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Tuesday, January 26th 2021
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Do something amazing...and yet so very simple...
Today marks a milestone. A very sad milestone. Because today, we learned that 100K people had died from COVID, in the UK alone.

So I turn to you, anti-maskers. If you're not medically exempt and yet still refuse to wear a mask after learning of this devastating milestone, then please, read on.

To break it down, that is:

100K Grandfathers or Grandmothers.
100K mothers or fathers.
100K sons or daughters.
100K brothers or sisters.
100K grandsons & granddaughters.
100K best friends.
100K husband or wives.
100K girlfriends or boyfriends.

How many people lost the above because you refused to wear a mask?

And how many of them could have been related or connected to you?

Wear a mask. It's not just about protecting yourself. It's about protecting those you come into contact with. Because one of those people might just be somebody you love.
Monday, January 25th 2021
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The Great Twitter Purge And What You Can Do
If you're a sex worker and have a Twitter account, no doubt you will have been alarmed at the sudden increase in suspended sex worker accounts over the weekend.



Of course, the natural instinct is to panic, particularly since all those in the sex business have repeatedly found themselves decidedly unwelcome on many social media platforms. Instagram, though denying they discriminate against sex workers, have suspended accounts left, right and centre. Facebook has pretty much banned sex workers from their platform and now it seems the days of us being able to post freely on many of the mainstream platforms are fast coming to an end.

First and foremost; I wish to make it clear that all is not lost. There are still plenty of sex-worker friendly platforms out there and I strongly encourage for sex workers to sign up to as many as possible.

But what of Twitter?



The first thing to remember is this is nothing new. Indeed, the rules around sensitive media are nothing new. These rules have been around since 2019. The difference is, what's going on outside of Twitter.



With the dawn of covid and the ensuing mass of misinformation, Twitter has repeatedly been taken to task about how it controls what content is posted on its platform. From the very beginning of the COVID pandemic, Twitter immediately updated its algorithms to combat misinformation. Let's face it, in the midst of a global health pandemic, misinformation is dangerous and even deadly.



Then came the US Election and the eventual loss by Donald Trump. Cue repeated tweeting by the now Ex-President, bleating about how he "really won" what was a "stolen election." His followers lapped it up and were so keen to please their demagogue, they too became engaged in months of unfounded claims of election fraud, tampered ballot boxes and even votes from dead people. This all culminated in a horribly climatic riot on the US Capitol, at the urging of Trump, resulting in the deaths of five people - including two serving police officers.



When eventual reports of Qanon nutcases planning to kidnap senators and even execute the House Speaker and the now-former Vice-President, the mild enforcement action Trump had received by Twitter turned from a full-on permanent suspension - along with thousands of far-right extremism and Qanon accounts, for fear of continued incitement to violence in the wake of the inauguration of President Biden and beyond.



In short; Twitter had gone from letting a few questionable tweets slide with account limitations to shit suddenly getting very real. And that's where this current spate of suspensions come in.



Of course, with emotions running high on Twitter right now, it's not too difficult to imagine that Jack Dorsey & co are ensuring their fingers are firmly on the button, for fear of a tsunami of lawsuits. After all, social media sites like Twitter seem to be the breeding ground for hate, divisional language and exploitation. And that's exactly what has happened.



As of just a few days ago, it was announced that a victim of child sexual exploitation was planning to bring a lawsuit against Twitter after they allegedly refused to remove apparent child abuse content from their platform. The claim is that such images were reported to Twitter, and yet they refused to remove such content because it "didn't violate their policies."

But to then pour gasoline over the flames, said content was actually of the victim, posted by traffickers who allegedly blackmailed unnamed victim to send sexually graphic pictures and videos of themselves, else the content he had already shared with them would be exposed to their parents, pastor, school, coach and others.



It's fair to say that Twitter really dropped the ball in this case and the upshot is, they're running scared - quite rightly so when you consider that social media companies have been repeatedly warned of their obligations when it comes to child sexual exploitation. Indeed, the consequences of their failings are guaranteed to be far-reaching, in a world where there are already thoughts about social media being regulated by governing bodies. Worst-case scenario - Twitter forced to shut down until it cleans up its act - just like the favourite platform of far-right groups like Qanon - Parler. When that found itself being dropped from the likes of Google, Amazon & Apple, the plug was pulled until it took its responsibilities seriously and found a host willing to take it on.



