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Thursday, November 16th 2017

T - girl Tormentors - Madame Darkness

T-girl Tormentors: Madame Darkness

Who was the first sub T-girl you ever dominated?

I have always had a number of submissive cross-dressers among my stable of slaves, but the first girl was Dolly Dee who has a fetish for dressing up like an elegant slut and then being fisted or being used as a cum dump and giving oral to groups of men. She is 100% passive and enjoys receiving cock in all her orifices, although I never once had to tie her down to make her do it. Some T-girls put up a bit of a fight, but she's a very willing and naughty slave!

What happens to the ones who put up a fight?

I have several ways of dealing with subs who are unwilling to embrace their girlie sides. I might forcibly rip off their shirts and ties, then threaten them with a spanking or worse if they don't wear lingerie or a sissy outfit for me! And as for the ones who pretend they don't like the thought of sucking cock or taking my strap-on dildo hard up the arse; well, it's just a case of handcuffing them or chaining them to one of my crosses and benches, then I'll pull down their panties and turn them into proper girls! And they always quickly learn to love it!

What do you like best about dominating T-girls?

Well, as a bisexual domme, I just love the sight of a feminine men dressed up in lingerie or a slutty dress and heels. In fact, the cuter and pinker the outfit is, the more I love it. It�s genuinely a big turn on for me.
Plus, I love that sense of role reversal. As soon as they're dressed, they become the pretty girl and I become the one with total power; and as I tie them to the cross or strap them to the bed, I love knowing that they're mine to tease and play with how I wish!

And what are your favourite games to play with a trussed up tranny?

Well, because I see cross-dressed males as women, my male alter ego instinctively takes over. And I always want to bend them over and give them a real taste of what it feels like to be a woman being screwed by a man, so I'll strap-on one of my many dildos and give them a proper seeing-to.
God, I just love having a big dick strapped between my legs! And I especially love hearing my slutty sub T-girl's howls of delight, as he feels my dildo ramming deep between the cheeks of his cute, little arse!
Oh, and I love spanking T-girls in bondage, too. There's just something about the sight of a male arse in frilly pink knickers or a skimpy red thong that makes me desperate to get out my riding crop and paddles, then to thrash that arse while calling my slave a 'dirty little T-girl slut.'

And what's the naughtiest thing you've ever done to a captive T-girl?

Well, I love pushing a sub's limits when he or she is trapped in bondage, so fucking them with a slightly bigger dildo than they were expecting is always lots of fun. But the naughtiest thing I've ever done to one of my T-girls was taking him out to the woods, tying him to a tree and then giving him a long, deep fisting. It was a really humiliating and extreme session for the T-girl in question, as not only was he being fisted outside in female clothing, but also there were dog walkers going by all the time. And he was terrified of being exposed in public as a T-girl, but none of the dog walkers ever noticed us. Still, it really set his nerves on edge, and I don't think I've ever known a sub to be so relieved to be freed from bondage.

Wednesday, August 9th 2017

How do i contact a professional Dominatrix?

First of all, before anything else, remember this one word: RESPECT! Sending an e-mail starting "Hi" or "You're hot" or "Hey sweetie" is going to get it dumped into the trash folder after they read the first line. Doing the same thing on the phone will get you listening to the click as they hang up after two seconds.

If you are going to phone a Dominatrix:

* Make sure you note if she has any restrictions on phone times and don't call outside them.
* Don't withhold your number. Doing this will instantly get you labelled as a probable time-waster.
* If you're in a hotel, tell her which one and which room, she may well check.
* Be polite, as mentioned above.
* Don't wank. A Domme will be able to hear it in your voice.
* DO NOT try to haggle the price down. That is completely disrespectful and will get you blocked ASAP.

Whether you speak to her or e-mail, explain where you saw her advert and ask if she is free on X date at Y time. Note that some Ladies require a notice period, pay attention to that. If she needs 24 hours notice, don't ask if she's free now.

If she is free, tell her what you are interested in, but do not give her a laundry list! If you're going for an hour's session, you'll get to do maybe three or four different things in that time, not twenty.

