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Monday, May 23rd 2011

5 Man myths revealed

There are lots of myths surrounding men and the male physiques, from the size of their feet to their sex lives.

Dr. Aaron Carroll of Indiana University and co-author of ”Don’t Swallow your Gum: Myths, Half-truths and Outright Lies About Your Body and Health” reveals the truth behind the myths.

1. Men think about sex every 7 seconds?

“That is as many times as we breathe everyday. Nobody has that type of mental stamina,” Live Science quoted Carroll as saying.

In one of the most comprehensive surveys about sexual habits in theUnited states, completed by Edward Laumann and colleagues in 1994, 43 per cent of men reported thinking about sex not even once a day, but rather somewhere between a couple times a week to a couple times a month.

2. Single guys have better sex lives than married guys.

Conventional wisdom says married men get nothing but slumber in their bedrooms, while single studs are “closing the deal”. But it is actually those with the vows that are getting it on.

A 2006 study by the National Opinion Research Center found that husbands get lucky between 28 per cent to more than 400 per cent more often than bachelors, depending on their age.

And it is not a ho-hum roll in the matrimonial bed; not only are married women more likely to be orgasmic, married men also give and get more oral sex.

3. Semen is loaded with calories

According to Dr. Rachel Vreeman, also of Indiana University and Carroll’s co-author, seminal fluid is made up of water and nutrients such as vitamin C, calcium and magnesium.

It also contains the sugar fructose but only 5 to 7 calories worth per serving.

“It is unlikely to create a diet issue, but this should not be used in an argument for whatever,” Live Sciencequoted Vreeman as saying.

4. If you shave your beard or head, the hair comes back faster, thicker, and coarser.

“If that were true, we’d have a cure for male pattern baldness,” Carroll said.

Stubble may look darker and coarser because it has not yet been exposed to sun and other wearing elements. Once it grows in, it looks identical to the hair that was shaved away.

5. Men with big feet also have big penises.

It is true that the development of penises and toes (as well as clitorises and fingers) are influenced by the same gene. But the length of one does not predict the length of the other.

In a study of more than 3,000 men, no correlation was found between the self-reported size of feet and that of the crown jewels.

A 2002 study, headed by Jyoti Shah at St. Mary’s Hospital in London, compared foot size to carefully measured privates (all 104 penises were stretched to their longest length for consistency.) No correlation was found.

Some informative facts there guys. If you have any facts to contribute they are greatly welcomed.

Monday, May 16th 2011

Alex Get's Personal

Want to get to know me a little better? Pull up a chair and indulge in some intriguing Q and A’s.

Q. How do you define honesty?

A. An honest person only stretches the truth a little bit.

Q. What is your biggest fear or worry?

A. I’m not much of a worrier but wasps and clones would definitely go in room 101.

Q. What is the main thing that makes you unique?

A. I have always enjoyed embracing nudity and always been attracted to sensualness. I love people and think the way that I care and use my abilities for quality in my work make me unique.

Q. If you had to evacuate your house immediately, what is the one thing you would grab on the way out?

A. Easy… My dog ( Scamp), phone and laptop.

Q. What facial expression or movement do you do when you are lying?

A. I think i squint and look slightly confused.

Q. What is the oldest item you own?

A. a ring my Mum got me for my 18th birthday

Q. If someone was to give you one gift, money is no object, what would you want to receive?

A. Probably a farm.

Q. What does it mean to have courage?

A. To be strong and be brave. To keep your head up and out of the sand.

Q. Do you like your name?

A. Yes

Q. Do you have a nickname? What is it?

A. No, but I would love one, any suggestions?

Q. If you could have any special magic, what would it be?

A. Other than the power to make people orgasm with the power of thought I would love the ability to become invisible.

Q. If you had three wishes, what would you wish?

A. I’d wish for eternal health, wisdom and happiness

Q. What is your greatest strength?

A. Positive perspective .

Q. What is your worst weakness?

A. Despite efforts, i cant get to grips with juggling.

Q. If you could predict the future, what would you do with that knowledge?

A. Write a book like good old Nostradamus, failing that, put mystic Meg into retirement.

Q Is your favorite time the past, present or the future?

