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Tuesday, November 15th 2022

My New Snag Tights

I came across an online store last week called Snag. They sell all sorts of tights and the garments all seemed good quality.

I took a risk and bought some mock garter tights which are basically stockings and suspenders all in one. You have the stockings, but they're attached to a belt that sits around your waist with the appropriate bits cut out. It's not a belt as such that you do up, but rather fabric that goes all the way around.

I have to say that they're much better than fiddling around with the usual suspender belt. I'm going to upload a photo in my Adultwork gallery and post a pic here too

Friday, September 9th 2022

Chronic Thoughts of an Overthinker

I've always overthought everything and when I have something on my mind I just can't stop thinking about it. The same scenario plays on a loop inside my brain. It's enough to drive even the sanest individual mad.

And I've had a lot to overthink this year too, sadly. It's not been the best. Work has been fine, but a lot has happened in my personal life and unfortunately little of it has been good.
I've always been into art, especially the music scene and it's music that's truly saved me this year. My regulars will know what I mean by this. And while this year hasn't been the best, it's been the best in terms of the music I listen to. Apologies if I sound like I'm talking in riddles here, again my regulars will know what I mean by this.

There has been one ray of light though and that's a new friend I've made. I pray to whomever I pray to that he sticks around because he is one of the most genuine, thoughtful and lovely guys I've met. At the moment, I'm not sure if I have feelings for him, but I guess I'd be more sure if I knew how he feels about me. Let's just say he plays his cards close to his chest. I hope he likes me - I have everything crossed. He is man number three in my little rectangle, the other two I have pretty much kicked to the kerb where they belong.

Wednesday, August 10th 2022

Man One, Two and Three!

Last month I blogged about my 'Love Rectangle,' and how I couldn't make my mind up about which of these three guys I liked more. I haven't seen anything of man one and two since, as usual. Man two seems to have frightened himself off again and the only thing man one is consistent about is his excuses why he can't come and see me.

But man three continues to be the most reliable, not that he has much competition seeing as man one and two always let me down. But there's more to man three than meets the eye and I am really starting to like him (never a good sign for me!).

Man three is dependable, reliable (hope I'm not jinxing things here) and nice to talk to. We also have the most in common. He doesn't smoke or drink and also doesn't have kids, another huge bonus in my eyes!

I just hope he likes me as much as I'm starting to like him ...

Monday, July 18th 2022

A Love Rectangle, Not a Triangle ...

Well, I have to say I am in something of a love rectangle at the moment. The popular term is love triangle when there are three people involved, but I seem to have acquired three men who express an interest.
I have been single for years and years and years too, sometimes not always by choice, either. And now it's as if the Universe has suddenly got the memo that maybe, just maybe, I would like to be with someone.
The trouble is, however, no matter how nice it would be I just can't simply go out with all three of them. It would seem they're like buses: not one for ages and then three turn up all at once.
The first guy I have known for years and I started seeing him January. The second is one of my neighbours who I asked out eighteen months ago, but nothing ever came of it until we kissed last summer and then still nothing else happened. And the third one I have known for only nine months and we met through a mutual hobby.

Man one and man two, though, I never know where I am with them. Man two has the better reason for saying one thing and then doing another and that's because I went after him last year. Man one came after me and has since backed off, this I find particularly hurtful seeing as I have done the most for him. And man three has just shown he is reliable with his words matching up to his actions.
I can't ever seeing it working out with man one and two as I never know where I am with them. But hopefully, just hopefully, man number three will get lucky ...

Saturday, July 2nd 2022

Spectacles, Testicles, Wallet and Watch

I had an hour's booking this week with a lovely man who in response to the question I ask of everyone when they leave: Have you got everything? He replies with yes, spectacles, testicles, wallet and watch.

I burst out laughing. I've never heard of this expression before and obviously never watched the film it came from. At the time, I was unaware of the film link; I just thought my client had made it up himself.

It was only when I mentioned it to one of my regulars yesterday he mentioned the film. I think I might watch it later on when I have some time. Like tonight, I was supposed to be going on a date but they cancelled with two hours notice. I'm not actually that bothered as I am supposed to be seeing someone else, but I use that term very loosely as I've not seen him for months.

And I wonder why I still think of myself as single. (Biggest eye roll coming on).

As Alice Deejay sang: Do You Think You're Better off Alone?

Yeah, I certainly do.