The upshot is, to protect themselves, Twitter is draining the swamp. While the sensitive media rules have been in force since 2019, it has taken a global health pandemic, seriously unhinged Ex-President, a wave of conspiracy theory nutjobs, a riot on a Federal Building and now a child sexual exploitation suit for them to wake up and smell the coffee. And now, sex workers are finding that they are victims of this panicked swamp draining.



So what can't you do on Twitter under the new sensitive media rules?

Simply put, you cannot post explicit adult content. This includes:

Full or partial nudity of close-up shoots of genitals, breasts, and buttocks.

Simulated sexual acts.

Sexual intercourse or sexual acts. This includes cartoon based actions such as hentai or anime including humans or animal-like humans.



Basically, no muffty, dick, tits, ass, fucking, or simulated fucking. Look on the bright side though - you can now REPORT those unsolicited dick pics, ladies!



In addition, you cannot post physical harm or violence, including sexual violence. This includes:



Acts of BDSM leaving marks, i.e. caning, whipping, needle play, CBT, nipple torture, and extreme insertions.

In a nutshell, your Twitter profile MUST be squeaky clean. Remember, the platform is an open resource and can be viewed by anyone, including young children. Think of it rated as R15 instead of R18. And let me be clear, ticking the sensitive media box before you tweet out sexually explicit images will NOT keep you safe. Little Billy and his mates can easily tick the view sensitive media box if he wants to see some boobs. Basically, if it's something you wouldn't show to a child, don't post it. Save that stuff for your NSFW subscriber-based pages like AdultWork.

But it's not just limited to the content you post. There are things many will do every single day, without realising they're actually violating Twitter rules and thus putting their accounts at risk - especially when you consider Twitter's very strict anti-spam policy.



Follow Friday/HappyMonday/HumpDayWednesday tweets - STOP DOING THEM NOW!! Using hashtags and tagging multiple accounts will absolutely set off Twitter's anti-spam algorithms. A best, you risk a shadowban. At worse, you risk permanent suspension.

Back-Up Accounts. Yes, it might be tempting to create a second account "just in case", but this too is a violation of twitter's anti-spam policy. There is nothing wrong with creating a second account for another purpose - say you want to share details about your knitting hobby in your vanilla life. But you can't then use your second account to promote exactly the same stuff you post on your sex-worker account. It's known as cross-posting and Twitter REALLY doesn't like this.



Posting too many links and not enough engagement. Don't just use your account for posting links. Yes, of course, you've got to market your services - but don't let it be the only thing you do. Engage with other Twitter users, and invite people to engage on your posts. The trick is to make sure you look like a human being rather than a bot.

Repeated posting of the same thing. I too am guilty of this. Every day, you log on to your cam and you send out a tweet with all the links you're working from. Sure you may re-word it but it's still basically the same thing. And that makes you look like a bot. TWITTER HATES BOTS. Ever had your account limited due to "suspicious activity"? That's because twitter's algorithms think you're a bot. And when that happens, you know they'll be keeping an eye on you. Keep acting like a bot and you'll find yourself booted off Twitter.

Overuse of hashtags. Hashtags are a great way to increase twitter exposure. But if you're using more than 2 hashtags, then you look like you're spamming. Stick to one hashtag - and make it unique. Unique hashtags do actually get more exposure.



Automation. Auto DM's are guaranteed to get you banned. If you automatically send a welcome message to new followers and especially if it includes a link, you'd best kiss goodbye to your account. Twitter are extremely strict on this. But what about auto-tweets from cam sites, such as Adultwork, etc? Again, be careful. In the case of AdultWork, you can have two auto-tweets for - one for cam, one for phone chat. Allow only one to tweet your profile picture - I usually find the cam one is best.

Repeat posting. Twitter makes it so you cannot retweet your tweets more than twice. Attempt to bypass this by posting the same content over and over again, and you will find yourself banned. Twice is more than enough to keep you within the rules and keep things fresh.



Spamming accounts who don't follow you. Okay, so you want more followers and to convert those followers into customers. What harm can it do to tweet the odd random account with a link to your latest clip? A lot actually. You're sending them an unsolicited link. It's the equivalent of receiving an unsolicited phone call from your local double glazing company. It pisses off the recipient and it pisses off Twitter. Don't do it. Opt for engagement-rich creative tweeting instead and you will get those followers who will see your links without you having to stalk them.