A. Present

Q. Where do you see yourself in 20 years?

A. Relaxing with a gin and tonic and an award for my best selling book. Several animals and a sea view.

Q. Who is the one person that helped to make you who you are today?

A.Theres been a few contributing people, ex boy friends, friends, family and even a few clients.

Q. If you were punished for a crime, what type of punishment would you choose?

A. Spanked definitely, but then is it still a punishment if I enjoy it?

Q. Describe a time you got into trouble.

A. I got in trouble for speeding when I got stopped for sone night by a very unforgiving police officer traveling home from Durham. I don’t like getting in real trouble.

Q. What do you do when you first wake up in the morning?

A. To the kitchen for a cuppa then usually some social networking

Q. What makes you a good person?

A. I care about others and always try to do the right thing.

Q. What is your greatest regret?

A. It taking me till I was 23 to realise that honesty is the best policy.

Q. How would you describe standing on a beach looking at the ocean?

A. Heaven

Q. What is your favourite outfit to wear?

A. I always feel great in a little Ann Summers number ,stockings and heels.

Q. What do you do when you are driving alone in a car?

A. I surf radio channels for sing-a-long classics.

Q. What is your favorite word?

A. Brilliant

Q. What is your least favorite word?

A. Smeg

Q. What turns you on creatively, spiritually or emotionally?

A. Music and picturesque scenery.

Q. What turns you off?

A. Bad smells and snoring.

Q. What is your favorite curse word?

A. Bollox

Q. What sound or noise do you love?

A. I love the sound the old records make and the buzz of a good vibrator.

Q. What sound or noise do you hate?

A. Snoring and loud chewing.

Q. What profession other than your own would you like to attempt?

A. Farmer or baker.

Q. What profession would you not like to do?

A. I’d dislike working near food all day.

Q. If Heaven exists, what would you like to hear God say when you arrive at the Pearly Gates?

A. Lets party!

Monday, April 18th 2011

Counter Field Report (Saturday 16th April)

I know, i know, I haven't been my normal bloggy self of late but what can I say? You guys are keeping me so occupied with encounters far more pleasurable than writing.

Being the innovator that I am and having discussed feedback in previous entries I thought it was about time I gave it a go for myself. I wish I could write a field report for every meeting past, present & future, but at least its a start.

Rating and feedback

positive,Saturday 16th April: a perfect gentleman, kind, sophisticated and intelligent. I love getting ready for and meeting gents I have met before, i get really excited about seeing what become good friends. K and I have met a few times now, so I thought that he deserved a field report.

About the venue

sophisticated, discrete business hotel. The hotel has been particularly busy on our last two visits which has meant not getting our usual suite, but pushing the beds together and wondering what was behind the adjoining door added to the fun.

About K

well, to begin with we know that K has excellent taste and this doesn't stop with moi. This is not just copulation, its a smile, a cuddle, a feeling of openness and sharing something special. Always wonderfully presented, smelling fantastic, admirably relaxed and extremely thoughtful. I always feel wonderful in his presents and time always goes by far too quickly when we're together but I guess this is a measure of a great time.

Thank you K for our intimate and memorable liaisons and I hope there's plenty more to come.

Friday, March 25th 2011

Client Incite

I find clients experiences disturbing fascinating. Of course I have tremendous sympathy for these gentleman who run into problems when meeting escorts, although the amount of understanding shown by these gents is surprising yet refreshing. If we can learn from others experiences we avoid repeating history and allowing these issues to re-occure in the future.

I received a follow-up message from Tim (from the previous post). Tim add's…

Hi Alex

I have others - the girl who brought her dog which then wee'd on my carpet or the girl who looked great in her photos, except they were taken 2 years and 2 dress sizes ago, ...

This is where the feedback mechanism falls over. I think that I would have been more than justified in giving these girls negative feedback, but i didn't. Instead, I just didn't give them any feedback at all, because they would have just given me negative feedback in return and with so many girls either not seeing or requiring a deposit from guys with ANY negative feedback at all it wasn't worth the hassle.

