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Friday, February 15th 2019
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From The Mouth Of Chastity Sub
Another VERY embarrassing shopping trip for Chastity Sub - here's his own words about the humiliating experience...



Mistress Cristal gave me an extremely embarrassing and humiliating task for Her pleasure and amusement.

I had a most humiliating and embarrassing time carrying out my task.

I walked to the supermarket and went into the toilets. The first thing I had to do in the toilets was to insert my vibrating plug. It was embarrassing as I heard people coming and going and kept thinking what if they knew what I had gone in there for that they would have found it highly amusing at my expense.

 I then put my vibrating cock ring on and again could hear people coming and going as I did this. 
I felt very embarrassed when I switched them on and started feeling the vibrations and worried about people hearing the noise and seeing my excitement. I just felt extremely embarrassed walking around the supermarket feeling the vibrations worrying about them being heard and people noticing my excitement and seeing my purchases of just a cucumber and sexual lubricant in my basket. 



At the till I must have been the reddest I have ever been as I felt so humiliated as I was sure the assistant and others were laughing at me.

 I stuttered when asked if I wanted a bag and I said no thanks that I could carry them. I was crimson red with embarrassment walking out of the shop carrying them, one in each hand and could not look at people so worried that they were laughing at me imagining what I had bought them for. 



It was even more embarrassing to then go to a pharmacy and ask if they had an enema kit. Unfortunately, the Pharmacy did not have any enema kits but I felt ever so embarrassed stutteringly asking if they sold them and noticing the assistant looking at my cucumber and lube and must have been thinking I wanted it to clear out before using them. 

The 20-minute walk home was ultra humiliating as I was sure everyone I passed could hear the vibrations and see what they were doing to me and seeing the cucumber and lube and thinking I was going to fucking myself with them.



 I have never felt so humiliated and embarrassed in my life nervous about what people will imagine I am now doing and hoping not to bump into them again soon.


Did I mention that his chastity sentence ends on Sunday? Well...it does, but only if he serves Me on webcam. There is no way I'm going to miss out on the chance to see him erupting like Mount Etna! Sadly for him; he says he's not sure when he's going to get an opportunity to have a cam session with Me. Guess that means we'll be stretching his chastity sentence out a while longer....excellent! 
Sunday, February 10th 2019
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Supermarket Squirming
Because one of My subs is due to be released from chastity this month, I decided to really make him EARN his release.

Chastity Sub has been in chastity since 1 January 2018. As you can imagine; he's pretty desperate for his release date. He's had relentless teasing from your's truly as well as some "help" from fellow subs who have been sending him naughty content to make his little clitty drool. His particular favourites are pictures and clips of shemales because his ultimate fantasy is to be fucked by one. As a result; he's been made to spend 1 hour each evening, watching shemale porn and trying to wank his clitty through his chastity cage.

He won't cum though. His orgasm comes at a huge price - having to do the whole of his chastity sentence again; a fate he's obviously desperate to avoid.

So like I said; I've been making him earn his release date with some extra humiliation. I know how much he likes to squirm. He may be bright red in the face but his clitty LOVES it! And so do his many fans..

Today; Chastity Sub was under orders to make a trip to his local supermarket. He had a list of only two items - 1 cucumber and 1 tube of sexual lubricant. Easy, yes?

Well, not quite. Because not only did he have to purchase these highly personal items, but he also had to do it whilst wearing a vibrating butt plug and vibrating cock ring - on full power, the risk of that vibration being heard pretty much extreme.

This is probably the most humiliating task I've given Chastity Sub to date. He's previously been made to visit a key-cutting store and request a doggy disc to be engraved with the word "slut". That was pretty embarrassing for him, especially since it was a female assistant who dealt with his request.

But this was something else.

He was not allowed to go to any of the self-service tills. No "unexpected item in the bagging area" for him. Nope; he had to go to a manned checkout - on a very busy Sunday afternoon, lots of people in the queue and him buzzing away like a demented bee.

This provided a great deal of amusement to the checkout assistant as well as several people in the queue who had a good laugh at his expense. He's never been so embarrassed in his whole life..until next week's task that is...I look forward to seeing what happens with that one!
Saturday, December 22nd 2018
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CUCKOLDRY - SEPARATING FACTS FROM FICTION.
"Mistress, I'd like to explore cuckolding fetish with you, where I watch my wife with another man..."

I can't tell you how many times a wannabe cuckold has said this to Me and each and every time, they get the same response:

"That's not cuckolding. That's you being a voyeur."

Sadly; there are many myths surrounding cuckolding, mostly created by those who don't have a clear understanding of the fetish. I'm about to clear up those myths, so you can gain a better understanding of what it is exactly, and what it means to you. You WILL be surprised.

First and most importantly; cuckoldry is NOT about your physical sexual pleasure. It is a psychological fetish, which involves arousal from the mental anguish of your partner cheating on you with somebody better - and you consenting to her cheating and even complying with it. It's not swinging and it's not having a threesome.

CUCKOLDRY IS A FEMALE LED RELATIONSHIP.

Apart from the pre-agreed parameters & considerations, cuckolds don't get a say when it comes sexual play. She will likely choose an Alpha who is more dominant or better endowed, to ensure your full humiliation and psychological torture. YOU DON'T GET TO CHOOSE if she doesn't want you to.

That's not to say you won't be involved to some degree, but certainly not in a sexual sense.

She may if she feels you deserve it, permit you to help her dress for a date with her Alpha or even do things like paint her toenails, run her a bath, pay for a makeover, new clothes, a trip to the hairdressers etc. But in terms of your involvement in the date itself, that's where it ends. You have no place on the date itself unless she wants you to.

