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Wednesday, June 12th 2019

Thank you

It's been almost 7 years since I've been working as an escort, it's gone by so fast, and I have had such a wonderful experience. I have been around the world and I have had the company and pleasure of so many lovely men since I started escorting.

I didn't just come into this business on a whim, I researched and studied this profession for over a year before making the huge decision to commit to it, and during my early years, I still worked on my full time job and I coincided both together for a long time.

On Nov 2013, I made the decision to give up my career as an engineer to dedicate my life to being an escort. I have never looked back.

I love what i do now and I awake every day with butterflies in my stomach at what the day may bring and also WHO the day may bring.

I am a perfectionist, I believe in what I do and I also believe that every guy out there deserves a perfect, sensual, exciting, thrilling encounter, whether he's single, married, engaged or seeing somebody, every guy craves a thrill, and I am the one who can provide that.

I provide it discreetly.

I love what I do, I have a huge sex drive, I honestly get excited when my phone rings or when I get a text or email because I know it's another client in need of an escape, an encounter, a thrill, or just a quick relief from the stresses and strains of everyday life.

Throughout my 7yrs in this profession, i am so grateful to all my lovely clients who have made bookings with me.

Since my first booking on 28th Aug 2012, I have had the most amazing time.

I want to say thank you to all you guys who have booked me, the ones who have been with me from the beginning and the new clients today, THANK YOU XXXX

Seriously, without you guys, I wouldn't be here.

I think I speak for all escorts when I say that without our clientele, we would be nothing, we would not be here, doing the job we love so much, enjoying the life we live and living the dream.
You have no idea how much we appreciate that text, that call or that email for another enquiry or another booking.

So thank you to all my clients who have supported me over the past 6 years, and to my regulars who have been with me from the start..and long may I continue to satisfy you.... without you all, I would be lost..... and to those who have yet to book time with me... a time you will remember forever, I look forward to meeting you..... Xx

THANK YOU ALL ....... XXX

Here's to another good few years xxxx your Kat xxxxx

Sunday, April 27th 2014

How to make a booking with an escort

How to Make a Date With an Escort over the Phone....

So you've decided to spend time with an escort, but now what? Your first call can be nerve-wracking, and you don't want to creep the woman out! Start with Step 1 below to learn how to make things easier on yourself, and on your potential date.

Be as calm as you can, and try to be yourself. Most escorts are professionals, and aren't going to judge you for having normal human emotions like anxiety. Remember, she's human, too.

Read the escort's ad, website and any additional information she has provided. It's there for a reason, and reading it can save you from uncomfortable rejections if you and the escort are not on the same page.

Make sure you know her phone number and her name. Calling her and asking, "Which one are you again?" will not impress her.

Check her hours before calling. A daytime escort will not be happy to speak to you at 4am.

Consider your reasons for calling an escort. Do you want a romantic relationship? Do you expect to be allowed to hurt her or treat her like a blowup doll? Do you just want to talk dirty on the phone? Are you trying to get caught and make your wife jealous? She will not tolerate any of this behaviour.

Take a deep breath, smile, think of something nice about yourself, and dial. Remember that most escorts won't answer a blocked number.

When she answers, say calmly and confidently, "Hi, my name is (whatever). Is this (whoever)?" If it's an agency, you will end up speaking to a booking agent, so you may have to adapt this advice accordingly. If it's the escort, keep smiling.

Tell her you saw her ad, and where and that you'd like to talk about making an appointment. Do not ask her, "What's up?" Talk to her as you would other professional service providers.

If you have questions about her schedule or general terms, again, make sure you read her website first. Don't make her repeat every bit of information on it. She has limited time and expects you to be able to read.

Ask her if she's free at the particular time you want to get together. Don't make her choose when -- she has no idea what your schedule is like. If she can accommodate you, she will. If not, she will suggest the closest time that works for her.

Be sure to give her your full name, address and phone number or hotel room number. She will want to verify them to make sure it is not a prank call and that she can let someone know where she is. If you're meeting at her place, don't be pushy for her exact address. Remember that she doesn't know you yet and doesn't want to end up in the uncomfortable situation of you showing up early, or stopping by in the middle of the night. She wants to earn an income, so she isn't likely to leave you hanging. Just be patient.

Follow up. You will probably have to call one more time to let her know you are close and ready to come see her. Or, if you're meeting at your place, she will call you.

Remember that she invests time and money in getting ready, driver and/or security fees, and reserving her time for you. If your appointment is still several hours away, and you change your mind, call and cancel. Explain your reason politely, and apologise. If you are at her door or just minutes away, tell her politely that you've changed your mind, and pay for the first half hour or her driver's fee, plus some money for her time. Don't hurt her feelings or stiff her, unless you'd like being treated that way at your job.

Have fun, be a gentleman, and be safe!

Pay promptly by setting the exact amount on the table. It is impolite and, in the UK legally risky to make the escort ask you for the money. Remember this is her profession.

She's not judging you on your body, your age or how well you perform. All she cares about is how well you treat her personally, and escorts in general.

Be funny, if that's among your qualities. Girls like funny guys.

Chances are she likes her job so don't try to "save" her. Most escorts choose to do this work and slavery is as rare in this industry as it is in any other. If you have very solid evidence that she is not there willingly, pay her, apologise and leave. Slavery is a crime and should be reported, but assuming that the escort cannot make adult decisions about her job is very disrespectful.

