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| Friday, January 14th 2022 |
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| Get Informed |
You have or like a particular fetish but, you have no clue about possible consequences or how to prevent an unwanted accident. Then it is time you get a clue and arm yourself with information.
It scares me the number of people who are playing or attempting to play who simply don’t have a clue what they are doing. If you’re drawn to an activity research it. Pay a pro to have a consultation with you via phone, cam or even in-person to answer your questions.
There are horror stories out there. Now if a sub took the time to learn more about said kink they claim to love, then they could see when said Dom/me is in the wrong. I am not trying to put the onus on subs. End of the day both parties should know what the hell they are doing. However, being informed will not hurt you.
Before I was a pro, I learned a lot from playing with subs who had more experience than me. I have no shame in saying what a fountain of knowledge subs can be. I got to practice my craft as a baby domme with subs who knew more than me. I found at the time it helped when creating a scene because I knew I had the support of a knowledgeable person. If you’re starting your journey as a Mistress/Master, don’t overlook a sub who is willing to teach and help you understand play from a sub's perspective. It’s actually quite beautiful when you can grasp that because you can truly create an amazing scene.
If you are a sub/slave/bottom see someone who knows what they are doing. Do not put your health and potentially your life at risk just because your cock or fanny twitched when looking at someone’s pictures. Aside from aesthetics, does that person know what they are doing? What do they specialise in? Also, if you’re uncomfortable or simple don’t feel safe, speak up. Do not go through with something because you feel that is the thing to do.
So play and have fun but just make sure you choose your play partner wisely. |
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| Wednesday, February 27th 2019 |
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| Can't stop using my wand |
After taking a little break from the site I realised how much I missed it. I have been on every day this week and my sex drive has gone through the roof. I have always had a high sex drive but every day when I sign out I am dripping wet. If my panties aren't soaked, the chair or sheets I am on are. Thank goodness for vibrators. My wand has seen so much action I am worried I will have to replace it sooner rather than later. I am a natural squirter, so I have been making a huge mess. I really need a good tongue to just slide in between my legs are orally worship me. It's not a task for any and everyone, however. I need a good submissive to lick me the way I like. To have me gushing all over his face. Lapping it up like a good boy. Just thinking about it has set me off.
Think I need to go and get the wand out thinking about what could be. If only you could be here now to hold the wand for me while I gently ride... |
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| Saturday, June 28th 2014 |
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| Cat burglar |
I just had to share this picture of myself with you all in my all black get up. I look like I am about to rob a shop except, I'd look cute doing it. How many burglar's do you know that wear pink lipstick? Answers on a postcard. Lol
I took this picture because 1. I was doing a photoshoot and 2. I was curious as to how the other side live. I am forever putting sub/slaves into hoods during session, but I never actually wear them myself. This was certainly a new experience for me. One I may have to repeat again.
Till then, I will be robbing men of their pants and exposing you to all woman kind. xxxx
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| Friday, February 28th 2014 |
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| Quick snap |
Once again I was filming this week. It was meant to be forced bi filming but sadly, one of the guys couldn't make it last minute. Personally I think he just wimped out at the thought of fucking another man. Either way I still had a good time. Then again I always have a good time when it comes to strapon fucking. I can honestly say it is one of my favourite activities to do. Seeing a man face down, legs up certainly gets my juices flowing.
Anyways, here is a snap shot of me while I was getting ready. |
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| Tuesday, February 11th 2014 |
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| The humiliation has begun |
Monday marked the first day of toilet week and I must say it went off with a bang. I haven't had that much fun in a long time. I didn't just use my toilet as a toilet today. Oh know I made it my toilet paper. I mean why have a toilet slave who can't use their tongue to clean you up afterwards. I then treated it like the slut that it is and strapon fucked it before having him sucked off by my tv slave. Which I must say was very new for it especially as it has never done anything like that before. It's first time at bi action. I then proceeded to spit roast my tv slave. The best part of all of this is, I decided to film it.
I haven't laughed this much at a slave in a long time. |
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| Tuesday, November 19th 2013 |
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| Kinky hair for a kinky lady |
It's been awhile since I've blogged on here. I usually use my blogger blog. Any who I decided to have a change of hairstyle. No longer do I have my straight locks instead I've gone all natural. So I'm relishing in it. I will have to do all new pics soon of me like this. So in the mean time enjoy the attached picture of me. Let me know what you think. Obviously keep it respectful.