The other thing which is just nonsense about feedback points is that a service provider who buys stuff in the marketplace gets feedback points from the seller added in to their total. I really don't care if they are a great A+++++ buyer - this isn't e-bay!!

Tim xx

Sunday, March 20th 2011

A Real Surprise

Last night I had a meeting with a guy which restored my faith in mankind. Circumstantially, I must say it was one of my most interesting and original meetings yet.

It was the gentleman's 25th birthday, which I didn't know until he arrived. What I also didn't know is that it wasn't the gentleman who arrived at my place that arranged the meeting, it had been arranged by his friends as a surprise birthday gift. I was told by birthday boy, that 20 of his friends had chosen me and had all contributed towards this original, and frankly quite ingenious gift.

I was flattered to hear that 20 gentlemen had all travelled to Coventry from Nottingham by train and were waiting at the Ibis hotel for birthday boys safe return, holding horny tales and photographic evidence. Needless to say, it was a birthday that I don't think he will ever forget.

Friday, March 18th 2011

More Reverse Booking Experiences

My last article has encouraged a further email from another cherished client who it seems has had more than his fair share of bad experiences when using the reverse booking system.

Dear Alex

Just been catching up with your blog, and your post on reverse bookings really struck a chord - so here are some of my worst AW booking experiences:

1. The shortest overnight in history. Girl booked for overnight from 10 - 6. Eventually turns up at my door at 2.30am. Persuades me to take some photos for her profile, then at 5, she announces that she has to be at work by 7 (on a Sunday) and leaves.

2. The boyfriend. Another overnight disaster, booked in response to one of those flirt messages. All she talked about was herself, her fiancee, how she was all set to move in to this "amazing" flat in Romford with him the next day, how she was on the guest list of all the top night clubs, on and on and on ... To top it all, she took calls from her bf and clients while we were in bed.

3. Playing the "at discretion" card. On my reverse booking I put (in CAPITALS) that french kissing was a must-have. Girl turns up, takes my money and then refuses to kiss at all, saying it was "at discretion" on her profile.

4. Time-wasters. Yes, the time-wasting phenomenon is not restricted to guys. Normally these are girls who claim to offer escorting on their profiles but have no escorting feedback. However, on one occasion, despite having emailed and talked on the phone several times to arrange, I waited over an hour at the tube station. She didn't even have the decency to return my call, text or e-mail to offer an explanation.

5. Sending her flatmate. Another reverse booking calamity - accepted a bid from a blonde Romanian girl (great field reports). Eventually this black haired Spanish girl turns up at my door, who I later discover is the Romanian girl's flatmate.

Well, at least I can see the funny side now, I suppose!

Tim xx

Dear Tim

Thank you for sharing. Yet more examples of people abusing and issues connected to the reverse booking system. Most of your experiences were unavoidable (the case of the Boyfriend, The Discretion card, Time wasters and Sending her flat mate.) How were you to see these things coming?

In the case of the shortest overnight in history, personally I feel that whether it be a 1 hour meet or an overnight, (unless public transport interferes), being on time is essential to a good start, especially if it is a first meeting. I would of called and told her to not bother after an hour of being late but I can understand why you held out.

My advice is to plan ahead and assess communications thoroughly. If you haven't met a particular lady and her email/ phone calls are formal and professional thats usually a good sign.

And here we run into a problem… An unhappy client on adultwork may leave an escort negative feedback but at the risk of receiving an unjustified retaliation negative rating and comment from a lady with a bruised ego.

The quest continues xx

Sunday, March 13th 2011

Surprises in the attic

Well, the work is nearly finished on the house and I can't wait to get back to misbehaving. Although working on the house has been its fair share of fun. I had the electricians in the other day, installing the spot lights in the new bathroom. One of the electricians was in the loft, the other in the bathroom, and Ashley, a couple of other friends and I were sat in the dining room when I heard my name being shouted from the loft. Thinking there was a problem I ran down the hall to the loft hatch, to see one of my electricians hanging out of my loft clutching a big black dildo! What makes this funnier is it wasn't even mine! The guy that used to own my house was apparently a devoted Christian, so much so I used to have a jesus fish hanging on my front door and before that it was a small old peoples home. So I can only guess where the big black dildo came from.