Hijacking trending topics. So, you see a topic trending and you think "hey, I could use this to market my latest cam show!" Nope! If that topic is completely unrelated to your tweet, you will find yourself banned. For example; if cheese is trending, it's perfectly found to tweet about cheese. It's not okay to use that topic to tweet about how horny you are.

Aggressively following. Another thing that Twitter is cracking down on. Let's say in your recommendations, you have a certain number of accounts Twitter thinks you might like to follow. And you follow them. And then the message "you have no more recommendations today" comes up. That's because Twitter has said "right, that's your lot. You're not following anybody else in this session." If you log on and immediately follow 50 or 60 random accounts, that's the aggressive following. As a general rule, 10 maximum is what you should stick to if you really do want to follow folks (even better, let them follow you first!)

But then you have to pay attention to your follower ratio. If you're following 1000 people but only 150 are following you, Twitter will ask questions about why somebody with so few followers is following so many people. And so will the algorithms - meaning you'll be slapped with an aggressive following ban straight away.

Swearing. Yes, we all like to have a good swear. And god knows, sometimes in the adult business, we find ourselves having quite the potty mouth. But remember; it's not just you using Twitter. Kids are using it too. And they shouldn't be exposed to a string of strong expletives. Mild swearing like "ass" or "bloody" is fine. The F and C Words are not. If you must use them, censor them, i.e. F*ck and C*nt. You will find yourself banned if you just strong swear words like a sailor.

Be mindful of your profile and header pics. The sensitive media rules also apply to the picture you have in your profile and on your header. The good news is all those boys who have chosen their dicks as their profile pic, will find their Twitter days numbered. The bad news is that this also relates to the topics already covered in the sensitive media rules. Put a picture of you wearing a strap on there, you'll get bitch-slapped from Twitter. Keep it clean at all times.

Don't engage in online spats. If you harass, verbally abuse and otherwise bully other social media users, Twitter will put you in time-out - permanently. This includes calling somebody a "troll", threatening to expose their personal information and generally being shitty to somebody via your tweets. Keep it nice and friendly. If somebody is bugging you, block and forget about them. Don't fight back. In the long-term, you'll be seen as "problematic" and it won't end well for you.

And then sadly, we have to come on to the subject of escorts. Following the SESTA/FOSTA ban, it's becoming increasingly difficult for escorts to advertise their services. As much as I wish I could wave a magic wand and say, yes, post that you're talking in/outcalls, I can't. Fact is, your options are extremely limited there - and only to NSFW escort-friendly platforms. All mainstream social media platforms are cracking down on escorts and even real-time Domination services, under the guise of "combating sex trafficking" While we all know such enforcement will likely only INCREASE sex trafficking as it sends it further underground, sadly the powers that be have spoken. So if you are a Domme offering real-time sessions, I'm afraid the days of you using Twitter to advertise it are over and you're going to have to get creative about where you post to ensure there are no repercussions.

So, what can you do now? As sex-workers, we are ultimately at the mercy of such as Twitter and they can suspend if they wish to do so. The fact that it's almost impossible to speak to a human being at Twitter makes even more precarious. At the end of the day, they are a private business and can deny service for any reason at all. They don't owe you an account as proven by the permanent suspension of Donald Trump.

But you can be on the right side of their rules by cleaning up your twitter. My advice is to request your twitter archive and mass-delete all tweets and start again.

Remove all the sexually explicit previews from your clips or create new previews which are censored.

In the end, you need to make your Twitter profile as clean as possible; rated U even. We've all got a lot of work to do (me included) but hold on, and follow the rules, look for alternatives and we'll weather the storm. But ACT NOW! Don't leave it to chance.
Friday, January 22nd 2021
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"But it's just flu...."
I'm going to be serious for a moment.

In the space of a year, I've lost 4 friends to covid 19. One of those friends was the same age as me (early 40s) and was otherwise healthy.

Four friends.

Four lives.

If you still fool yourself into thinking that Covid is "just the flu", let me tell you, it's not.

Three of those friends were vaccinated against the flu.

They were not vaccinated against covid. In fact, I lost the fourth friend just days before he was due to be vaccinated.