YOU DON'T GET TO WATCH.

Cuckolds will almost never get to watch during play. If she does want you to watch; it will be on her terms, i.e. with you in chastity and tied to a chair in the corner of the room or via live video stream. If she doesn't want you to watch, but still wants to humiliate you, she may lock you into chastity and allow you to HEAR what they're getting up to - be it via a phone call, or even playing in the next room. But you will never, ever get to see what is happening unless she agrees. It could also be the case where you have both decided that you are not to watch, in case jealousy kicks in. Cuckoldry is NOT about your physical pleasure, remember. It's about hers. So while she's having the time of her life; you're aroused but staying frustrated.

YOU DON'T GET TO JOIN IN WITH HER.

The whole point of cuckoldry is that you are complicit in your partner's infidelity. You enjoy the fact that she's enjoying herself with an Alpha male and you get off on how it makes you feel to know she's enjoying herself with somebody better than you. But you don't get to enjoy her. If you join in, you're not engaging in cuckoldry - you're simply having a threesome. You're completely left out of the equation because you love the fact that your partner climaxes with a man who is your Superior. IF there is a bi-sexual element to play; you MAY be permitted to pleasure him before and after. But never her.

YOU ARE NOT BEING REPLACED.

Cuckoldry requires trust, communication, honesty and consent. Both parties set out boundaries away from the actual play scene - rather like one would set the scene before any BDSM play. At the end of the play, you go back to being a loving couple until the next time she decides she wants to play.

As a cuckold; you enjoy the fact that your partner is satisfying her sexual urges by having sex with another man. But that doesn't mean you stop being her partner. A relationship cannot ever be replaced by cuckolding. Why? Because without a relationship, there is no cuckolding.

YOU ARE THERE FOR THE ENTERTAINMENT.

In a cuckold relationship; your arousal is further heightened when your partner TELLS YOU how much she enjoyed herself with her Alpha. She might talk about how many times he made her climax, why he was so much better, whether or not he was well endowed and particularly if he was bigger than you. She may even encourage her Alpha to take part in this part of the fetish, by having him tell you how much he loves sleeping with your partner. They will taunt you and tease you about what they physically gain out of the arrangement, and what you don't gain. THAT is where the psychological arousal comes it - masturbation for the brain!

BUT I GET TO "CLEAN UP" RIGHT?

Nope! Another common misconception of cuckoldry! You DON'T get to clean up where an Alpha has been - because that's you again, taking care of your own pleasure. It's about hers and her Alpha's. Having you "clean" her afterwards means you're just going down on her - satisfying a need for your own physical pleasure. Don't forget the golden rule - it's NOT about your body's physical needs.

BUT JERKING OFF...WHEN DOES THAT HAPPEN?

Many think they will get to jerk off while their partner is enjoying themselves; which again completely distorts what cuckolding really is. In reality; you will only get to jerk off when and if she wants you to. But don't assume that you'll be able to have that release you crave.

She may decide to put you in chastity on the evening of her "date", so you can be kept aroused and frustrated throughout. She may even keep you frustrated while she tells you all about the experience; how it felt, what happened, how big he was, how long it lasted. Or, she may allow you to jerk off during all of this, by denying you your climax. She may even choose to ruin your orgasm. But whatever she chooses, you won't cum unless and until she wants you to. You won't receive any physical pleasure unless and until she wants you to. She is in control of her own pleasure and yours!

These are just the general rules, as you both need to communicate with what works for you., but for those who wish to engage in a cuckold fetish session with Me; ensure you have read ALL of this. If I think you're talking about it from a selfish, narcissistic point of view of "I want to see my girlfriend with another man", I guarantee I'll lose interest in you.

However, if you can demonstrate that you know what the fetish involves, then yes, we can explore this. But remember - I'm the one in control throughout - and you'll receive your physical pleasure when and if I want you to....





Thursday, October 25th 2018
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Frustrated...and not the good kind!
You've probably noticed that My days on cam are rather sporadic at the moment, and it's circumstances beyond My control.

Since My upstairs neighbour has moved out; his flat is having to be refurbished rather extensively - to bring it to a standard where it can be let again - yes; this is what happens when you fail to maintain properties to a good standard. You have to spend lots of money all at once. That's landlords for you!

This means there's lots of heavy machinery making a horrendous noise 5 days a week. Lovely!

And on top of that; there's work going on on the outside of the property too! With the entire house being surrounded by scaffolding. Those using the scaffolding are not only foghorns when it comes to holding a conversation with each other - they're also bloody nosey. No way are they having an ear wig at what I'm doing to My subs.

And today and tomorrow; the external woodwork of My flat is being painted. I found this out today. No 24 hours notice as I'm supposed to have. Nope. I go outside and they're painting the window frames and doors with "can you keep your door open?" being grunted at Me.

So not only do I have to sit and listen to drilling, hammering, foul-mouthed builders and some god awful singing (yes really!), I now have to sit in the freezing cold because all the doors have to be open.

Not good conditions for camming. You boys won't thank Me - especially when you hear the sound of them singing - strangled cats sound better.

For those who were hoping to session with Me this week, I can only apologise. I'm as frustrated as you are and I'd give My right arm for them all to bugger off and let Me get back to normal.

But rest assured; as soon as they've all pissed off, I'll be back to normal camming hours - and the stench of paint. Fab!
Sunday, September 16th 2018
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When The Sadist Becomes The Pained....
Those who are regular to serving Me will know that I've had horrendous problems with My spine for a couple of years. This has prevented Me from offering certain services, including foot worship shows. It's also rendered Me almost housebound due to being in chronic pain.