Friday, March 14th 2014

Useful info for clients....

A rough guide to escorting

Escorts are not prostitutes. A prostitute charges for sexual services. An escort charges for her time and companionship only.

If you don't like to gamble, it's always best to read escort reviews before you choose. Not all escort reviews are reliable and no two clients have the same experience with the same escort, but if you want to play it safe, stick to escorts who allow reviews and have multiple good reviews that appear credible to you.

Most escorts publish detailed information about themselves online, so they don't have clients continually calling with questions. Read the escort's profile before calling...If you're not sure if you want to make a booking, make your mind up, and then call.

No withheld numbers will be answered, and some escorts don't accept texts. If you wish to book an outcall, a full address including post code and also a landline number will be required. For hotel calls, the full hotel address, room number and a surname will be required.

Booking in advance ....or at short notice.

If you want to see a specific escort at a specific time or have a particular request about dress etc, it is a good idea to book in advance. On the other hand, if you are looking for something last minute, lots of ladies will be happy to see you on the day you require a booking, however, don't be disappointed if the escort you have chosen cannot meet all your requirements.

Don't worry if you're not a stud. Some clients fear that escorts will mind that they are overweight, inexperienced, short, not well-endowed etc. Don't worry. Escorts don't worry about things like this. Cleanliness and respectfulness is all that is really important to escorts.

The cleaner the client, the dirtier the service. The importance of hygiene cannot be overstated. You cannot expect intimacy, if you are not 100% clean. Have a shower, paying particular attention to your private parts (penis, scrotum and bum), clean your teeth, scrub under your nails and shave. You can go easy on the cologne. Put on clean underwear and carry mints for fresh breath. Be prepared, even if you've done all this, your escort may still ask you to shower when she meets you. Don't be offended. Some escorts insist all clients shower at the beginning of an appointment.

Be on time and discreet. If you are visiting the escort, listen to her directions carefully, and ensure you are on time... Not early, not late! If you are unavoidably delayed, call to let her know. Do not walk into the lobby or hang around her apartment talking on the phone loudly repeating her name, the room or apartment number!

Don't turn up hammered. Have a drink beforehand to calm your nerves if you like, but ten pints of Guinness is not a good idea. Most escorts will turn drunken clients away, for their own safety, not to mention alcohol breath is a turn-off and brewer's drop may affect your ability to perform!

For an outcall or hotel call, Make sure your place is welcoming. Ensure your escort has clear directions to your home or hotel room and it is clean and tidy when she arrives, paying special attention to the bedroom and bathroom. Offer her a drink, preferably from a sealed bottle, or a can.

Don't try to barter and always expect to pay cash up front. You should have the exact fee in cash, pre-counted in an envelope. Be ready to hand it to the escort or place it on a table that's easily seen at the beginning of the date. Don't get the money out, like you're at the checkout in Argos Stores!

Get off to a good start. Once you have met, the lady may want to make a brief call to confirm she has met you and all is ok. After that, just relax and chat with your escort for a few minutes. Don't be pushy or grabby. Let her guide the session at her pace. Everything in good time!

Tell your escort what you want. Your escort wants to please you. Don't be afraid to tell her what you enjoy and what you'd like to get from the session. She is a professional and she is not going to be shocked by any request you make! The worst that can happen is she'll say no!

Expect safe sex and nothing less. All escorts will insist you wear a condom for vaginal and anal sex and very possibly also for oral sex. If you meet an escort who doesn't insist on protection where vaginal or anal sex is taking place - leave - her health and safety standards are unacceptably low.

Do not expect kissing. Many escorts don't like to kiss their clients as they find it too personal for the escort / client relationship. Unless an escort specifically advertises the fact he/she enjoys French kissing or offers a G.F.E. (Girl Friend Experience), assume kissing is not likely to be on offer.

Don't expect anal sex, OWO, rimming etc. All of these are non-standard things that some people enjoy and some people don't enjoy. If you are looking for something particular that goes beyond the standard, seek out an escort who advertises the fact she enjoys that particular activity.

Remember no means no. If you want something that your escort is unwilling to go for, even if you have been led to believe it would be available to you... Back off as soon as she says no! An escort, just like any woman, always has the right to say no at any time and that must be respected.

Always treat escorts with respect. Money buys you some time with an escort... The right attitude buys you a great time with an escort! She is a human being, not an object. Never think, because you are paying, you can be rude and nasty. Always be respectful, kind, caring, and sensitive. Escorts care very much how you speak to them and behave around them. Treat the lady like the lady she is and she will respond positively. Being nice costs no more, but it will get you more respect......and more bookings. X

Don't overstay your time. You are entitled to the time you have paid for, and most escorts don't mind clients staying over the time booked or having a quick shower after the appointment, but be fair. Some escorts work to a tight schedule which is easily messed up if clients overstay.

Don't get too personal. Don't expect your escort to tell you her life history or innermost secrets. Detailed personal questions are a no-no. Don't ask unless you are looking for a very cool reception! And don't fall in love or try to make your relationship with an escort more than business!

Gifts, tips and saying thanks. Clients are not expected to bring a gift or leave a tip. However a small gift, like chocolates or flowers, can get an encounter off to an extra good start. If you feel the escort has provided a very good service, always remember to say thank you, and leave a small tip only if you want to.

Most of all....enjoy your time....passionately yours.....Kat xx