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Friday, March 31st 2017
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How to approach a Pro-Domme

So you have decided to spread your wings and try a little BDSM play? Or perhaps you have had certain urges for as long as you can remember and have finally plucked up the courage to book your session. Maybe you have opened Twitter and seen your ‘ideal’ Domme and you just have to contact her now. Whatever your story, make sure you THINK before you take that leap.

Firstly, listen to your cock.

What kind of session are you looking for? Do you want some pain or just a tease session?
Google is a wonderful research tool and sometimes newbies seem to forget this. To show a Domme you are TRULY interested, look into your kinks. It is fine if you are not sure what you do like (how can we know until we try something?) but contacting a Mistress and saying “I would like to book a session but I don’t know what type” will not get you very far – you must have some idea of where you want to start!
If you are not sure then watch some BDSM clips and see which ones make your trousers feel a little tight. Pain, humiliation, tease, role play, bondage, slave training are just a few areas to look at. Also be very clear about any limits you may have: they help us to plan and mould your ideal first time session.

Read up about your prospective Mistress

The majority of Mistresses have a website with all the information you will ever need; go and read it. If they do not, then you need to think about whether or not they are going to be able to deliver a professional service.
Each Dominatrix is different and offers different services, operates at varied times and has her own preferences. On their website they will probably state their preferred way of being addressed – I personally am happy with Miss / Mistress Courtney. Hi ‘Hunni’, ‘Babe’, ‘Gorgeous’ etc. will not get you brownie points and mix it with another faux pas (such as not knowing where I session from) will probably earn you a listing in my Timewasters (TW)
folder.
Contacting a Mistress stating the type of session you want to try, offering some times and dates that tie in with the Mistresses operating times and also a compliment on a part of her website or social media account will have you taken seriously. Try not to make the email too long – if you want to pour your heart out to someone who ‘gets it’ write it all down in your journal first, then take the most important parts to create your email. Some Dommes prefer to be contacted by telephone or do not accept texts so ensure you use the accepted method. I prefer emails and texts, simply because I have a record of our conversations. So again, read her website!
Do not ask her for things she does not offer – if she says she does not provide a certain service, she is not just saying that for ‘tax’ purposes (yes, someone has said that to me before)! Her mind will not be changed because you think you have a good body. No means No! Personally, I do not care what you look like – we are not going on a date, we are arranging a session. If someone does contact me telling me how good looking they are or how they are different from my other ‘stereotypical clients’ then this will earn you a spot in my TW list – I am not interested! Again every Domme is different but do remember your manners

The Reply.

You have sent your email and now the anticipation is building, the excitement coursing through your veins, all you want in the world is a reply from the beautiful dominant lady. You think about sending a text to inform her of your email … STOP! Have some patience, it’s more than likely that she is not sitting around twiddling her thumbs and waiting for your email. She has a personal life, many sessions booked in and she will get back to you when she can. I like to sit on my laptop and reply to emails so I can give my full attention. Weekends are the worst time to email me as usually I am booked up with sessions on a Friday and Saturday while Sunday is my day off. Occasionally an email will go unread, not for any particular reason but because life is life. I do put on my website that if you do not receive a reply within 10 days then to send the email again. You will get your reply and you
are one step closer to being in front of the lady of your dreams.

She wants a what?!

So your session has been accepted and the time and date is set. Some Mistresses require a deposit: this is for a variety of reasons and some people’s hearts start pounding, “No, if I send you a deposit it will show up for all to see on my bank statement” or “She can find out all about me from this”. Get a grip, we are too busy for this and, no, we don’t want to spend our time Googling your details and then donning wellie boots to brave the rain (we do live in the England) to perch outside your bedroom window plotting our blackmail plan. There are many ways you can send a deposit – you can walk into the appropriate bank and do a cash deposit – no need to give any personal information here. Some Mistresses accept gift cards – OH NO! Worried about the purchase showing up on your bank statement? WALK into your local Tesco or any supermarket where you will find a range of gift cards from Amazon vouchers to department stores. There is no excuse for not providing a deposit and if you do not want to then you will flag that timewaster card again. Feel nervous about sending money to a stranger? If you have done your research on a Domme and have seen her reviews then this should not be an issue. If you haven’t then more fool you.