For those who don't know; a couple of years ago I injured My back whilst doing some heavy gardening. This led to a herniated disc in My lumbar region with constant sciatica in My right leg.

If you've never experienced sciatica before; let Me tell you that it is extremely painful. It's a constant dragging ache from the buttock all the way down into the foot, with intense spasms of shooting pain at frequent intervals. It's very debilitating and affects daily life, making even the simplest of tasks like getting dressed, very painful. Taking a shower becomes a mammoth task and as for walking normally - forget it! It's not happening.

Over the last 2 and half years; I've been prescribed countless painkillers which have done nothing. I've had 4 sessions of physiotherapy which actually made the situation worse. In the end; I was referred to a pain specialist, where I begged him to do something to get rid of the pain I've lived with for several years of My life.

Yesterday; I had a steroid epidural injection and a caudal nerve root block, in the hope that it would finally get rid of the pain and give Me back My life.

I have to say; the ESI was a breeze. Apart from the stick, sting and a burn of the local anaesthetic, I didn't feel a thing.

Then came the caudal nerve block...

Oh... My..fucking...God! I was NOT prepared for that one. In the literature I've received about the procedure; it proudly states that "most patients are able to tolerate the injection, with minimal discomfort."

What a load of utter bollocks!

Imagine having a ten-tonne articulated truck parked on your pelvis and you might get an inkling of just how much that shit hurts.

As soon as the shot hit that nerve root; I had been transformed from a "yeah, bring it on" cool as a cucumber patient to a "fucking get off me before I punch you in the throat" patient!

Two minutes of pure agony which seemed like 2 days. Imagine the pain of having somebody drilling into your tailbone and yet you have to remain completely still. Rather difficult to say the least.

"Would you like to squeeze somebody's hand?" the consultant asked to which I replied, "fuck yes!"

And boy did I squeeze!

In my painful delirium, I squeezed so hard, I'm surprised I didn't hear the poor lady's fingers snap, an indication of the crushing pain in My entire pelvic region.

"You're doing really well...not too long now" I was calmy informed by the consultant. Meanwhile; I've broken into a sweat and I've clenched My jaw so tight; I ground My teeth into powder.

After what seemed like several lifetimes later; the all whole process was done and I lay there panting in disbelief as I reminded Myself to never again believe any medical literature about any procedure being "well tolerated."

An hour later; I was back at home and over the space of literally 10 minutes; I felt the constant pain I'd experienced in My right leg fade until it had disappeared completely. Success! That feeling of being under a steel press was definitely worth it!

So now; I'm enjoying being relatively pain-free, apart from some residual pain in the injection site. And I shall enjoy it for as long as it lasts. It could be a day, weeks, or even a fair few months. It doesn't matter - I intend to make the most of it.

I shall enjoy doing the things I haven't been able to do for almost 3 years - like a walk down to the local shop for a pint of milk. Sleep in more than one position. Enjoy a full night's sleep without waking up in agony several times. And wear heels for longer than 10 minutes.

So to anybody who's having a caudal nerve root block; I say this to you. It's definitely worth it if it works for you. You will feel like a new person.

But for the love of God; don't pay attention to those who say "oh it's a breeze. You won't feel a thing!" They're fucking liars! If somebody with a very high pain threshold is transformed into a shaking, sweating mass of agonised groaning; then trust Me, that shit HURTS!

Next time; Mr "oh you're doing well...we're almost done" can knock Me the fuck out BEFORE he shoves anything in My back!

Oh and I apologise to My partner who was chided with "I'm not going over the top" when he wished Me luck....how wrong I was!
Thursday, April 5th 2018
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Why The Government Should Stop Practising Medicine
I may be only 39, but trust Me when I say I sometimes feel as though I have the body of an 89 year old.

Those who have conversed with Me have often asked why I don't allow foot fetish shows on DirectCam. The answer is simple; I'm disabled.

Granted this hasn't always been the case. Only 3 years ago; I was more than able to show My feet on DirectCam. Then My spine decided that it had had enough of being mobile and it was time for it to fuck up completely.

Since then; I have been plagued with arthritis of the lower spine and pelvis and to add insult to injury; a permanently herniated disc in My lumbar spine.

Let Me tell you; if you haven't ever suffered with a slipped disc - that shit HURTS! It's right up there with labour pain. Not only does it hurt in the spine, but it hurts all around the pelvis, buttocks and down both legs. Oh and lower leg and foot cramps as well as Restless Leg Syndrome are also an addition to the unbearable pain.

This is why I cannot offer foot fetish on cam. Putting Myself into positions that increase the pain, is the last thing I want to do. Even lifting My leg up is agony. I have to avoid anything which compresses the disc, at all costs.

It is also the reason why sometimes; I'm just not able to get on cam. There are some days when I'm in so much pain that I just don't know what to do with Myself. Imagine the pain of a tooth abscess - yes; that shit hurts. Now imagine it 24/7 in your lower back, hips, pelvis, buttocks and down both legs - you get an idea of how painful it gets.

While I'm on painkillers and taking several different types of painkiller; I'm never not in pain. On a good day; it's a dull ache in My lower back. On a bad day; it feels like somebody is drilling a hole in to My spine. It's hell and right now, today is a bad day.

Wet weather and humid weather all affect it. When the arthritis causes My bones and joints to become inflamed, it puts more pressure on the herniated disc, which means it irritates the spinal nerve even more. This week has been the mother of all flare ups; which is why I'm sat writing this, trying desperate to keep My spine straight, even though the bulging disc doesn't want Me to.

In an ideal world; I would have had surgery to sort the problem. I am indeed a good candidate for the surgery. In, cut the bulge out, stitch Me back up, sorted.