Please, take this disease seriously. It doesn't have a preference. It doesn't discriminate. If a perfectly healthy 40-year-old with no underlying health conditions can fall victim to it, so can you.
Sunday, January 17th 2021
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REMOTE CONTROLLED ORGASMS...EVENTUALLY.
One of the things I love to do with subs is to control their toys. This is particularly the case with toys you can control with an app, like for example the Lovense app.

I get a great deal of satisfaction from logging on to a sub's favourite toy and sending them some devilish waves of pleasure. Often, I'll use it to bring them to the very edge of orgasm before bringing them back down again. And I'll do this REPEATEDLY until they're really, REALLY desperate. It's so satisfying to hear them beg and whine for their release, knowing that at any time, I can tease them further or even deny them altogether.

Two of my favourite toys to control are the Lovense Hush and the Lovense Max series.

The Hush is a discreet but extremely powerful butt plug. For a little toy, it delivers some pretty ground-shaking vibrations which can have a sub gasping and pleading in seconds - especially with some cruel and varying patterns.

Today's Lovense session featured the Hush. Sub hadn't cum for over nine weeks and was absolutely bursting. So after logging on to the app, I teased him relentlessly, hovering between strong intense vibration, pulses and even a dull hum. Those "ooohs" and "aaahs" I heard as I changed patterns were music to my ears!

See, I know which patterns will guarantee the undoing of a sub. I also know which ones will keep them clinging on to the very edge of orgasm, desperate for that final push.

The Max series is a suction slave which goes over the penis. It has two functions - suck and vibrate. Some subs prefer one without the other, often the vibration, while some subs what the whole lot.

And the patterns I love to create with those! Slow sucking with an intense vibration - it's enough to milk them, but not enough to make them cum.

Or just vibration - that too makes their cocks drool, but they still struggle to go over the edge without some extra stimulation - perfect for edging a desperate sub!

I've not yet had the chance to play with some of the other toys, yet. One I'm seriously interested in playing with is the Edge. I'm pretty sure it does exactly what it says on the tin. A nice ergonomically designed prostate massager with various vibration speeds. I can imagine that would be perfect for milking, cruel edging and also ruining orgasms. I'm going to have so much fun with that one!

See, controlling your orgasms is not just about me verbally telling you when and if you can cum, how you can stroke and what you must do. I don't even need to say anything when I have your pleasure and my fingertips. You just have to take what I'm giving you and hope I will be merciful!

Friday, January 15th 2021
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Mistress, do you think my fetish is weird?
Dear readers

A question I'm asked very often by clients and subs is "is my fetish weird?"

And many of you will be surprised by the answer I give you.

The fact is, no fetish is "weird". Sure, some might consider your particular kink "odd" or "not the norm", but you know what? That's because they don't understand it. Fear of the unknown if you will.

For us to understand a fetish, particularly our own fetishes, we have to understand exactly what a fetish is.

So let's go back to basics and break it down.

What is a fetish?

In layman's terms, a fetish is an act, object, thought, garment, part of the body or even word you find yourself sexually aroused by.

So for example, if you receive some form of sexual gratification from seeing feet, then you have a foot fetish. If you get turned on by bananas, then you have a fetish for bananas.

The truth is, you can have a fetish for absolutely anything and everything. I've encountered many fetishes over the years. Many you will have heard of and quite a few you probably won't have heard of. But I will come on to that later!

But how do we understand a fetish?

Where does my fetish come from?

Nine times out of ten, my clients attribute their fetish to something in their past. Take a client I spoke to today. He's got a thing for wedgies. He loves having his underwear pulled half-way up his back and even over his head.

And like many boys who have a wedgie fetish, this is often as a result of being bullied when they were younger. Perhaps by another boy, in which they were unceremoniously wedgied to the amusement and screams of laughter by the girls watching.

Or maybe they themselves were bullied by a girl. The ultimate humiliation. Their masculinity has been challenged by somebody female. They feel ashamed and embarrassed. But curiously, they find themselves incredibly turned on.

Sure, they may not feel turned on at the time. In fact, they probably wished the ground would open and swallow them up. But when they replay it over and over again in their head, their perception changes. Such was their embarrassment, they don't remember every single detail. So they add a bit of detail. And that detail turns into something very erotic.