The day has arrived …

It’s time for the session. How exciting, and well done for getting to this point! If a confirmation is required by a certain time, ensure you contact her accordingly and do not wait until the last minute, earlier is always better.
Arrive early if it makes you feel better but letting her know you are at the premises 30 minutes before the session will make no difference. It is highly likely she will not be ready for you – the dungeon may be in use, she may getting ready or setting up the room for your session – informing her of your arrival 5-10 minutes before the session time is appropriate.

When you enter the dungeon, do say Hello! Then listen to her instructions and let her know your ideas or concerns. Have the remaining tribute (MONEY) ready in an envelope and give it to her – it means the ‘paperwork’ is out the way and we can focus on having fun.
Finally, enjoy yourself. Try to relax and let yourself go … you have been waiting for this and you deserve to let the Mistress take you to a place you have never been before.

Follow up with an email a few days later if you have enjoyed yourself. Feedback and a ‘thank you’ is always appreciated and we are human beings at the end of the day. We appreciate some praise and even a gift if you feel like it.
Try not to book a session too quickly after your first time … give yourself time to process your day, figure out what you liked and what you didn’t, do some more research and then after a few weeks (I usually do not accept repeat sessions less than 3-4 weeks later as from
previous experience I find it can create an unhealthy addiction) if your time and finances permit, book again.

Do not expect every session you book to be as amazing as the last or first. Every Mistress is different but do take every experience you have as a learning curve – this is a journey you are embarking on and it is an exciting one … one that you will remember forever and which will fill you with a feeling that you will not experience anywhere else.

A journey of a thousand miles begins with one step … Be brave, take that step.
Sunday, March 6th 2016
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Its been a while...
Well it has been a while. I guess I have been focussing on getting my Wordpress blog up and running (link available via my Twitter). So if you want to keep up to date with what I am up to go and check it out!

I had a photoshoot last week which was fantastic. The main focus was on masks.... gas masks, kitten masks, leather masks.... everything your little heart desires...

The thing I love most about wearing a mask (whatever type) is that it brings out my eyes. They look even more green and it is almost as though you can look into my soul (yes, I do have one :P).

Here is a pic that I thought you may like and for now, have a great weekend and see you soon I hope ;)

Miss C xx
Wednesday, January 13th 2016
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New Blog
I will be opening a new blog which will be available via my website by next week so keep an eye out for it!

As a new years resolution I have decided to post to this new blog weekly and to ensure it contains lots of fun and info for all my followers.

I have wanted to start doing more video's but I am just so busy at the dungeon (which is a good thing) that my clips have had to take a break for the moment. If you do want to contact me for a personal clip then please do but please keep in mind you may have to wait a few weeks :(

xxx
Sunday, December 20th 2015
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Christmas Tales...
And again another month has flown by and I havnt had a chamce to post :(

But here I am. What can I say - I am at my busiest at Christmas time, it seems as though everyone want to get their kink on.

I have been lucky to have new clients, newbies and my regulars. So everything from corporal punishment, smelly stocking worship to tease and denial.

I had a lot of fun the other day when I went shopping... So here is a quick story for you all:

I received a well written email from a gentleman enquiring about a shopping trip which would incorporate humiliation. Well, I love shopping! After the deposit was sorted along with the time and date, I began to pick my outfit. Nice and simple but of-course classy with curly hair and 4 inch heels.

I met the gentleman in Manchester and off we went. I dragged him around various shops. Teasing him by trying on underwear in Ann Summers and used his wallet for some special items.

What made this trip so fun? The fact that I ridiculed him throughout the day. In front of shop assistants, waiters and taxi drivers. I discussed his tiny prick, lack of hair and how boring he was. By the end of the trip he was sweating and had a certain something pressed against his chino's. I told him to go and relieve himself in the loo's while I finished my coffee.

I do love these types of scenario's.