But with a Government who likes to waste NHS money; this is not an ideal world.

There are several steps one has to go through before surgery can be considered.

1.) Pain management through medication. I'm on a very strong anti-inflammatory. Any stronger and I'll be burning a hole in My stomach. I'm also on neuropathic pain killers - which do about as much good as swallowing smarties.

2.) Physiotherapy. In practice, a good idea. And yes; I do light yoga as often as I can, in order to get the muscles working. But when I'm barely able to move; physio is just not an option. I've had this for a little over 2 years. I've been doing stretches as much as I can in 2 years. 6 weeks of physio is NOT going to make a difference.

3.) Spinal injections. Steroids in other words. Yes; these can be beneficial, but they come with side effects. Steroid injections in the lumbar spine can cause arthritis - I already have arthritis in the lumber spine. Long term use can lead to osteoporosis - I have a strong history of that in My family - My Mother has the disease. I'm not about to have something which in the long-term, is going to make the problem worse.

4.) Surgery - the most obvious option.

But before I get to the surgery; I have to go through the palaver of the first three steps. I'm currently on the second option - with the physiotherapist struggling to find a way to help Me, because of My level of pain. She can't bypass it and say "surgery is the only option for you", because the government have said I must have 6 weeks of physio which isn't going to work.

Meanwhile; I'm left in agony with an increased risk of stenosis the longer it goes on - stenosis by the way; can lead to paralysis and loss of bowel and bladder control.

Currently; I am practically house-bound. When I do go out, I have to walk with a stick. I cannot walk longer than 10 minutes without having to sit down. The only place I'm actually comfortable and pain free is when I'm sitting on the toilet. And the longer the government fanny about; using My spinal health as a medical guinea pig; the greater the risk of permanent nerve damage.

Why is the NHS losing so much money? Not just to deep cuts. It's down to the Government implementing ridiculous and totally unpractical procedures, which waste money. With the money spent on physio sessions, monthly prescriptions for pain meds etc; I could have had the surgery and then some. But right now; I have to suffer while Doctors work through the steps to get to the obvious answer. Do I blame them? No. They're equally as frustrated as I am. But they're not allowed to say so.

When Jeremy Hunt can provide evidence of his medical degree; THEN he can decide what's best for Me. Until then; he needs to shut up and let the doctors do their job!

Sunday, March 18th 2018
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HOUSEHOLD KINK TOYS
Not everybody is able to lay their hands on bdsm & fetish equipment. Perhaps you are new to the scene. You don't have the budget to stock up on them. Or maybe your vanilla life makes if difficult to have such items lying around.

Not to fear. There are a range of items you can use to make your sessions extra exciting:

Cucumber/carrot
Rubber bands
String
Leather belt
Candles
Lighter/matches
Rubber gloves
Deep Heat cream
Tabasco Hot Sauce
Wasabi Paste
English Mustard
Ice Cubes
Water
Lubricant
Baby oil
Wooden Spoon
Clothes Pegs
Bulldog clips
Tights
Stockings
Lingerie
Make Up
Marker Pen
Toilet Roll Tube
Pillow
Vinegar
Nettles
Rope
Dust Masks
Slippers
Wooden/Plastic Ruler
Fishing Weights
Wigs
Shoes/Boots
Plate
Toothbrush
Toothpaste
Duct Tape
Cellotape
Hair Bands
Clingfilm
Fresh ginger (bring chopped cucumber)
Fresh chillies (bring chopped cucumber)
Condoms
Vapour Rub
Tiger Balm
Tweezers
Waxing Strips
Vegetable Oil
Hair Conditioner
Sand Paper
Scouring Sponge
Sand
Ice Lolly
Ribbons
Vibrating Objects

Saturday, March 3rd 2018
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10 RULES OF SERVITUDE.

Now that you have found Me; you are already growing weak with the desire to serve Me. I am on your mind constantly; and you know that deep down; there is no escape. The only option available to you is to serve. But before you do; you need to understand and accept My rules:

1. You must understand that I am your Mistress. I am always above you.

2. You must always obey Mistress. I guarantee that any punishment is far worse than any task I set.

3. You must always speak to Mistress with respect. If you dare to speak out of turn with with an attitude; you will be punished immediately.

4. You are to do everything in your power to enhance the life of your Mistress. You are to observe My daily online life such as the tweets I share, the opinions I express and the experiences I talk about. You are to do whatever you can to make My life better. I do not need to ask you to do this. I shouldn't have to ask you to do this. You should do this automatically.

5. The well-being and happiness of Mistress is always paramount and far more important than yours. You will do whatever you can to make Me happy; even if you end up suffering as a result. You have chosen a life of servitude; so get used to it.

6. Your Mistress is everything to you. I am the only Mistress is your life. If you attempt to serve multiple Mistresses while serving Me; you will be immediately punished. Disloyalty is always "rewarded" with dismissal. I will not tolerate a submissive who is not faithful and devoted. I will always find out if you are not.

7. You will not ask ridiculous questions. If you have a question and the answer is on My profile; you will not ask it. If it is so ridiculous that anybody with half a brain can answer it; you will be ignored. Mistress is far too busy to entertain stupid questions. Always think before you speak.

8.You will always address Me as "Mistress", "Mistress Cristal" or "Goddess". Any sign of disrespect will be punished.

9. If Mistress asks you to repeat something; you will always repeat it loudly and with conviction. You will not mutter into your chest like a pathetic little mouse. You will speak up and say it clearly and loudly. Even though you are a complete waste of space; you are also submissive and you will demonstrate this by repeating Mistress as though it were the most important thing in your life and you believe it 100%.