I have some overseas travel planned for 2014. I will be adding dates soon to my profile so stay tuned.
Till then kinky folk x x x |
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| Sunday, March 24th 2013 |
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| I'm back |
Thanks to all of you who messaged me wondering where I have been. I have been off ill the last couple weeks however I am feeling much better now. I plan to be back to my usual kinky self this week. So look out for me this week. I have missed teasing you dirty boys. I have enjoyed the offers of having a personal nurse come and tend to my needs. I wonder what needs they were hoping I had. I'm sure it wasn't just to wipe my brow. Lol!
Well boys I'm off to have a cup of tea and put my feet up. I just need a good foot slut to massage my feet while I find a good old movie to watch. |
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| Monday, May 14th 2012 |
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| Update |
Well it is all go at the moment as plans to have my own play space are in full swing. I haven't done much updating as I've been bargain hunting in relations to toys/furniture.
If you don't know, my chat room is back (see chat header on my website) and doing well. It's nice speaking to some of you kinky folk. If you haven't come in for a chat, make sure you do soon.
I have not been out to as many events as I usually do but, I will be putting my event list up shortly. Speaking of out and about, I now hold sessions in Berkshire depending on the day. Please enquire through the usual channels in regards to that. Sadly I won't make the Berlin Fetish Weekend which is a shame however I will be in Berlin 2nd to 4th June for the slave auction. I will be available for sessions also.
*Don't forget that CBW will be on 7th June at the Resistance Gallery in Bethnal Green. Do check the clubs website for full details.*
Then on 22nd June I will be in Birmingham. I will be available for sessions then I'm off to Oriface. If you are lucky enough to be on the guest list, I shall see you there.
Right I think that's it. If not oh well! Oh and don't forget 9 days till my birthday day. Whoop whoop! Party time! |
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| Monday, January 9th 2012 |
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| My weekend |
Howdy y'all,
That's as Amaerican as it gets for me I am afraid. Anywho I hope you all had a fantastic weekend because I know I did. Well it kicked off with Mistressmass which was a great way to kick start this year. Those who were able to attend know what I mean. I can't wait to see the pictures. It was absolutely packed. It was also nice to see plenty of newbies. I am not quiet sure who won a session with me in the raffle but either way they are in for one hell of a time.
On my 3 hours of sleep I went off to do some Shibari followed by a a full toilet training session. My toilet session just flew by as I was having so much fun with my slave. I am still buzzing now from it 2 days later. Needless to say I spent a huge part of yesterday in bed watching Anime.
Well next is my Spit Roast which I can't wait for. I have some new dildo's coming. Note I enjoy receiving cock in the mail. ;-) Oh and for those of you who are in a far away land and unable to attend, don't forget I will be doing some live sessions just for you.
Right my kinky folks I am off to find a man with nimble fingers for a massage. (I deserve it).
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| Monday, April 18th 2011 |
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| Fine Dining |
So I went to dinner the other night at Marco Pierre White's Steak & Ale House. If you follow my tweets you will know that I have been raving on about this place. The food was yummy. That is the first time that food has put me to sleep. Lol! Well it may have been a combination of that and the wine. Either way, after having dinner there I slept like a baby. I had the best nights sleep I have had in ages. So please note if you are having sleep issue's, go there to eat and you will be right as rain in the morning. Marco Pierre White should pay me for this marketing. Lol!
Well that is the serious stuff taken care of. ;-)
Now I just want to say thank you to those of you who check in on me and send me silly things. It is much appreciated considering I have been in a bit of a funk this past fortnight. So it's nice to know that you care. I send big kisses to you. If I see you in person then I can actually deliver it.
So tomorrow is Peer Rope. I should be there with my goodie bag. So if you are in London and have nothing going on, get your butt down there for some fun.
Hope to see some of you there otherwise I'll catch you in the hours.