Often when we remember things, we don't quite remember things as they actually happened. Think back to when you were younger. There was a place you went to as a child, which you perceived to be huge. But when you go back as an adult, it's a lot smaller than you remembered.

And when you're met with the reality of that place, you find yourself quite shocked.

That's because your conscious mind has remembered parts of that place and yet your subconscious has filled in the gaps.

And this is often the case when fetishes are born.

Only the important details are saved in your memory banks. The rest is colourfully added by the sexual psychology of your own subconscious mind.

And before you know it, you find very strong sexual feelings towards that experience. And that's when you've found your fetish. That one thing that feels naughty even forbidden, but gives you so much pleasure when you indulge.

Of course, not every fetish is born this way. Some can happen quite by accident. You may be mildly curious, yet not necessarily sexually stimulated by a certain fetish. But exploring it for a few times and all of sudden, that curiosity has turned into a full-blown boner! Why?

Because you've found your understanding of the fetish.

NEVER BE ASHAMED OF YOUR FETISH!

There is nothing shameful or disgusting about having a fetish. As long as it's legal and it's not hurting anybody, then why should you feel ashamed? Some feel shame because it's "not the way they were brought up."

Well, let's put that school of thought to bed straight away. Nobody is given a handbook on life when we come into the world. Nobody is told "you will like this" or "you will get turned on by that." You have the freedom to acknowledge or even choose your fetish.

So what if others aren't into it! It's not your problem. Your fetish is about you. It's about your sexual gratification, not theirs. It's what makes you the sexual being you are. Horses for courses. So pay no heed to the ignorance of those who aren't prepared to even try and understand your fetish. They are the ones missing out. You aren't.

Or maybe some feel "ashamed" because it's so far removed from how they like to be perceived by people.

Take submissives for example. Many of my subs come from positions of power in their vanilla lives. Company CEO's, Crown Court Judges, Directors - you name it. They spend their days taking responsibility for their positions, their companies, their jobs, their staff. So in their down-time, they like to spend some time NOT taking responsibility.

Does that make them any less of a person? Of course not! Everybody has a life outside of the humdrum of work, family, responsibilities. Some like to go to the golf course, and some like a Domme to play with their "other" balls. It's perfectly healthy. (I shall point out that it is NOT healthy to stifle your means of escapism! Everybody needs an emotional release!)

And then we come on the final point. Secrecy.

While some may be totally comfortable with their kinky side, there may be others who are not. There may also be circumstances were kinky life and vanilla life should not meet. Perhaps this person is a public figure. Or maybe they're just not comfortable with the outside world knowing what turns them on.

When a client lays bare his desires to me, he's also laying bare his soul. And it's the most vulnerable part of him. Am I going to disrespect his wishes for 100% confidentiality? No!

Unless a client specifies he wants people to know about him (and he's not in sub-space when he says this!), then it's a conversation between me and him and nobody else. Would I want the world to know the intimate details of my sex life? Hell no! Everybody likes to hold something back, even if it's just a few details or all of it.

The important thing to remember is while you're exploring your favourite fetish, you have to be comfortable. You have to have to confidence to know that it's been you and I and nobody else in the world need know anything about it. Only then can you truly relax and really get your mind into the place where you have complete freedom of expression.

So to round off. NO your fetish is not weird. NO it's not shameful and YES, it's perfectly okay to keep it a secret or not!



Monday, November 30th 2020
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Accidental Permanent Chastity.
Those who serve me on a regular basis, know that my first love is putting weak, wank-obsessed boys into chastity. In fact, I will often impose "chastity sentences" for weeks, months and even years. I'm sure you can guess which one of those is my favourite!

I currently have several boys in long-term chastity.

My longest-serving sub is shortly about to enter his fourth consecutive year of being locked up. Not one single orgasm has been had during his "imprisonment" and yes, he's increasingly frustrated on a daily basis, with no end to his torment in sight.

Another boy has just started his chastity sentence. He's locked up until at least next May, probably longer if he keeps misbehaving.

And I have another sub who's in intermittent chastity because he has medical issues. While he gets to endure regular milkings, he absolutely doesn't get to have any form of pleasurable release. I might let him out next year...if only to ruin his orgasm before locking him back up again. I haven't decided yet.

But then came a gentleman who reckoned he could handle "blind chastity."