10. If you disobey Mistress or do something to annoy Me; you will be punished immediately. Correction is always instant, no matter where you are or what you are doing. I do not recommend you disobey by attempting to wriggle out of a task I've set. As I've already told you; My punishments are far worse than the task.

These are My rules and the rules you will agree to live by if you wish to serve as My submissive. It is your job to ensure you know these rules inside and out. It is your job to memorise them until they are stored in your tiny little brain and until they become second nature.

Practise the rules until they are going through your pea brain over and over again. Then we shall see if you are worthy of serving Me. I have very high expectations and I will only accept the best.

If you think you have what it takes to serve Me; then you will come to Me on your knees and demonstrate that you have fully understand My rules, if you are to have any chance of earning My consideration..
Thursday, January 11th 2018
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When the public decides your fate...
When it comes to chastity; I will often put the length of a chastity sentence to a public vote. Sure; I could decide the length of time Myself, but that isn't nearly as much fun. Far better to have the public decide how long a particular sub should remain locked. Very amusing for Me. Highly humiliating for sub!

This afternoon, Marja Sissy's fate was placed in the hands of the public, on twitter. She's already spent the last few days in chastity at My command. She's a relatively new sub who has demonstrated well as to why she deserves My attention. So I decided to give her a test of loyalty and obedience.

Not only did I have her send a picture of her chastised clit; but I had her pick a number between 1 and 5. She picked three. So there began My poll options. Was she to remain locked for 3 days, 3 weeks or 3 months? One hour later; the decision was made. Three months of chastity for Marja Sissy. No time off for good behaviour. Weeks may be added for bad behaviour. This was further demonstrated when she forgot to use the word "Mistress" in a response to Me. One extra week added.

This means that her clit will not see any chance of freedom before 18th April. Her key is currently frozen in a cup of water at the back of the freezer. And in case she's tempted to make a break for it; I will be asking her at any time, day or night, at a moment's notice, to show proof that she's still locked. I could have her send a picture or I could contact her by webcam to see if she's still locked. She won't know when it is coming or which method I will use. She just has to comply.

The reward if she completes this chastity sentence; is that she will go under My consideration for ownership. The punishment if she fails; will be that she is dismissed. I will also operate a "three strikes" policy during her sentence - three incidences of disobedience will lead to her doing the whole sentence again, concurrently.

Oh; and she WILL be teasing herself for My amusement, throughout her sentence AND collecting and storing her precum. What she will do with her precum once sentence is complete; I shall leave to your imagination...
Monday, December 11th 2017
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BDSM As Therapy.
In today's fast paced and demanding world; don't we all wish we could just take time out and let somebody else handle all the responsibility, if just for a little while?

How many of us long to go back to the days when we were children? Life was so much easier then. We had no worries or cares. All we cared about was if Santa would bring the present we desperately wanted or if we should have coco pops or shreddies for breakfast.

Everybody has an amount of stress in their lives. It could be a little or it could be a lot. Some are able to cope with stress and high-pressured environments. Some cannot handle it. Some learn how to use stress to their advantage. Some go to pieces. The fact is; we ALL need a certain about of stress in our lives - it's what help us to get up in the morning. But sometimes; that stress can get to a point where we feel as though our lives are spiralling out of control.

When we are faced with more stress than we can handle; we become rather like a champagne bottle which has been shook up. It fizzes and gurgles until finally; it cannot take the pressure and the cork explodes out of the bottle; releasing the fizzy wine like a fountain.

This is when all of our frustrations, all of our pent up emotions come out in extreme emotional ways. We cannot bottle up our feelings; because inevitably, they will be released in an explosion of emotion.

But how do we prevent ourselves from getting to that state in the first place?

We take time out from reality.

Think back to being a child again. When we got over excited or overwrought; our parents had us endure a few moments on the "time out" step or in the corner to cool down. As adults; we can't realistically do that, so we use other ways to take time out from the world, so that we can de-stress and re-charge.

When a submissive surrenders control to a Dominant partner; that is their form of taking "time out". It can be an enormous relief to just allow somebody else take responsibility for a change. Giving over your body and mind and allowing somebody else to make decisions for you is often a form of therapy to those who are in positions of power in their vanilla lives. They need that balance to keep the equilibrium in their lives. Let's face it - being in control 24/7 is exhausting - and NOBODY can keep it up without some form of release, whether it be a positive or negative release.

To many submissives; indulging in some time of somebody else being in charge, is rather like regressing to the care-free days of being a child. They don't have to think. They don't have to make a plan. They just go with the flow and accept that somebody else is now responsible for them, if only for a little while. They enjoy the release of being free of responsibility, if just for a little while.

I thoroughly enjoy allowing My clients to enjoy this feeling. I want them to get the best out of this special time out, so that not only can they explore their fetishes and kinks, but they can leave the session feeling refreshed and happy, ready to go back to taking control in the real world again.

BDSM & submission is not just about the physical aspects of the scene. It's about the psychology of the entire fetish. A private place where the mind can be at peace and the body can be controlled without the submissive even having to think about it. No pressure. No stress. Just some time for them to enjoy being dominated and indeed nurtured at the same time.

To Me; dominating a submissive is a lot more than simply ensuring they do as they are told. You take on multiple roles during the process - nurturer, psychologist, nurse, protector, and teacher. You are responsible for them during your time together, and it's important to be responsible not just for their physical well-being, but also their emotional well-being.

In My sessions; I want to enjoy Myself, but I will only do that if My sub enjoys himself. When both parties have had some quality time then you have found a quality relationship. And it's amazingly therapeutic for both.