My foxy Adultwork friend Electra popped over my place today. I hadn't seen her in ages and I must say she was looking hotter than ever!

Sunday, March 13th 2011

Reverse Bookings...do they work?

I welcome and regularly receive emails from clients and gentlemen expressing their frustration and sharing their experiences when booking ladies. Recently I spoke with a client who has been encountering some problems when placing reverse bookings. Client "K" has sent me the following to share his experience's. If you have had a similar experience please get in touch.

Dear Alex

Ok...we’ve been there before. You try to plan for a meeting a few days in advance. You get organised. You do your research. You send out emails. And nothing. All your choices are either not available, or do not reply. So you end up compromising, either by having to go with someone else who just happened to be available, or you spend your time alone!

So to avoid this, there is the promise of a reverse booking. No more let downs, just people bidding to see you who genuinely are available and want to spend time with you! Great! You can’t lose!

Sadly, I’ve found this not to be the case. Despite the hype, I’ve never had a successful RB. In fact, out of about 10 RB’s I’ve entered into, I’ve only ever got to go through with one of them!

I find there are 5 types of “bidders” who try to get your business….

1) “The Chancers”

Despite you taking the time to describe the type of person you’d like to see, maybe giving age, size, likes, preferences, etc, along with the amount you want to pay, you get the “chancers” placing bids. “Chancers” are those who do not meet some, or even all of your desires. So instead of bids being placed by your ideal, 18-24 year old, size 8-10, tall, English blonde with whom you want a sensual GFE, you get the 32 year old, mixed race, size 22 BBW who wants to dress up in PVC, chain you to a bed and whip you to within an inch of your life. Nice!

2) “The cheeky fuckers!”

These are the ones who may actually meet some, most, or even all of your “wants” list, but for some strange reason, have put in a bid for more than their normal rate! On one occasion, I put a price in of up to £180, and had a flurry of bids from people bidding £180 for the hour, despite their normal rate being just £120 or £130 per hour. When I questioned them, they just replied either “you’ll get the full VIP treatment”, or “well that’s the rate I’m charging for that day!” Now that’s just plain cheeky!

3) “The non-readers”

Now these are even worse than than the ”chancers”! Whereas the “chancers” will sometimes acknowledge that they do not meet your criteria, and ask to be considered, the “non-readers” just place bids and expect to get the business. When you check their profile though, you find out that they are a pre-op TV who would like nothing more than to ram their prize manhood up your bottom!!

4) “The Private Gallery scammers”

These place bids usually between 2am and 4am for some reason, or about 30 mins before the meet-time if no bids have been accepted. On the face of it, they look ok, but then there is usually no free gallery, just one profile picture, and a private gallery with a handful of photos in with enticing descriptions, but it’s going to cost you 3.95 credits to see them for 24 hours. Oh...and they have no feedback! Beware!!

Which then leaves.....

5) “The ideal matches”

These don’t exist! :-(

Wednesday, March 9th 2011

Spring time's in the air

Did you eat your pancakes today? Excuse my resent absence, I’ve missed you all dearly . So I bet your wondering where the devil i’ve been? Well a few broken nails and a few broken tiles later i’m pleased to say enhancements are now complete at casa Summers. With a little help from my friends we’ve installed a shiny new en-suite, a pole for client pleasure and redecorated. I hung up my stockings for a couple of weeks in exchange for something a little more durable. Now the dust is settling and my nails are growing back i’m happy to announce I’m taking bookings once more, i’ll be back on webcam and available for incalls & outcalls from next Monday 14/3/2011. I’ll will be slowly working my way through emails over the next few days.

Saturday, February 5th 2011

Fetishes & Specialist Services

Article for the Girls

There’s a lot more to escorting than just straight sex. There are most definitely different facets to the sex industry. The longer you’re in this business the more ‘strange’ requests will be asked of you. Please don’t think men are crazy, or disgusting when you are requested something you haven’t heard of before. Try not to judge them, it takes a lot of nerve on the part of the client to ask you in the first place. Please bear that in mind before you turn the phone off in disgust.