Don't ask her "what will you do to me?" Again, most Dominant Ladies will figure this as someone just wasting their time wanting something to masturbate to.

If you have a request for a particular style of clothing or outfit that you've seen her wearing on her website, it's a good idea to ask for this in advance so she doesn't have to waste time getting changed after you've arrived.

Once you have agreed a time and date, thank her for her agreeing to see you and hang up. Don't try to keep her chatting, that's not what she's there for.

What if she doesn't want to see me?

Take NO for an answer! If she's turned you down once, repeatedly pestering her is unlikely to change her mind.

Also it is a good idea to keep a list of Dommes you have contacted previously. Calling one up or e-mailing her a week after you last got in touch and asking the same questions again is going to get you labelled a time-waster.

* Before you go: HAVE A SHOWER! No Professional Mistress wants to have a sweaty, smelly slave turn up on her doorstep unless you want her to use a scrubbing brush on you whilst you stand under a cold shower! And brush your teeth or use mouthwash too.

* Don't be early! If you arrive half an hour before the time you've arranged she may still be finishing with another client or getting dressed or even putting her shopping away. Find a caf� or wait in your car, but don't sit right outside her place, park around the corner.

* Don't be late! Make sure you allow plenty of time to get to her premises. If you break down or there's unforeseen delays such as a road accident, as soon as you know you may be late, contact the Lady immediately. Failure to do this could result in you not getting a session at all.

* Do not go into full-on submissive mode outside her door. If she has an entry phone, just say "Hello, my name is XYZ, I'm here to see you." Do not address her as Mistress, Goddess or anything else, her neighbours might not know and it's none of their business.

* When she answers the door, just politely say "Good afternoon" (or morning, as appropriate!), don't kneel, grovel or do anything to potentially compromise her privacy.

* Do what you're told. If she says "Come in and stand here", do that. Nothing else. Don't go wandering around or poke your nose into anywhere you like.

* Have your Tribute ready in a pocket or envelope, but don�t clutch it in your hand or immediately thrust it at her. Also try to get clean notes, handing over a crumpled fistful of grubby fivers will not endear you to her.

* Consider taking a gift. It doesn't have to be anything spectacular for a first visit, a bottle of wine or a bunch of flowers are possible options. Even better, visit her website and check to see if she has a wish-list, if so, picking something off that would be very sensible.

* Wait to be told what to do. Once you enter her premises, she is in control, so respect this.

* If a professional Lady comes to visit you in your hotel room, take her bag if she has one, then offer to take her coat and hang it up neatly on a hanger. Escort her to a chair and hold it for her, then stand and wait until she gives you further instructions.

What happens at the start of a Professional Domination session?

When you have arrived at your Mistress' premises (or she has arrived at your hotel room), she should already have some idea of what your interests are from your previous phone call or e-mails, however this is the point at which the details should be sorted out.

A good Mistress should first ask if you have any medical problems or issues which may affect the session. You should mention things such as:

* Heart Problems
* Diabetes
* Risk of seizures
* Wearing contact lenses
* Medical implants
* Asthma or other breathing problems which mean that gags or hoods are inadvisable
* Joint problems (for instance if the Mistress offers Wrestling)

This is by no means a comprehensive list, if you think something could cause a problem during a scene, let the Mistress know beforehand so she can prepare if necessary, rather than, for instance, having to dig through your bag for an inhaler if you have an asthma attack during the session.

Discussing activities to happen during the session

You should already have expressed some of your desires during your phone call or e-mail exchange, so at this point the Dominant Lady should ask for more details. For example:

* Are you a masochist? Do you want her to flog, cane or spank you? If so, how hard?
* Are there particular sensations you don't like? Hot, cold, sting, thud? Say now, rather than later.
* Do you want to use a Safe Word? If so, what is it? NB we recommend the Traffic Light system of "Green" meaning "Go ahead" or as a check-in that you're ok, "Amber" meaning "Getting close to a limit" and "Red" meaning "Please Stop this activity". This allows you to "Beg for mercy" etc whilst she knows that you're actually OK.
* Are there any particular names that you want to be called or expressions to avoid? Humiliation play can be an intensely personal thing and accidentally tripping over a wrong expression can ruin a scene.
* Do you want her to leave marks? Some people love a reminder of a domination session, others might find explaining cane marks on their bum to their partner or friends at the gym a little difficult...
* Are there any activities you definitely don't want to engage in?