Sunday, June 26th 2022

New Pictures in Private Gallery

Just a quick one to say that I've put a few new photos in my private gallery. Seeing as I haven't uploaded any since before the pandemic, I thought it was about time I stopped being lazy and did some more.

I've also raised the price slightly for the 24 hour subscription. It's now 2 credits instead of one, but I still do believe my price is very reasonable considering there are over 100 photos in that gallery. This is the first time I have raised my price in nearly 7 years of being on here. I think it's also motivation to upload new content on a more regular basis. I also do direct phone chat, so that's where I pick up most of my credits.

I've done research with other ladies to see what they charge and I found that the average price for the 24 hour access is 3 credits or 3.60 credits. So I am still very reasonable regardless.

I hope you are all enjoying the weekend

Thursday, June 23rd 2022

False Eyelashes

Well, I have always loved the natural look, but I didn't realise how hard it is to perfect. I envy women who can get false eyelashes to stick right onto their lash line. For me, I somehow manage to stick mine half way up my eyelid or even close to my eyebrows!

I bought some 'natural' looking lashes at the start of the year. It was a struggle to apply them at first, but after a while it got a little easier. And to the hide the gap between my lashline and the band of my false eyelash, I blended some eyeliner to my eyelid. Perfect, well almost.

I did have eyelash extentions a couple of years ago, but as the pandemic hit there was no one to see them. And they left me with dirty feeling eyes, like I couldn't clean around them properly. Every time I blinked it hurt, too. So I thought if I wanted the natural but dramatic look, I'd invest in the lashes which I could take off myself each day.

Every time I wear these lashes, I get complimented so they musn't look too bad. I always thought I'd end up looking like a drag queen with falsies, but so far so good.

Thursday, April 21st 2022

Belated Happy Easter

I hope everyone had a nice Easter. I had no rampant rabbits, but plenty of chocolate! In fact, I had so much chocolate I'll probably be eating it well into next month, too.

But one thing I've yet to experience is the rampant rabbit. I've never been into sex toys for use on myself. They might be fun, but I've always thought the real thing is better and as a dominatrix, I can always make my sub do far more things for me than the rabbit of any description can possibly do.

I've never found this so called G spot, either, so penetration is a bit of an anti-climax, pardon the pun. But one thing I do like very much is oral. So as long as I have enough of that I'm a very happy bunny indeed!

Wednesday, March 23rd 2022

Waxing ... Ouch!

I have never waxed in all my life, but as I was bored the other day, I thought I'd order some wax strips and give it a go.

I ordered the Veet wax strips as they seemed less messy than heating up a pot of wax and doing it that way and I was certainly glad I made that decision. If I ordered a pot, I probably would have got it all over the place. But these strips were easy to use and it didn't take as long as I thought.

But the pain! Oh my God. And it did nothing to excite me, either. Not that I was doing it for that reason and it didn't sting afterwards which is something, I suppose. All the guys whom I whip say they leave my place with lovely tingling bottoms which I guess is very nice for them.

I must admit I felt a bit sticky afterwards, though, and not in a good way. I think I used about four strips from the pack and that was definitely enough wax for what I needed. The pack included special wipes to remove the remaining wax, but I still felt like they didn't remove all of it.

But would I wax again? Absolutely. I just hope it's a while before I need to.

Tuesday, March 8th 2022

March is the New February ... Oh dear!

I was expecting a really quiet month last month, but surprisingly February turned out to be a good month. In all the six years I've been working, February is always the quietest month of the year.

So, over the last few years in February I've chosen to do the jobs around my house that have needed doing. But this year nothing needed doing, so I thought I may as well work it and I'm so very glad I did because March has been deader than a morgue!

I do have other incomes coming in so it's not a total disaster, but this is definitely my most social job out of them all. If I didn't do this then life would be much quieter. Not necessarily a bad thing, mind, but my social interactions would be limited.

Fortunately, I do have one project to be getting on with which hopefully won't cost a lot to do, but I definitely will need some help with it. So it's just a question of finding someone who can help me for free.

I am aware the cost of living is soaring for everyone, so maybe that's why it's quieter than usual. But all I can do is keep my fingers crossed and think positively.

I do have some advanced bookings this month, so again it's not all doom and gloom.

Sunday, February 27th 2022

Friends with Benefits ... Really?!

I have this lovely, funny friend who I've known a while. We've gradually got to know one another and for months and months and months, I thought he was single.

