good, only a handful of times but there are times when I have been in a few dodgy situations (more when I was an escort) and if anybody wants to see a blog about those please let me know! I have had to learn to trust it and understand it and be thankfull that it guides me so well - and feed it haha!

Anyway guys here is to a busy week in the house of lucy! Today I have had the electrition back over to finish a weekend job to move the electric to another part of the room, the reason being is because I am having a huge wall taken out to make my dining room and lounge open plan, I have also had an old gas fire removed and added a more Victorian cast iron fire which is far more in-keeping to the home, It is really taking shape and now with the sun flooding through the window in the dining room u really feel that it is going to look amazing! I have a few more weeks to wait before the building work goes through as it needs to be passed by building control but before I know it it will happen, It is my mums birthday (on mothers day) thats an expensive day!! at the weekend and then the weekend after I have some exciting projects in the garden to do, so before I know it Easter will be here and on the 17th the work will start!!

Anyway guys I hope that you are all really well, this is an old pic as I haven't got anything fun to show you this week!

All my love
Lucy xx

Saturday, March 4th 2017

My feet hurt - the day after the night before!

Hi guys how are you all?

I am currently at home in the bigist fluffyist jumper, pink pajamas with cows on them (moooo) and i'm on about cup of tea number 4 and i'm catching up on rubbish TV! today i have been so hungover! Yesterday was my friends wedding and it was such a lovely day! I don't want to go into too much detail as it wasnt my day, suffice to say that the bride looked amazing, the food was lovely and although it was raining, nobody really cared and we were all dancing for our lives! It was also really nice to dress up, I wore a pink fascinator, a blue flowery dress and high heels(hence the sore feet today), and obviously red lipstick!! I felt fantastic. Naturally I am always the last on the dance floor and we eneded up dancing untill we had to go to our rooms.

My mum and my brothers and I eneded up going back to the barn conversion that we had rented out, and drank prosecco and talked and played cards untill 5am, needles today we did not make breakfast! instead we went to a tea shop and had a late breakfast and cups of tea in tea cups (my brothers are 19 and 38, bodybuilders so seing them with tea cups was rather funny I think they would have preferd a protein shake!!!) before we went home we went for a nice walk in the countryside however I still had my eyelashes on and the only flat shoes I had were sparkily silver so If you noticed a rather bizare excentric person today while walking ur dog in the hills of staffordshire or cheshire, that was me!!

Anyway guys im off now, I just managed to reduce the size of my most recent BJ movie I filmed with a friend, So i hope you will check it out!!

Hope you enjoy my wedding selfie.

Love lucy xx

Friday, March 3rd 2017

being in the moment!!

Hi guys how are you all? i just wanted to send you a quick message to say hi!

I am currently sat at home with a facemask on and rollers in my hair - I look a little bit like a monster - a very big boobed one hehe. Tomorrow (friday the 3rd) am going to a good friend of mines wedding, (the one that lives in spain if you remember) I have to be up and looking energetic at about 7am and I have to be at the hairdressers for about 8am - I am really excited for tomorrow as not only will I get to see my friend get married to the nicist guy, but I will also be spending the day with my mum, and my brothers, Its nice to get dressed up abit and put a fancy feathery fascinator on (Though mine isnt very big as my mum wouldn't let me :-( ) I have gone really conservative and haven't even worn a low cut dress!!

What are you all upto this weekend? it kind of feels weird going to a wedding on a friday as today (thursday) feels like a friday and tomorrow feels like a saturday, it feels like it is Christmas again and my days of the week are all discombobulated! But I guess the good thing about that is that I get a 3 day weekend!! bonus!

Did any of you give up anything for lent? and more importantly did you have pancakes? I had some and I put good old fashioned lemmon and sugar on mine, they were so yummy!! I have givern up 3 things for lent, one mental thing, one physical and one virtual thing.