NB If you have your own outfits for cross-dressing or leather/ latex wear etc mention those at this point and say whether you want to dress yourself or your interest is in being "forced" into them or being made to beg to wear them.

What not to do during discussions

* Don't demand a script. Asking for her to say a few lines is ok, but don't expect her to agree to read out a whole long screed of your fantasies, because isn't going to happen.
* Don't give a laundry list of activities. You're not going to be able to do a dozen things in a one-hour session, so don't waste time listing them all. Pick a few favourites and stick with them.
* Don't say "You can do anything to me" because this almost inevitably turns into "but not that, or that, or..." and just annoys the Domme.
* Don't ask for activities which she has said she won't do. If her website says "No sexual services", she means it!
* Don't waffle on. Keep your answers short and relevant.

Note again that these suggestions are not a comprehensive list, however they will give you an idea of what to expect when you visit a Dominant Lady.

Remember that an experienced Dominatrix should be able to put you at your ease whilst maintaining control, so give her the respect that she is due.

Finally: Before the session starts SWITCH OFF YOUR PHONE! Unless you are waiting for a life-or-death call, it can wait and having your phone ring half-way through a scene can really spoil the mood...!

Once all this has happened, you're ready to play.

Monday, July 31st 2017

Date with a Hong Kong Dominatrix

If you like the idea of being dominated day in and day out in a foreign city full of chaos, visit Hong Kong with a dominatrix, yes with me, Madame Darkness. Hong Kong has an intense and chaotic vibe, made more powerful by its hot and humid Spring and wet Summer seasons. The city will have you in a spin so if your desire for submission is deep this will make you even more willing to hand over control to Mistress as I take the reigns and guide us through an amazing voyage of discovery of new places and new BDSM experiences.

We'll escape the city to the beautiful deserted islands, or visit the traditional villages, and in the evening dine with the Buddhists in the temples. Or maybe we'll dine at one of Hong Kong's esteemed Cantonese or Sichuan restaurants; noodles, seafood, tofu - delicious!

Not to mention Mistress's favourite past time - shopping. Upmarket and glitzy shopping malls; shoe shopping befitting for a dominatrix of my persuasions. Electronic gadgetry is a must for the tech nerd, buy something for Mistress and she might allow you the pleasure of your own purchase as a special treat.

We can end a day of fetish shoe shopping by the Hong Kong Harbour enjoying the culture that this magnificent city has to offer, maybe a Chinese Opera or a concert held in one of the museums or concert halls.

Satisfy this Hong Kong Dominatrix's whims and desire and only then you can expect a night of BDSM and Femdom Power Exchange! Perhaps you will be deprived of all sensory functions, bound and mummified on the floor of the hotel room, maybe you'll experience the sweet sensation of my whips, behave yourself and you'll be permitted to serve as my own human toilet.

Then up at a dawn for Tai Chi on the harbour :)

Sound like fun? Contact me to discuss

Monday, July 31st 2017

Pro Domme USA from the East Coast to the West Coas

I know the USA has a multitude of professional dominatrices but why not consider serving a beautiful BBW mistress with Carribbean roots with a firm foot in English culture?! I'm a dominant lady with many unusual interests and talents! One of those is to spank naughty boys into submission, another is to nurse and play with good little adult babies who need some comforting from Nanny D! I also have a passion for the female-led lifestyle which puts me in charge of each and every intimate relationship I am in, whether that is personal or professional.