But I found out last year he had an on off girlfriend of nearly ten years. He kept that quiet and I wondered why, although he's never shown an interest in me that way.

And then last month, he told me he'd broken up with her. They'd had this massive row and he said he always feels like his feelings don't matter. And boy, can I sympathise there! In most of my relationships, I've felt that way a lot.

A couple of weeks passed and we messaged each other like usual. And then he pops that question ... the question that a lot of men must ask their female friends. He apologised straight away after and I told him not to worry.

But bless him. He has no idea why this idea doesn't appeal to me. He's about twenty years too late.

Thursday, January 27th 2022

Belated Happy New Year!

I know it's a bit late to say happy new year and all that, but January has been kind to me (mostly) and I have been busy and preoccupied with other matters.

One of my favourites came round this month to do some DIY. DIY is a never ending job let me tell you; there's always something that needs doing anyway. I am so lucky to have my slaves willing to do stuff for me as well, especially the things that are beyond my capabilities. I even have another favourite who sometimes just wants me to do whatever I like during the booking. And this is non work related! Whether that's just watching television, him cleaning out my kitchen cupboards or just chatting over coffee.

You can't get better than that!

If someone asked me back in high school what my dream job would be, I would never have said in a million years it would be this! But here I am, twenty something years later, living the dream!

I wish you all a good 2022.

Monday, December 6th 2021

My Date With Mr. Arse

Yes, you read the title right. I had the misfortune of meeting a man last month whom I ended up on a date with. (What was I thinking?!)

The night I met him started out innocently enough. I wasn't going out looking for a man to date; it just sort of happened! I only met him briefly as well before he gave me his number and I didn't think too much of it. But he seemed nice enough, so I made the mistake of texting him. I only expected a reply out of politeness to be honest, but I began to think something more when he texted me non stop for five hours.

I didn't hear from him at all then that weekend, but after all those texts I wasn't disappointed; I was certain I'd hear from him again. And sure enough we arranged to go out for a 'proper' date the following weekend.

I admit I was flattered. He seemed nice enough and was very charming in his texts leading up to our date. But that should have been a HUGE RED FLAG. The charm! He insisted he wanted to get to know me before things went any further and I had no reason to disbelieve him.

The date itself was okay. He may have moaned a bit too much about his ex for a first date, but that was nothing major. However, I did think it strange that all the women in his life he claimed were narcissists ... another red flag, perhaps. Especially as narcissism is a male dominated trait. Psychologists says it's as high as 80/20!

Anyway, the date went okay. He was polite and gentlemanly with somewhat tightly closed body language. I picked up on this straight away to be fair. I was relaxed with open body language, so I thought he may have copied me. But no.

I gave him a hug and a kiss when I left but when I got home his demeanor somewhat changed. He kept saying he thought I wasn't interested in him because I made no mention of sleeping with him ...

What???

I was baffled by what he initially said to me. And no man who I've ever been on a first date with before has said that. What a ridiculous thing to say!

Anyway, as the week progressed so did his attitude. Gone was the speech of 'getting to know me', this man just wanted sex ... for free, shock horror! If he was going to treat me like a prostitute then at least pay me!

You'd be forgiven if you thought this man was 20 with hormones raging. But all the men in their 20's whom I have ever met have all been far more respectful than this. This man is eleven years older than me and I'm in my 30's.

So once he realised I wasn't going to sleep with him he said delete me and move on. I think that was the best thing he's ever said to be fair.

And yes, he really is called Mr. Arse. Or arse is another name for his surname. That's as far as I can go in naming and shaming him. Pity really as the next lady who he manages to snare may not be as lucky as me.

Monday, November 8th 2021

When You Get Too Attached ...

... To your work shoes!!!

I've had these shoes for the full six years of my career and they are by far the best pair of smart shoes I've ever had. I bought them especially for this job from a retail outlet store and everything about them is just perfect. They have the right heel size, the right colour and a nice style about them.

I love them so much that it's been a real struggle to buy new ones. I will still wear my old ones for certain bookings as I can never throw them out. Even when they're battered and bruised which I admit is still a long way off, I still want to keep them. Maybe I should buy a little glass cabinet for them and store them like a delicate antique on a velvet cushion.

These shoes have so many memories attached to them. From the good, the bad, the ugly to the absolute hilarious times I've had whilst wearing them. And the good times certainly outweigh the bad which is the most important thing.

If these shoes could talk they'd write a bestseller I'm sure!