I had a newbie come to see me and understandably he was very nervous. By the end of the session he had relaxed (thank goodness). We chatted while he ate a biscuit with his tea. His main concern before the visit was that I would do something he wouldn't like. One of his limits. I get this a lot. I smiled and told him what I tell everyone who asks:

"I love what I do. I enjoy bringing peoples fantasies to life. Why would a ruin what could be an amazing session by adding something you have said you do not like? I get such satisfaction from knowing the client has enjoyed the session. The power and control I have with you gives me a huge adrenaline rush. When I know you are getting what you have specified as your fantasy then it adds an even bigger rush. There's no better feeling...."

For now my lovelies, Happy Christmas and Happy New Year!

Mistress Courtney xxx

Sunday, November 22nd 2015
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Time flies - Mistress fun!
It has been a while since ai last posted to my blog.... So much has happened.

I find the closer we get to Christmas the busier I get - everyones kink comes out! It is great, I love being busy with sessions. There is nothing that I enjoy more than having a client come in for a session and being able to bring those fantasies to reality.

Hopefully I will have some time to post more about my sessions over the next few weeks.

I recently had a gift of a new electrics kit which works beautifully! I have been told it is actually quite a sensual feel when on a low setting. So am very excited to use them on people to get different opinions!

Thats all for now as I have video's to go and upload.

Big kiss from your Mistress xx
Wednesday, September 30th 2015
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Ballbusting Fun
I havnt written in ages but when I am holiday in the sun, the last thing on my mind was my blog - it was more like more Sangria and how are my tiny tan lines looking?!

Anyway been back an very busy at both dungeons - YAY! But this week has seen a huge increase in ballbusting sessions. Not that I am complaining - I love nothing more than giving a good, sold kick to the balls.

I was at Liverpool the other day and was told we have a new Trampling board - the cock and balls go through a whole on the board and well, its torture time. Kicking, standing on and caning always works well. I look at the bruises formed on a cock as a bit of art that subs can remember me by :)

That is probably more extreme stuff that is certainly not for everyone and I do not do it without ensuring the person can take the pain!

Electrics were tried for the first time the other day and were handled very well. I have two types of electric devices in Stockport and they give different feelings. One is a sharp sting and the other is a nice pulse which can be heightened to more pain. It is fun starting low and building the pulse up - watching the squirming get more vigorous.

I like trying out household items too - not everything has to be bought via a sex shop. Pegs are wonderful when applied to the skin and then pulled off when the client forgets they are on!

Candle wax is one of my favourite games. Different candles have a more intense feeling and can be quite sensual. The only downside is the clean up!

Well, I am off to go and session in Stockport so have a great day and I will write again soon ;)

Mistress Courtney xx
Friday, July 31st 2015
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Severe Corporal Punishment
There is one form of BDSM that fascinates me and unfortunately I do not often get to take part in it - Corporal Punishment.

Because of the marks left on the skin, it is hard to find subs that can go home and show the bruises of a session. But, I LOVE it!

Corporal punishment can involve caning, electrics, flogging, paddles, ball busting, CBT torture, nails, needles - anything and it all depends on the subs choice of torture for their Mistress.

I had a gentleman visit me for severe caning and electric play. I always ask if a safe word is needed but usually with corporal punishment there is no way out. There can be a role play scenario as to why the sub needs this punishment which can be quite fun to plan before hand.

When diving into a session like this, I am usually in SADISTIC BITCH mode. I find it quite relaxing for me as any stress or anger I have been feeling is taken away.

Watching each stroke of the cane make an impact on the skin and feeling the body wiggle under the restraints, I find my self smiling.

I think a lot of people look at my profile and think 'oh, she looks nice' - well, under the right situation that all goes away....

I hear of other people conducting these types of sessions under the influence of drugs or alcohol and it makes me so uncomfortable. This type of session requires your full attention, you need connect with the sub, keep an eye on them and make sure that you are on the same level as them. Otherwise it can be a dangerous road to go down.

So I make sure I cherish the CP sessions I do get and smile every-time I think of them .....

Miss C xx
Sunday, July 26th 2015
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BDSM Newbies
I receive quite a few enquires regarding newbie sessions.

I understand that it takes a lot of courage to pick up the phone and call a Mistress who's images mostly showcase a stern look!