People have fetishes, pure and simple. And for some they’ve either transcended straight sex, and would rather you indulge in just their fetish. For others their fetish is an ideal accompaniment to a full personal service. Fetish doesn’t mean disgusting, although it might be a turn-off to more of the strait-laced escorts. A fetish is a variety of things, an addition maybe. Certain things that turn a person on as much as having straight sex in various positions turns on others.

There are fetishes too numerous to mention. But here are some of the most requested:-

Feet – A man can have a fetish for feet; he may want to lick them, smell them, massage them, whatever he desires.

Smoking – A man may have a fetish for smoking, and using him as your ashtray. For some men it’s a sign of sophistication watching a woman smoke.

Domination – Some men may want mild domination added to their appointment; they simply cannot cum unless they’re in pain. This can include spanking, nipple torture and cock and ball torture.

Watersports – No, it doesn’t mean doing it on the back of a jetski,lol. Some love the idea of being peed on. The dominant ones love the idea of peeing on you. Not for the faint-hearted.

Fur – Some men love the feel of a fur coat when making love. Real or fake fur, it’s up to them. But if you’re against wearing real fur, you may not be comfortable with this.

Speaking from experience, I’ve had my share of unusual requests. Some I had never tried before, but were willing to. Some I’ve become rather good at, even if I do say so myself,lol. I would suggest to ladies that are asked for a particular service for the first time, is to be honest and upfront if you haven’t performed a service before. Some gentlemen are cool with that, and are happy to talk you through their scenario. If you try to perform a particular service for the first time on a person that’s been experienced in receiving, he will just end up disappointed. On the other hand, if the person asking for a specialist service is as new as you are to performing it, a lot of fun can be had in learning together.

Facesitting (or Queening) - Exactly as it sounds. Again, another show of Dominance on the part of the lady, because you’re on top. Some Mistresses perform this as well as escorts. But it has been said (according to a forum dedicated to facesitting) that a lot of men prefer escorts, because although you are the one Dominating them by sitting on their face, some men love the idea of performing oral sex on you whilst they’re under there; they basically know what they want, and will tell you so. This is called nude facesitting. But there are different methods of facesitting, believe it or not. Some men prefer fully clothed, they just prefer the absence of control, not to mention the absence of oxygen. Some prefer you wear big knickers. They love the feel of cloth on their face, and they like to sniff the muskiness of you through the knickers. There are others who like the thong, or g-string. While men love the skin to skin contact of arse to face, they still like the mystery a little g-string holds in covering up a fanny. Then there are those who want you totally naked. They enjoy every aspect of facesitting. Mistresses will most likely facesit fully clothed, as most don’t allow skin to skin contact. Hence the need for men to seek this particular service from an escort. If you love oral sex performed on you, then you’ll have no problem with this particular service. You can either sit forward, for a bit of pussy worship, or sit facing away, for a bit of arse worshipping. (You can tell I’ve done this before,lol).

Body worship – Some men just want to play with a woman’s body. They just want to sniff, smell and lick certain parts of your body. This can be very erotic and a huge turn-on for some women (whew! I’m getting hot under the collar here). Some men want to sniff, and lick your armpits, some want to do the same to your bottom, your fanny, and so on. A precursor to a full service, or not.

Breast or bottom smothering - If like me you have an ample arse or cleavage, you can use your assets to maximum effect. Some men love to actually be deprived of oxygen for a short while whilst you suffocate them with either your arse or your boobs. This is their idea of Nirvana (or if you’re Christian, Heaven,lol). They enjoy the smell, the muskiness of your body whilst being suffocated. A huge turn-on for some men.

I’m sure there are more fetishes that I haven’t had the pleasure of knowing about. But above is a list of a few that I have partaken of myself. If you are a brand new escort coming into this business for the first time, and you get requests like these, just treat them as any other ‘normal’ request. There are thousands of men out there who pay for sex, you’re bound to come across some of an unusual nature.