BDSM is probably not going to make it's way to any accredited therapy list any time soon. But when it comes to making therapy exciting; what a better way to do it!
Monday, June 5th 2017
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Chastity Sub is buzzing as he goes shopping!
Last week, Chastity Sub was set a particularly humiliating task which meant he would be doing some serious squirming in public. He is such a compliant little sub, and will happily obey every order I give him. And he didn't fail to amuse this time!

When Chastity Sub first started serving Me; he mentioned that he didn't like to be feminised. He's now been with Me for well over a year and his training has taken a rather surprising turn. He's gone from being a compliant, chastised boy, to a slutty, compliant sissy - not bad for somebody who was against feminisation!

So to set him on his journey of becoming a fully sissy and to live as one in every moment of his life; I sent him on a very embarrassing shopping trip, which had him buzzing - literally!

"When Mistress Cristal gave me the task to perform on Bank Holiday Monday it filled me with dread and apprehension. I was instructed that I was to put my vibrating cock ring on and go to a local department store and buy 3 pairs of panties. When I got home I was to throw away 3 pairs of my mens underwear. As I was given this task on the Friday it gave me plenty of time to squirm in worry before Monday. The final part of the task was that every time I was near the shop I had to buy another pair of panties and replace a pair of masculine pants until I was rid of all masculine pants and only had feminine panties left to wear.

On Monday I was extremely nervous as I put on the vibrating cock cage and got dressed ready to go out. The sound of the buzzing sounded really loud and because I haven’t cum since 1 January and have been teased and denied a lot since then the vibrations went through me making me aroused and feeling on edge and starting to leak pre cum all the time. I had to wait for my cock to soften from it being very hard before I could leave the house. I did not want people seeing that I was erect no matter how small it is.

As I made my way to the shop I was fully conscious of feeling bright red and of feeling aroused and leaking and the noise from the ring. I was hoping no one would notice the sound or see my arousal or the growing wet patch in my trousers.

When I got to the shop I must have felt the most embarrassed I had ever and must have been bright red. When I stepped into the shop I kept pretending that the sound was my phone hoping everyone would believe it. There were 5 women in the shop as I made my way to the panties. 2 were close to the panties so I pretended that my phone was buzzing and I was being careful not to let it be seen that I was aroused and leaking so much.

When I started looking through the panties I was extremely self conscious and feeling so much more aroused and leaking more. I was feeling like my face was glowing red. As I looked through them I kept thinking about what panties Mistress would like and how much fun She would be having if She was there watching. I thought that Mistress would also have me wearing the loudest cock ring as well.

I had never felt so embarrassed and squirming when I took 3 pairs to the counter. When I was at the counter I was being very careful for the assistant not to see my arousal or wetness and doing my best to try to disguise the noise still pretending it was my phone.

When I left the shop I was hoping that the people in the shop and the assistant had not paid much attention or would have noticed and talked to their friends about it.

To add to the embarrassment and humiliation Mistress made me tell twitter about it so it was not a secret. To further add to the embarrassment the tweets seemed quite popular and I was being asked plenty of questions. Mistress ensures that I have to answer all questions honestly no matter how embarrassing or humiliating they are as part of not being allowed to have any secrets."

Not only did I have him tell twitter, but I also made him model his purchases on twitter. Below are pictures of the panties he bought. I'm sure you'll agree that they are really quite pretty! He'd better get used to wear them, because this week he's replacing ALL of his masculine underwear with panties. On Friday; he will be throwing away any masculine underwear and will only be wearing panties from now on - that should be interesting if he ever has to go for a physical....

Next week; we move on to vests - to replace with crop tops and bras. And then finally socks; to replace with feminine socks, tights and stockings. As you can see; Chastity Sub is becoming every inch a real sissy, which each passing week!
Friday, April 21st 2017
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Double Domination with a Male Dom.
On the odd occasion; I will work with other Dommes to humiliate a sub. Usually it is another Dominatrix but today; for the first time ever, I enjoyed humiliating a sub, together with a male Dom.

It was by request from a submissive on AdultWork, who has long since had a thing about forced bi. The idea was that he get a random guy over and I direct the proceedings via webcam. Well who was I to refuse? I couldn't wait to get My teeth into such a session.

So suitable candidate was found and while he was on his way over, I had sub naked, kneeling and inhaling poppers to make himself fully compliant with what was about to happen. Once Dom had sent a text to sub to say he was literally metres away from his house, I had sub put on a blindfold, place his hands on his head and wait patiently for Dom to arrive.

Dom simply walked into the house and after a brief chat; the session started with sub kissing Dom's feet like a good boy. At all times; I was ensuring Dom was pleased, and encouraging him to be rough with sub if he was not. During the process of sub kissing his feet; with both of us commented that sub could do better,. Sp I had sub pull Dom's socks off with his teeth.

Silly boy used his hands. I hadn't given him permission to do that. So I instructed Dom to slap sub across the face and do it properly. Sub was instantly subdued and reminded of his place.

Once Dom and I were both satisfied sub was doing a better job, I had sub open his mouth wide for Dom to push his thick, meaty cock straight into sub's throat. Dom was a little tentative at first until I told him that sub could take very rough treatment. Before long; Dom was fucking sub's face with gusto, sometimes pushing sub's head right down on his cock to choke. It was so wonderful to see sub being used this way and I couldn't get it enough. Neither could Dom because before long; he was slapping sub's face and pummelling his mouth.

Next sub was instructed to lick Dom's balls which he did dutifully. "Don't be afraid to use painful correction if he displeases you," I said to Dom and he happily gave sub a few more hard slaps across the face. Sub can't get enough of being degraded so I figured it was time for him to lick somewhere else. That's right; Dom's ass. Dom quickly turned around and pushed his ass right in sub's face as sub began to lick. I took great delight in the fact that Dom reached back to push sub's face even further. "Get right in there with that tongue;" I ordered. "If you displease Sir; then you will ultimately displease Me. That will not be tolerated."