This is a term I use for boys who want some form of keyholding in a virtual sense. They lock themselves up, place the key in a combination code lockbox and send me the code in the form of a photograph.

Now normally, I'll ensure I have the code before they scramble it so they don't see what the code is. This allows for any issues with the photographs.
Except for the boy who approached me last week was a little bit too eager and decided to let his excitement get the better of him.

Instead of waiting for me to confirm I had received the code and the photograph was clear and able to be read, he scrambled the code BEFORE he sent the pictures.

And unluckily for him, it would seem he took the said photos with a calculator. To say the photo quality is crap is putting it mildly. Johann Zahn could have done a better job with the tiny prototype he envisioned.

So now what?

Well, Mr Overly-Eager faces 3 options:

1. Suck it up, go to casualty and have his cage cut off while he burns in shame.

2. Pretend it's a "key to a filing cabinet" and take the lockbox to a locksmith.

3. Permanent chastity.

So far, he's chosen option three.

I wonder how long that will last....
Saturday, August 1st 2020
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Chastity Sub & Jerk Rarebit
Very recently, I had Chastity Sub demonstrate his culinary expertise in the shape of a lovely big plate of a special Welsh Rarebit. Well, it's not quite Welsh Rarebit. It's what I like to call "Jerk Rarebit."



Jerk Rarebit has all the usual ingredients you would expect to see in a Welsh Rarebit - cheese, eggs, mustard etc. But with one vital change. No beer. No milk. Just cum. Or rather in his case, since he's STILL in chastity (over three and a half years now, folks), pre-cum.



Chastity Sub is on strict orders to collect any and all pre-cum which leaks from his little caged clit. This could be from his constant state of frustrated arousal or from his 4 hours of daily teasing which I've already inflicted upon him. The poor slut leaks like a broken tap when the hitatchi wand is strategically placed, so there was definitely more than enough pre-cum to add to his Jerk Rarebit.

Because he's a slut who is only too eager to have the taste of cum on his lips - any cum to that matter. His own. Cum from the many men he'd love to service, he was very happy to ensure the task was completed.



And do you know, dear reader? He enjoyed his Jerk Rarebit so much, he even licked the plate clean! Move over, Gordon Ramsay because there is a new chef in town - a slutty one at that!
Monday, July 13th 2020
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Manners maketh sub
When is it ever appropriate to greet a Dominatrix for the first time with the words "hey bb"?

When is it ever appropriate to call her "darling"?

When it is ever appropriate to call her "baby"?

From the very start, when you approach be on cam, phone or email, I make it abundantly clear how you should address me - "Mistress" or "Miss Deviant."

Because when I get some little scrotum addressing me as "babe", I tend to get a bit miffed. So miffed that I'll either ignore your disrespectful ass or completely block you.

This is not a case of me being "picky". It's basic good manners. If you were going to a job interview, would you address your prospective employer as "babe"? Your mother? Would you call her "babe"? No of course not. It's not respectful.

So if you approach and find me ignoring you, you've probably blown your one and only chance to create a good first impression...
Thursday, March 26th 2020
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COVID19 UPDATE
Dear fans



At these worrying times of Coronavirus, we must all play our part to ensure we stay safe and protect ourselves and others. This means that we all have to make certain changes to our lives in order to remain healthy and reduce the spread of the virus.



The fact that I am online-based does not mean I can ignore the threat of contracting Coronavirus. Neither does it mean you aren't at risk from contracting it from me. Therefore, I will no longer be selling personal items such as used underwear, stockings, tissues, nail clippings, foot filings etc until further notice. This is because, at present, I cannot guarantee I have not come into contact with somebody who has COVID-19 symptoms.



Although I am not showing any symptoms of the virus, as you may know, some people are classed as "asymptomatic" which means they do not show any signs or symptoms of the disease. As testing has yet to be rolled out across the board, I have taken this decision to ensure I do not pass any possible disease to you.



In addition to these measures, I have also decided to suspend any spit, sneezing, nose-blowing, coughing, booger-picking shows until further notice. While you cannot contract the disease behind a webcam, I must ensure I protect others in my household by reducing the risk with these measures.

Due to family commitments, it may not always be possible to cam at my regular hours during this crisis, but I will aim to be available for cam/phone sessions whenever possible. In the meantime, I would like to thank all my fans for their continued support and I remind them to stay safe, stay indoors and wash your hands.