I require sponsorship to visit the United States of America. Take me to the USA or invite me to your country - organise my travel and accommodations and then we can discuss what BDSM adventures we'll be exploring during our trip. My dominatrix heart's desire is to spank you throughout the states from the Atlantic Coast in New York City to Washington DC. Then all the way over to Los Angeles on the East Coast. I want to visit Folsom Street Fair in San Francisco and see the Golden Gate Bridge. Satisfy my wanderlust and take me to Hawaii, the warmth of the Pacific Ocean is calling. Imagine crawling behind your dominatrix on the dirt trails of the Yellowstone National Park - oh the things we will do, the memories and the souvenirs we'll keep with us forever.

Live out a once in a life time experience, what are you waiting for? You only live once, make this life one full of fantastic and sexy memories with a gorgeous and passionate dominatrix who just happens to be living out her ultimate BDSM fantasy lifestyle too.

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Monday, July 31st 2017

Mistress in the Caribbean

I understand that the BDSM scene is lacking in the Caribbean and it's been drawn to my attention that the Caribbean is in dire need of a serious mistress. An alpha female who can take control of the needs of the submissive men who until now have only dreamed of serving a true goddess. I, Madame Darkness, am a professional dominatrix and I hear that call and all serious enquiries will be considered.

I therefore now require sponsorship to visit the Caribbean. You may sponsor my trip to visit you if you are a resident and wish for the company of a dominatrix, or if there are discerning gentlemen who love to travel but not alone, you may simply wish to accompany me and holiday with me as your dominant escort. What a wonderful way to serve me on the incredible white sand beaches of Jamaica, Barbados, The Bahamas, St Martin and of course the 5* resorts of Virgin Gorda and Punta Cana.

Serve me in the most beautiful surroundings imaginable; beaches for miles, shopping for days, restaurants for gourmet seafood feasts. Shopping trips to find me the perfect pair of stilettos to wear for you to worship my gorgeous feet. Meals in the best restaurants; I may allow you to feed but perhaps only after I have enjoyed my own meal, or perhaps I may only feed you the leftovers from my own plate.

Evenings in hotels for BDSM behind closed doors or discreet and subtle Femdom in public, how much can you handle? A good lesson in public humiliation should have you quivering and on your toes in anticipation of the next round. Make sure you keep Mistress happy or you may be bound and gagged for the night lying on the floor whilst mistress sleeps peacefully in the luxury hotel bed next to you. Contact Me Now and let's start planning our trip to the Caribbean.

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Monday, July 31st 2017

Madame Darkness now making regular visits to Essex

Madame Darkness now travels to and holds private sessions one day per week in the beautiful countryside of Essex UK.

Organise your session with this beautiful black BBW Mistress exclusively or book a session when Mistress is in residence. Bookings in Essex are strictly by appointment.

Indulge in a full blown BDSM experience or maybe you have a specific fetish that you would like fulfilled by an experienced dominant woman who enjoys all forms of BDSM from the lighter to heavier end of the spectrum. I am also well known for my massage technique Read More about My Turkish Inspired Erotic Massage

Adult baby is just one speciality of mine.

Nanny D welcomes Adult babies, Diaper lovers and Sissies to experience a variety of age regressing activities at her home or hotels in Hertfordshire. You can experience adult baby and Sissy regression sessions, adult baby sitting, diaper fetishism, adult baby infantilism, adult baby medical fetish. Nurse, school boy/ school girl discipline, ABDL fantasies, diaper play, breastfeeding, diaper punishment and all ABDL scenes possible.

Perhaps you want something a little more intense? Corporal Punishment?

I excel in the application of punishment. pushing you to your limits or merely giving you a gentle introduction to the pleasure of punishment. I can provide anything from a light over he knee spanking to a severe caning, I really enjoy and love to punish naughty sluts and bad boys. I have a sharp eye and strong Arm and always administer with complete accuracy! There’s no pleasure without pain.

Overnight sessions are also available if booked in advance.

Special requests will be considered if you request them politely.

Contact me for details.

Sunday, May 21st 2017

Nanny D's Adult Mothering & ABDL Services.

What I offer my ABDL Lovers:

Nanny D welcomes Adult babies, Diaper lovers and Sissies to experience a variety of age regressing activities at her home or hotels in Hertfordshire. You can experience adult baby and Sissy regression sessions, adult baby sitting, diaper fetishism, adult baby infantilism, adult baby medical fetish. Nurse, school boy/ school girl discipline, ABDL fantasies, diaper play, breastfeeding, diaper punishment and all ABDL scenes possible.