I had a gentleman in last week who wanted bondage, tie, tease and some OTK (over the knee spanking). When he arrived I gave him a hug and a glass of water to try and settle his nerves. I showed him around the dungeon and felt a gleam on pride as his eyes lit up with wonder at all our equipment.

We entered the room we were using and he was told to strip and kneel on the floor. A few light touches, a pinch of the bottom and I strapped him into our new BONDAGE CHAIR. I say 'our' but I love using it so much that Princess Lucina jokes it is MY chair.... ;)

I teased him with some electric devices and quickly realised he has a fetish for short, sharp stings. Up and down the arms, legs and then to the balls.

Over the bench he went for a spanking - I used my hand, paddles, flogger and we tried the cane (I was very gentle) and the intrigue was definitely there. Before I tried any piece of equipment, I showed it to him and made sure he wanted to try it.

I then strapped him to the bed and stood above him with my candles. Candle wax play had been something I suggested and he said he was open to trying. WELL! I am so glad I did as he loved it. All the inhibitions went away and the pleasure mixed with relaxation was obvious. I am also glad I was wearing my short skirt ;)

Eventually after a while of the wax mixing with his skin I instructed him to play with himself as I lit another candle and dropped more and more wax onto his legs, torso and balls.

Lets just say the ending was wonderful.

Personally, whenever a 'newbie' wants a session I try and make them understand that we will go through the session together. I will never make them do anything they do not want to do. I love helping people explore the world of BDSM and this calm, reassuring, fun session is the perfect way to wet those appetites!

Miss C xxx
Tuesday, July 14th 2015
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Foot worship and sploshing
Well I feel relaxed today - I had a lovely session yesterday.

My client arrived with a bottle of champagne which brought a smile to my lips. We went upstairs (at the Liverpool dungeon) and he took out the various things for sploshing - honey, icing sugar, custard, 2 cakes and some chocolate sauce. He then produced paper plates and I took shaving cream and made some 'cream pies'.

I sat down and instructed him to remove my boots and massage my feet through my thick, black tights. Kissing them softly as he gazed at me adoringly.

I tipped a toe into his mouth and then asked him to caress my legs as the muscles were a bit sore from the gym. Oh I was so relaxed. Nothing beats a good foot massage.

I moved him over to the paddling pool I had set up and dipped my fingers into the pot of honey and wiped it gently along his body. It glistened and soon became sticky. I added icing sugar to the mix and made sure he was covered head to toe.

I grabbed a pie and threw it in his face and giggled as the shaving cream dripped down his body. I had instructed him to wear tights so that I could put the cake down them and the creamy mess would sit against his cock. The chocolate sauce oozed out the container and dripped onto his skin softly and slowly.

Finally I made him lie on his stomach, kissing my feet and gyrating his hips against the food in the paddling pool. Faster and faster until he added his cream to the other cream.

Off to the shower you go Mr.....

I do enjoy a good massage....
Monday, July 6th 2015
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Smoking Fetish
Wow, have I had a busy week! One session that stood out for me was an intense smoking fetish hour....

My client had specific instructions which he emailed to me before hand and I spent time preparing for it and getting all the deevices out that I needed.

He came in and I strapped him into our new bondage chair. I had one of my new PVC dresses on, thigh high boots and hair in a ponytail. I blind folded the sub, pulled on my long, pvc, gloves and lit a cigarette, blowing the smoking into his face. His cock jumped slightly and a smile formed. I slowly pulled the blindfold off and continued to smoke for his pleasure. Sitting down, crossing and uncrossing my legs, smiling gently and then I got up, used my hand to open his mouth, inhaled and exhaled right into his mouth.

I made sure he had plenty of poppers right before I did anything. I took the blindfold back off to reveal my strap-on .... a sniff of poppers .... 'now, this is for your own good.... Worship my cock'

Blindfold went back on as I prepared my gas mask that I could breath smoke down. I attached the gas mask and put on ear mufflers - the ULTIMATE SENSORY DEPRIVATION - lit my cigarette and blew my smoke into the tube. I could see the gas mask filling up with smoke and just when he started to struggle for air I took the mask off. A bit of breath play is always fun.

This was easily one of the most seductive and sensual sessions I did this week... I smile just thinking about it....