Bye for now!
Monday, August 12th 2019
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FINALLY - SURGERY!
Well My little minions, your Mistress has FINALLY gone under the knife!

After being rushed into hospital last Wednesday, due to intense pain, numbness and inability to pee, I was on the operating table last Thursday morning having My long awaited microdiscectomy!

A very large piece of herniated disc was removed and I am now pleased to report that I no longer suffer with the searing nerve pain in My leg, which I had suffered from constantly for the last three years.

I'm back to peeing like a race-horse, which I can tell you feels absolutely wonderful and back home, resting, doing very light physio therapy exercises as I begin the long road to full recovery.



I will be available on DirectIM and Phone Chat on My usual days until I'm fit & well enough to return to webcam. Certainly for the next few weeks, online times are likely to be sporadic as I am still feeling the effects of having a general anaesthetic.

I'm finding that I can walk a little bit further every day. Yesterday, I managed to walk to the end of My street and back, which is definitely progress. Pre-op, I could barely manage to make it to the top of My small back garden.

Stitches will be removed next Thursday, I will see My surgeon in about 6 to 8 weeks, and will be referred for weekly physiotherapy some time in the next 6 weeks.



I am slowly getting back to normal, at last! Within 3 to 6 months, I anticipate foot-worship sessions to recommence as well as more weekly clips! Oh the freedom of being able to move around freely without being in pain.



For now though, I must remember "no BLT" - not the sandwich (which I love), but no bending, lifting or twisting. It's as long recovery, but I will get there out of sheer determination!
Monday, August 5th 2019
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On Hiatus
My regulars will have probably noticed that I've not been on cam for a few days. Well there is a reason for this and I've had a hellish time.

Last Wednesday evening I was rushed into hospital due to severe sciatic pain and an inability to pass urine.

In the process, I discovered how wonderful gas and air is - they should have that stuff on tap because as well as dulling the pain, it made me giggle uncontrollably - a nice distraction from the excrutiating agony I was in.

Anyway, I was admitted for a few days while I was pumped full of every painkiller imaginable and given an emergency MRI.

For those who don't know, sciatic pain with an inability to pass urine can be a sign of a serious condition known as Cauda Equina Syndrome, which can lead to paralysis and permanet nerve damage without emergency surgery.

I'm pleased to say that at the moment I do NOT have Cauda Equina, but I am still in a lot of pain. It's also not to say I won't develop this as I wait for much-needed surgery.

What the MRI scan did reveal is that the disc herniation in My lumbar spine has increased and is now pressing on a nerve. This is why I'm experiencing difficulties in passing urine and why I'm still in a great deal of pain.

The hospital have now discharged me with a shit load of pain relief which leaves me spaced out and drowsy and my doctor is helping me to fight to bring my spinal surgery forward. In short; the pain will only stop when I have an operation to remove the herniation.

This means that I won't be on cam as often as I would like to be. If I have a good day, I will make every effort to live stream. But this is not going to be very often at all because of the amount of pain I'm in and because of the amount of pain relief I'm currently taking.

I will try to be available on phone chat and Direct IM as much as my condition allows.

Until then, I just have to fight hard to get my operation ASAP so things can return to normal.

I express my sincere apologies to those who will be disappointed about this, but these are circumstances beyond my control. Just remember, when I'm fixed, everything will be back to normal.

Thank you for your patience.
Friday, July 26th 2019
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CT Scan or instrument or painful torment?
So on Tuesday; I had to have a CT scan as a result of the ongoing problems with My spine.

Now; I've never had a CT scan before. I've had just about every other diagnostic imaging method - MRI, X Ray, Ultrasound. But I was CT scan newbie and therefore; was quite intrigued by how the whole process would go.

So; having arrived at the hospital and enjoyed their wonderful air conditioning. Yes, it was hot as balls outside, but refreshingly cool once I entered the building; I had barely had My sip of complimentary coffee before I was called into the scanner suite.

First up was a request to remove My underwired bra. A simple task you might think, but with the size of My jubblies; it's not so much walking into the scanner room as much as bouncing and ending up with black eyes.

Nevertheless, off came the booby case and I was led into the room to pay a visit to a donut shaped contraption.