Activities may include tailor made role – play encountering my personality in any of the following:

Adult baby wear, frilly party frocks, sissies with lots of bows, cuddles and hugs. Encouragement to explore, safe space, tender loving care, tactile, “firm but fair” high chair, nourishment, force – feeding, C/P, spoon fed, baby bottles, baby et wipes, zinc cream, terry nappies, sponge bubble bath, cream and talcum powder your bits and pieces, pink nail varnish, sexy sissy, mincing step, humiliation, dance, crusty, showing off, garish frilly outfits, girly socks, stilettos, alluring lingerie, bright pink lip gloss, transformation, beautiful princess, hair removal, girly wig, wayward school boy who don’t like colour pink!, slutty school girls, role – plays, corporal punishment, hog ties, nurturing, mashed banana, doggy food, mouth soaping, outings, tactile baby massage, photos ( only if you agree to this), breast feeding, anal probing, hand relief, toys, over the knee spanking, sissies bending over, make – believe, cream pies, creamiest.

Contact me for details

Wednesday, May 10th 2017

Life as a Professional Mistress

I’ve been a dominant all my adult life within my relationships as anything else is just not an option,.I often wondered what life as a pro-Domme would be like full time but stuck with my nursing career and never quite took the plunge, that is until...yes fifty shades of grey!.

I’m approaching my third year as a pro -Domme and I must say its not a bed of roses as some might lead you to believe, there’s the plus side of being your own boss and the independence it awards you, but then there’s the negative side. Unfortunately the world is full of fantacists who will pretend to be genuine potential clients, their sole intention is to send you round the garden path only to realise there’s no booking.

On the other side of the coin you have your beautiful and very talented competitors. ‘The Mistresses’ from whom you will receive fierce opposition to your existence. Some will go as far as trying to push you back. Which means if they can sabotage you and your business in any way they will and believe me ive had a few of those.

If you are lucky to find a mistress who is a genuinely nice person to take you under their wing and offer you friendship or guidance consider yourself extremely lucky. Yes im afraid most ‘Mistresses’ do not understand that we are all unique, each with our own unique qualities and style and that there is room in the business for everyone. Some often desire worldwide monopoly in he business...or so they thought. Unfortunately you’ll find The term ‘live and let live’ does not resonate with most.

I’ve rolled and is still rolling with the punches, I’ve met some lovely prince’s and some not so nice frogs too but overall I love my new profession and lifestyle and i am here to stay until I choose to retire.

Many thanks to all my slaves/subs that have served me over the past two years!
And for those who haven’t, What are you waiting for?.

Warm Regards
Madame Darkness

Tuesday, May 9th 2017

Madame Darkness now sessions in Bedfordshire

Meet the UK’s premier BBW black Mistress for a night of sensual and intense BDSM in Bedfordshire

BDSM fun with Mistress Darkness in Bedfordshire’s premier fetish dungeon. The Oubliette is a BDSM play suite that is furnished with an amazing range of play equipment and offers accomodation for professional mistresses and their slaves to experience a full 24/7 slave experience.

Book an overnight session with Mistress and experience her for a full 24 hours in one of the most beautiful and well equipped dungeons in the UK. alternately you can book Mistress on an hourly basis in advance.

Request to serve me now!

Tuesday, May 9th 2017

Madame Darkness now Tours The English Islands!

Madame Darkness now travel and hold sessions from private and discreet locations on the Channel Islands of Jersey & Guernsey, Isle of Man, Isle Of Wight and Wales.

You can now book me exclusively by sponsorship or book a session when Mistress in in residence. bookings are strictly by appointment.

All sessions are available including hardsports and watersports, enema play, foot fetish, body worship, smothering, facesitting, Role Play, bondage, fisting and strap on play, Sensual and Erotic Domination to name a few.

Overnight sessions are also available if booked in advance.

Special requests will be considered if requested politely.

You may contact me respectfully for more details.