Here they are:

1 - writes pies (i have one every saturday with my nephew and I dont even enjoy them anymore so I vow to be a good girl and eat fruit and things!!)

2 - Social media - I found that in my personal life i was starting to increase my usage of social media, not only did I find myself just scrolling down instagram or facebook without even consciously knowing it, but I found myself unconsciously comparing my lifes to those people around me, I was comparing my job, my home, my friendships, the way I looked and the clothes I wore, even my make up,every time I would see something I like I would think, why cant I be like that, or I wish my home was like that, or my friends did this at the weekend, or such and such just got engaged on there gap year in thiland I wish I could have a gap year (in a posh inbtweeners guy accent) then one day I asked myself, Is social media making my life better? is seing filtered images adding to my life? Is knowing what my best friends baby ate for lunch enriching my life? ....I guess giving it up for lent will give me a chance to see if social media does help, or hinder the way I see life, and people. I shall keep you posted!!

3 - Negativity. Since the start of the new year I very much have wanted to practice more mindfulness and be a better person. I feel that I am doing really well with this and the things that I might do day to day, on autopilot have become so much better and more interesting focusing on the sensations and feelings that they are giving me. Listening to a bird chirping while setting up my massage room, reely focusing on my muscles and arms stretching while I am swimming, quietening my mind to the hustle and bustle of the world while shopping in town, when gardening concentrating on every heap of soil I am scooping up and planting, and raking, adding water and enriching the soil....enriching my life!
But I still feel like there is more work to be done, I want to see the best in people, in every situation, I want to seek out every opportunity and chance to be positive and kind... I want to be the best person that I can be right now, in this very second, and in this moment, because this moment is the most important moment we will have, because we will never use it again we will never be as young as we will be in that moment, we will never be in that exact place, or experience or headspace, so lets use it, and not waste it, respect it, savoir it, and most importantly...enjoy it because life is for living, wherever we are in the world, lets enjoy what we have right now!!

Have a great weekend guys, I will try my best and post another blog soon with a wedding selfie,

Please let me know what you gave up for lent I would love to know, and know what mindfulness things you do and enjoy! Weather it go for tantric massages, or fishing or gardening! Keep in touch and let me know.

The pic is of a time i felt the most mindful I have ever done!
All my love, respect and kindness

Lucy xxx

Thursday, February 23rd 2017

Don't blow away!

hello guys how are you all? I hope that you have survived storm doris and that are are in a happy safe and warm place, What a day here in stoke!

I first awoke to my gate being ripped of the hinges (dont worry it was old and due to be replaced thank god!!) and as the day continued it was pretty obvious that doris was one angry lady! The school aross the road of me was closed, things being thrown off roofs, and my mums greenhouse collapsed leaving broken glass everywhere! for my pretty sleepy boring town here in stoke on trent it certainly did feel as if it was all happening and the center of all that is angry and blustery - the wind, the damage or the rubbish coming out of the politicians mouths that is!

Yes I live in stoke, but thankfully since moving to my new town 15 months ago I am now stoke on trent north, meaning that I cant vote, our MP is Ruth smeeth (i think thats how you spell it) and shes bloody brilliant at her job, her office isnt far away, and on a saturday morning she stands by the clock tower and speaks to the people of the city and seems such a nice person, but oh god! I cant believe that there are so many reporters around from all over the world here to report, and we all know why!! that baboon that I will not even name ... (never can be too carfull i might get beheaded or something) I arnt going to get into why he is a baboon, you all read the news! but if he does get in stoke on trent (and judging by the some idiots here in stoke it is a certain possibility) it will be known for all of the wrong reasons! If i could vote, on this particular occasion I would vote for lib dem as the candidate is a very caring man who have lived in the city for a long time, who knows the issues of of city, hes also a doctor so hes cleaver!!

Anyway guys I just wanted to let you all know that despite angry doris I am still working as normal.

This pic was of my webcam shows earlier today x

all my love
Lucy xxx