"Just hop up on the bed and we'll begin the scan" the Radiographer cheerfully informed Me. Love; I can barely walk these days. I aint hopping anywhere!
Somehow, I made it onto the bed with the her help.

And that's when the torture began.....

CT Scanner beds were NOT made for comfort. Imagine laying on a curved bed of rocks, whilst some evil bastard repeatedly beats you about the back with a fire poker and you might actually get an idea of the anguish My poor bones suffered.

I'm pretty sure Satan has one of those beds and reserves it for those who have been really wicked - one night on that and you'll be a saint for the rest of your life!

"Don't worry - it will only take about 5 minutes," the Radiographer reassured me.

Damn right it, it will! More than five minutes on this barbaric contraption and I'll be a paraplegic.

So as she cheerfully left Me to curse at this medieval torture device I was forced to lie on, I sweated Myself through the pain at first, being made to lie prone on My back (something I haven't been able to do since I injured My spine, because it hurts too much) and then being made to lay on something as comfortable as a bed of fire ants in battery acid, I gritted My teeth as the "donut" clicked and whirred into life.

Five minutes later, it was all over and after trying to get some feeling in My legs; I somehow managed to get off the "bed of pain" and hobble out of the scanner room.

All this is supposed to lead up to surgery to repair My spine..If they don't obliterate it during the various tests I'm having...
Friday, May 10th 2019
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Want to worship My ass? EARN IT!
So many boys would give their right arm for the opportunity to worship My perfect, curvy ass. I have received countless declarations of love from boys who wish serve as My seat. But the truth is; Ass Worship with Mistress is something boys have to earn. As you can see; it's a beautiful ass and because of that; it is a reward to those who are lucky enough to be worthy.

I'm certainly not going to allow a slave to worship My ass from the off. Rewards are earned and you earn them through obedience, loyalty and devotion. A simple declaration of wanting to have My covered ass filling your webcam screen, is not enough to convince Me you deserve it; no matter how much you beg. Haven't I already told you My feelings on boys who beg for things they don't deserve?

So how do you go about earning the opportunity to worship My Superior Posterior on webcam?


You earn it by serving Me on cam in a SELFLESS manner. That means obeying any and all commands I give to you, focusing on My pleasure at the expense of yours and demonstrating that you DESERVE to have the treat of My ass in your face.

Can you do that? Can you truly show Mistress you have what it takes to prove yourself an obedient, dedicated and selfless submissive?

Then put your money where your mouth is...
Friday, March 1st 2019
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Going under the knife...
Well, the inevitable has happened. After almost 4 years of constant sciatica and various ineffective methods to cure it; it has been conceded that the only option left is to have surgery.

Finally, I have some light at the end of the tunnel, because living in severe chronic pain is NOT fun and it seriously impacts My life. Aside from the fact it limits Me to what I can offer on webcam, it also means I'm a virtual prisoner in My own home because I can't even walk further than 30 metres.

Then, of course, there's the act of getting dressed. The simple task of putting on a pair of knickers has become a military operation and NOT one I want to continue for much longer. Instead of putting them on like a normal person; I've had to get it down to a fine art.

1. Step one, sit in a chair and place said knickers on the floor in front of your feet.

2. Lift up left leg and place foot in left leg hole.

3. Lift up right leg, scream because of the shooting pain that throbs throughout your entire leg, and place foot in right leg hole.

4. Reach for telescopic grabber stick.

5. Grab left side of knickers and pull up to knees.

6. Pause and breathe deeply because you know that lifting your ass to slide your knickers over it is going to hurt like a bitch.

7. Lift up ass as you pull left side of knickers up to hip. Scream in agony in the process.

8. Hold left side of knickers with left hand, place telescopic grapper stick on right side of knickers.

9. Pull right side of knickers up with grabber stick and scream as you lift your ass up again.

10. Jiggle body to ensure your ass isn't eating 90% of knickers.

This whole process takes between 5 and 10 minutes. That's right. 10 mins to put on ONE piece of clothing. Don't get Me started on the hell I have putting on a pair of jeans. We'll be here all day.

So I've had enough of the daily torture that is getting dressed. I have two choices - walk around naked - NOPE! Or have surgery. I'm opting for the latter.

I don't know when the surgery will be. I'm having an MRI in a few weeks. Hopefully it will be soon after that.

And finally; I can get back to getting dressed in less than 30 minutes...
  

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