Sub was licking with much more enthusiasm and was then allowed to use fingers, which Dom happily accepted.

"I like to keep slut properly frustrated," I explained to Dom. "So I want to see you in a 69 with him." After a bit of moving around; Dom happily planted himself on sub's face, shoving his cock down his throat once more. I think Dom enjoyed sub's mouth, don't you? He gave sub a little suck but just enough to increase his excitement. Certainly not enough to let him cum "Be sure to have him lick your arse in this position," I advised. "Just to remind him of his place." More arse licking from sub, before I ordered him back to his knees.

I could tell Dom was getting seriously turned on and almost ready to cum, so I had him fuck sub's face even more. "Where would you like to cum?" I asked Dom, and without hesitating Dom replied; "oh all over his face." And that's exactly what he did. Sub was made to stick out his tongue ready and Dom just unloaded his balls all over his face. "Oh make sure you wipe your prick on his cheek when you've finished," I said to Dom. It was so pleasing to see Dom do that - just wiping the end of his cock all over sub's face.

And do you know what Dom did after that? He simply got dressed, and left. No "thank you". No "good boy". He just dressed and left without saying a word. I couldn't have planned it better Myself. A lovely cold reminder of what sub exists for and a reminder of his place.

Next time; sub will be taking big black cock - from an even more Dominant male who likes to get rough and sadistic. I'm REALLY looking forward to that one!
Monday, June 27th 2016
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The dreaded "wasabi treatment"...
Ah, the moment chastity sub had long since been dreading. It was time to move his suffering up a few notches. Enter the "wasabi treatment"!

"When Mistress Cristal instructed me to purchase wasabi paste to be used in the next session I was to have with Mistress it immediately filled me with a feeling of deep anticipation and dread. Mistress has ordered me to use hot English mustard and hot Tabasco before on Her cock and balls and nipples and I have experienced and suffered the heat they generate. However wasabi has a reputation of being very hot to touch on skin so the knowledge that I would be experiencing this gave a deep feeling of dread and anticipation. I know that I am fully owned by Mistress Cristal and that I have no choice in what is done to me or my body as it is Mistresses to do with as she desires. I also know that any thought I have on anything is of no concern to Mistress as what is important is what Mistress desires or chooses.

When I went into the supermarket I was full of anticipation and when I picked up the wasabi all I could think of was how hot it would feel on me when used. It was 2 weeks after purchasing the paste that I had a session with Mistress. In those 2 weeks I was always conscious that the paste was there waiting to be used and was in dread of the feeling of it. All that time knowing I had no choice in how it was used as it was all Mistress Cristals choice. I could see the wasabi every day reminding me of what I was due to experience.

On the day of the session I had everything prepared and ready for Mistress Cristal to use in any way she chose. I was in complete trepidation and dread and fear of what was to come and excited in the knowledge that as I am the property of Mistress Cristal that I had to fully submit with no choice or concern of my thoughts.

The session was over an hour of suffering cock, ball and nipple torture for Mistresses amusement and pleasure. Throughout all the suffering I knew there was more to experience and I was in dread that it was going to be worse than I have ever experienced before. When Mistress instructed me to spread a generous amount of the wasabi paste onto a plate I was in complete dread and trepidation in fear it was going to be the worst heat I have ever been made to experience for Mistresses pleasure and amusement.

When Mistress Cristal instructed me to paint the wasabi paste with an artist paint brush generously over Her balls I knew I had no choice but to obey. Before hand the balls had already been made sore and very tender from the session. During the session I had them spanked hard with a wooden spoon before having 2 industrial clamps applied biting in hard and painfully. With the clamps attached I had been forced to do a minutes marching, a minutes jogging on the spot, 20 squats, 20 lunges with the left leg and 20 lunges with the right leg, can can for a minute and a minutes pogo jumping. Throughout all this the pain of the clamps bouncing around tugging hard on the skin of my balls was very hard and got worse with each second. After this I had a pin wheel run deep around the skin next to were the clamps were biting in which was a strong pain going right through me making me shake hard. After this the balls had been further softened by having hot wax dripped on them which as it hit areas were the clamps had bitten in and where the pins had dug in deep really stung hard. Once the wax was hardened every spot of it was removed by whipping hard with a leather belt. Before the paste was even applied my balls were really tender and sore. The heat from the wasabi as the brush touched my balls was like the flame from the candle being applied directly to them. The heat got worse and worse as my balls were fully coated in a thick layer of wasabi paste. They felt like they were on a hot plate with the heat gradually getting hotter and hotter bringing more tears to my eyes all the time.

I was then instructed to paint the paste onto my nipples. During the session they had also been made sore and tender by having clover clamps applied with 16 ounces of weights added to hang off them tugging them down hard before doing the exercises as above. As the exercising had intensified the swinging of the weights on the clamps had gotten worse making the clamps bite harder and tug sharper on my nipples. As the weights bounced up there was a moment of release of tension of the clamps on the nipples immediately followed by gravity forcing the weights back down increasing the pain of the biting of the clamps more and more. Do to the sweating from the exercise, pain and humidity the clamps slipped from the nipples which made them tug down hard on the nipples causing more pain than when they were put on. When I was allowed to remove the industrial clamps from my balls I had to place them on my nipples and as they were already so sore and tender from the weighted clover clamps the pain was tremendous. After Mistress gave me permission to remove the clamps the pin wheel was run over the nipples deep which was incredibly sharp and painful. As my nipples were already so tender and in pain I was in dread of the heat from the wasabi paste. As it was painted on thickly the heat also felt like a naked flame on them getting hotter and hotter and made me shake and sweat a lot more.