Thursday, January 27th 2011

Know Your Rights

It seem's a very unclear subject at the moment so I thought I would try and shed some light on the current legal situation regarding using escorts. This guide should not be considered as qualified legal advice. The understanding of the present position with regard to escorting in the UK is that being a escort is not illegal, nor is engaging the services of one.

Beyond being sure the girl is over the age of 18, there are only really two areas that should concern you:

Firstly, more than one girl working from a single location however, (as is frequently the case with parlours) is understood to constitute a “brothel” – this is illegal for those running and working from the brothel, albeit their activities are largely acknowledged but overlooked by most police forces and local authorities. Any punter themselves on the premises is however understood not to be committing any offence and therefore you should not be liable for arrest in the unlikely event of any police raid!

Secondly, attempting to employ the services of a “street prostitute” should always be avoided; “kerb crawling” is illegal. This is true even in what are the few commonly accepted “red light districts” in the region. The police are aware of where these areas are and you are running a strong risk of finding yourself being stopped by the local constabulary and very probably arrested.

In the current climate of tabloid hysteria regarding “sex slaves”, or ladies forced to otherwise forced to work against their will. In a nutshell, sticking to ladies of English, Western European origin or similar could be argued as being wise so as to avoid this being a issue for you. In truth the problem seems pretty rare in the East Anglia region.

Wednesday, January 26th 2011

Price Experience Correlation?

Opinion is hugely divided and this is an extremely difficult question to answer, certainly there are a lot of lower priced working girls that offer an outstanding service. Looking at an escort experience "in the round", clearly higher fees may indicate say in the case of an independent, better quality accommodation, surroundings, perhaps a more physically attractive girl – and logic might dictate a better service too. However, the latter two points regarding "appearance" and "service" are highly subjective in what is a highly personal area of life. That said, higher prices may also indicate lower "volumes", so hopefully the lady is less overworked and consequently able to concentrate more on giving a good service (however subjective the concept of "good service" may be!) if only one or a few punters need to be seen in a single day. Amongst experienced punters, there is strong belief that as with many areas in life "if you pay peanuts you get monkeys". Certainly higher fees do not guarantee a more comprehensive service, so if you are looking for any specific, specialised services then money is not always the critical factor.

Wednesday, December 29th 2010

Christmas Message

Since I've no doubt that everybody is busy (so much to do, so little time) I will keep my posting brief. I would like to wish all my readers, fellow ladies and clients old and new a very Merry Christmas and all the very best for the upcoming festive days.

I consider myself very fortunate in that 2010 has been a wonderful year by and large, and hopefully in 2011 the trend will continue.

Christmas time is full of magic, but it can also be a stressful time for lots of people, so if you are looking to take some time out and have a winter-break, I can be your perfect escort date and help you de-stress.

As it is not really practical to send cards to you, this is just a quick post to wish you all a very happy Christmas.

All thats left for me to say now, is thank you for a wonderful 2010 and heres to an even better 2011.

xxx

Wednesday, December 15th 2010

Wicked Christmas

Seasons greetings

Isn't this time of year wonderful? I'm pleased to tell you I deliver that with honest conviction, I genuinely do get a fantastic feeling at Christmas. The decorations were up on December 2nd for a month of festivities. Just taken a brake from the wrapping, baileys and twigglet's to write a little note.

I'm feeling ultra relaxed after another lovely massage today ( thank you MarkTM), it seems receiving massages is becoming a rather marvellous new habit of mine. I'd been looking for a new habit since stoping sucking my thumb last week, or maybe i'll be needing more things to suck.... they always said I was orally fixated.

The last few weeks have been rather colourful, I wish I could begin to enlighten you, so let me summarise....
Chatting and meeting up with new guys from AW as well as my AW friends has made me feel really lucky recently, my life never fails to excite and energise me. I'm alway's honest and open and I'm fortunate that this is reciprocal with the preponderance of the people I encounter. Being open with yourself, discovering what you like and want and sharing it with others is a sublime and liberating feeling.

Peace on earth and to all a good night

Promise I will blog again before Christmas xx