Miss C xxx
Monday, June 29th 2015
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New Bondage Chair
So I walk into the Dungeon last Thursday and our bondage chair is finally finished!

One of our worthy slaves has been working on this chair for a few weeks now and well I had forgotten about it. One of my regulars was due in and I thought who better to try it on?

I was so excited, giggling like a little school girl and teasing the slave (he had no idea what I was so excited about and was getting nervous!).

I swung open the door - "Ta Da!!!!! Quick, clothes off" - I instructed as I began to open the clasps and buckles. I sat my client in the chair and started to close the buckles, his legs spread open, completely vulnerable.

"How do you feel?" I asked while selecting a riding crop so I could tease him.

"Exposed, Mistress"......GOOD!

Now this chair enables a Mistress to do ANYTHING! It has a head brace so you cannot lean forward or move out of the way.

Ball busting is just perfect - genitals on display and you have no way of moving out of the way. A firm kick from my boot or a heel to the balls.... :D

Caning, CBT, Sounds, Anal, TICKLE torture, Teasing, Electrics, Nipple play - I can do anything to you and you cannot move!

My subs final words on the chair:

" The chair was a great success. Felt totally exposed yet fully restrained "

Yes..... the chair is a success, I may need to have one built in each room!

Miss C xxx
Monday, June 29th 2015
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Boot and Foot Worship Session
I take great pride in my shoe collection - boots, high heels, flip flops, slippers, trainers, sandals - any shoe you desire to see on my cute, size 3 foot I will have!

I love it when a client requests an outfit - whatever it is I can usually display your fantasy ;) So black, wet look leggings, white shirt and my new black, thigh high boots were ready to make an appearance last week.

The session started with kidnap - a hood over the head, shoved down the stairs and into the room. Adrenaline was pumping! Clothes off and on your knees slave!

I love walking slowly, around a slave who is knelt before me.... Sexy, strutting, hips moving and my fingers grazing the top of the slaves back - teasing.

"Lick my boots clean now, if you miss a spot I shall take your breath away"

Breath play is always fun and I love to take this right to the point where the plastic bag is showing every crease in a persons face.

"Suck that stiletto boot you worthless, pathetic worm"

Oh the pictures I took!

(Please beware that if you book a session with me and do not ask for ie. humiliation, you will not get it. I plan each session around what YOU want and your interests only)

I then changed my boots - after all I have more than one pair and they all need a good clean. In between the shoe change, my little feet needed a massage - mmmmm so relaxing. A good massage always results in rewards! Sweaty toes are slipped into the subs mouth for a clean and then a final clean of those boots.

At least when I head into the Dungeon tomorrow my boots will be lovely and clean and shiny.

Although..... my feet are now in need of another massage.....

;) Miss C xxxx
Monday, June 8th 2015
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Shopping Trips - fun and sexy
I do love shopping - as does any girl!
One of my lucky slaves took me shopping in Liverpool on Sunday. We set our budget before hand - I am not unreasonable.... most of the time.

I made him carry all my bags, pay at the till and carry each item that I wanted around each shop. He waited outside the changing room while I tried on little outfits and also helped me try on shoes.

He has a foot fetish so what a great task - I sit in the shop, people milling around us, ask him to take of my shoes and put on each other pair of shoes I want to try on.

We even popped into Ann Summers - but they don't bat an eyelid in there any longer.....

It just goes to show - shopping trips can be fun, humiliating and even appeal to your desire as a submissive!

Miss C xx
Monday, June 8th 2015
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Stockings, Suspenders and Heels
I do have a lot of requests for sessions where I wear stockings, suspenders and of course high heels. Which I LOVE!

There is nothing sexier than getting ready for a session, slipping the soft stocking over my foot and up to my thigh, attaching it so the suspender belt and then finally slipping my foot into a sexy heel.

I had a client who came to see me recently who wanted to put the stockings and suspenders on me and then put various heels onto my size feet.

I then gave him some stockings which he could wear so we can compare softness and sexiness.

I tied him up on the big rack we have in the big room at the dungeon. Making sure the knots were just tight enough.

Then I slipped out of my heels, stood above him and teased his whole body with my stockinged foot.

Lets just say - he had a good time :)

Miss C xx
 

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