The heat from the wasabi paste coated on my balls and nipples was far worse than I had suffered from hot mustard and hot Tabasco and seemed to keep getting hotter and hotter with each second bringing more sweat and tears to my eyes. I had no choice but to endure it for as long as Mistress decided for her pleasure and amusement. My pain and suffering and discomfort was of no concern to Mistress as it is Her pleasure that is the principal goal.

I then had the vibrating butt plug inserted and put on its most intense setting. There was some pleasure felt from the vibrations but this was overwhelmed by the heat.

During the 2 weeks I had the wasabi I had been instructed by Mistress to undertake 2 hours tease and denial every day collecting my pre cum in a brandy glass with an extra 5 hour tease and denial the day before the session. Mistress made me take the full content of the glass into my mouth and keep it there until She said otherwise. It felt humiliating having a mouth full of pre cum being made to taste it for as long as Mistress wanted.

Mistress then gave me permission to wank but only by wrapping coarse sandpaper around Her cock and using that. It was a strange mixture of pain and discomfort from the heat burning my balls and nipples and the sandpaper rubbing my already tortured and tender cock mixed with pleasure from wanking after being on edge for 2 weeks solid and from the vibrating butt plug and shame and humiliation from having a mouthful of pre cum and tasting it all the time. After some hard begging Mistress was very kind to allow me to cum in the glass. I felt great pleasure from cumming which was immediately replaced with a reminder of how hot the wasabi was burning. Mistress then allowed me to swallow all the pre cum and then drink the full content of the glass followed by the humiliation of having to scoop every last part of the cum out with my fingers and lick them clean and swallow it all like I was hungry and thirsty for every last drop of cum like a cum hungry slut.

After the session I also had the humiliation of Mistress informing the whole world of my suffering and showing them pictures of my hot wasabi covered balls and nipples.

It was a relief to have permission after this from Mistress to remove the hot wasabi and apply cucumber to help cool my balls and nipples. It was the hottest they have ever been and the heat lasted for hours . Mistress also filled me with further dread by saying this appeared to be her weapon of choice now knowing how hot it actually is. I know as Mistress Cristal pet and property what is most important is Her pleasure and there is no concern for my thoughts on anything or my suffering in achieving this."

And since then; chastity sub has acquired another "instrument of torture"....keep your eyes peeled for what THAT might be....
Sunday, June 26th 2016
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Frustrated "bingo" player & dildo rodeo
I absolutely love cam days that are filled with variety. That's the nature of the game - some days you have about 10 sessions of jerk off instruction and some days you have sessions which cover every kind of session imaginable. Those are My favourite days and today was one of them.

The day kicked off with a lovely game of Wank Bingo with a slave. He'd already come once today and felt he needed "punishment" for doing so. It's too easy to tell him he's not allowed to cum. Instead I much prefer to tease him into a frenzy and leave him frustrated. And Wank Bingo is the ULTIMATE game of tease, denial, edging and frustration. I've know boys sob like a big girl when playing; and I always get a thrill from that.

10 bingo calls of numbers between 1 and 25. I count out the numbers generated by My random number generator. But it's the SPEED at which I count which provides the real frustration. I might count very very slowly. Or I might count very very quickly. The pace at which I count is the pace at which you wank. Sometimes I'll start off slowly and speed up. Sometimes I'll start off quickly and slow down. I particularly like it when I get a low number - like say 3 for example - that's three little pumps of your hand - very mean of Mistress.

Today's first game of Wank Bingo left the sub very frustrated. By the time we reached the tenth call; he was on his knees and begging for his release. Would he get it? Only if he came within 14 fast pumps. He didn't. So he went without.

An hour later; he was back again - this time his frustration had gone up a notch. Who am I not take advantage of the situation? So off we went on another round of Wank Bingo - this time I varied the speed greatly just to add to his desperation. 10 calls were made and with each call; the closer and closer to the edge sub got. Last call was 23 - 23 pumps of his cock to cum. Poor boy. 23 obviously wasn't enough for him - he was left feeling extremely frustrated again...I wonder how long it will be before he comes back for a third attempt? Glutton for punishment much?

Second fun session was with a dildo whore who wanted to show Me how much he loves to ride his rubber cock. The dildo provided was pretty impressive - almost the same size as My biggest strap on (10 inches) and after watching him gag and choke on the monster; I made him lube himself up and ram it up his hungry fuck-hole. It's so amusing to watch a man-whore ride a dildo for My entertainment. And he was riding it like a fat lass at a gymkhana. He couldn't get enough; bouncing up and down on that rubber dick while I told him how much of a faggot slut he was. That's when the truth came out. It's no secret that when boys are turned on enough; they'll often let slip their dark secrets.

"I wish it was a real cock Miss;" came his guttural confession. BINGO! Now we know what he really likes. He's not interested in rubber cocks really. He wants the real thing! And as I took him through a kinky fantasy of being gang-banged in a gay club; he rode his dildo faster and faster until he exploded in pleasure. I didn't need to instruct him to eat his mess. He was more than happy to do so. Well he has already admitted how much he loves cock. So loving cum as well goes with the territory....

I have no doubt that he'll act on his faggot fantasies. In fact; I'll make sure he does. Next time he comes to see Me; I'm giving him some homework. He's going to go out cruising for cock; since he wants the real thing so badly. And yes; he will be providing photographic and video evidence. Such an opportunity to humiliate him further is just too good to resist!
  

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