Mwah! |
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| Sunday, March 6th 2011 |
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| CBW & Subversion |
I know the title sounds like one big super club however it's not. Well let me start with CBW. What a bloody good night. Now you know I always have a good time but I enjoyed playing just that bit more this time as I bought my strap on with me. There was sucking, fucking and a whole bunch of sluts. Oh and I can't forget the pole dancers. Some lucky bastard even got to drink Madame Caramels champagne. I am sure he will say it was a good vintage. Lol! There was lovely new faces on the night as always. We like newbies as well as our regulars who always come out and support the cause. Look forward to seeing you all at the next one.
Now last night was Subversion and it was Medical Mayhem. I have to admit, as I had never been before I was a bit apprehensive. I am so used to going to Femdom nights, so this was different for me. When a guy didn't let me go first through the door, I was getting ready to say "Oi you" however I remembered it wasn't that sort of night. Lol! I met some lovely people last night and the crowd was so laid back. I want to thank my dancing partners (I had a few). My feet are killing me this morning. At the end of the night, I was walking to my cab in my fluffy slippers. Well I will certainly be looking to go to the next one. I went as Nurse Esme last night however if you don't have an outfit to match the theme, don't worry about it. I know things like that prevent a few of you going to places like this but trust me, you can get away with just fetish gear.
Right I need a cuppa, afternoon movie and my foot spa. All that is missing is a sissy bitch to prepare it all. Guess that means I better do it myself (I live a hard life). ;-)
Catch you in the hours pervs. Mwah! |
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| Thursday, March 3rd 2011 |
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| We have a winner! |
Thanks to all of you who submitted your jokes. It's been fun reading them all. Well I do have a winner and they have been notified. Please see the winning joke below.
"Young couple in the woods making love at night. The man says, i wish i had a torch. She replies so do i, you've been licking the grass for the last 10 mins!!"
Now to those of you who didn't win don't worry, I have items for sale. However if you are a cheap bastard, you will just have to wait until my next competition.
Don't forget, I will be at Club Black Whip tonight so you can catch me down there later doing what I do best.
Thanks for the laughs
Mwah X |
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| Tuesday, March 1st 2011 |
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| Getting fit and filming |
As I type this, my body is hurting me. I went to dance class tonight. Not just any old class, Jazz. My body hurts in places I didn't know could hurt. I had a fantastic time but a full body massage is needed or a hot bath. All this so that my rubber dresses sit a little smoother. Maybe I should just save for liposuction. Lol!
Well I plan to do some filming on the 26th Month in the Barnet Area. If you are interested in taking part, email me for more details.
Well this twinkle toes is signing out. I am going to watch Green Zone then it's the land of nod for me.
Goodnight X |
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| Monday, February 28th 2011 |
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| Monday :-( |
I am actually looking forward to Tuesday, only because I hope I manage to get some rest tomorrow. I had a very long weekend plus I had a very heavy session today which combined with the activities of the weekend, has left me feeling drained right about now. I swear the first person to offer me a massage will get a yes right about now (sad but true). I just need to switch off and be pampered. I also need to find a sub who is the same shoe size as me in order to break in two pairs of shoes. I know that sounds really lazy but my feet fall under the tired category so if someone else can do it, I would really appreciate it. Lol!
Totally off subject but did anyone watch Mrs Brown's Boy's? I caught it by chance but it was hilarious. If you are in the UK, catch it on BBC i-player.
Well I might feel drained but I am feeling a lot better then I was last week. This poxy flu has not gone completely but it's not bad enough to stop me.
CBW on Thursday and I am very much looking forward to it. I am still deciding if I should buy something new to wear or not. See how I feel in the morning. I already have my outfit for Subversion (medical). If your lucky, I might just post a picture of what I have on. Stay tuned for that.
Well I won't bore you anymore, I am off to finish watching the Full Monty.
Catch you in the hours my naughty followers.
Esme (Mwah!) |
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| All the better to see you with my dear. |
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| Matching my bodysuit to my controller. |
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| You know you want to be beneath me. |
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| What is your starsign? |
Taurus April 21 - May 20 |
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| What is your Primary Language? |
English |
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| What is your Secondary Language? |
N/A |
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| How would you describe your non-binary gender? |
Cisgender |
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| What is your favourite colour? |
Pink |
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| Who is your favourite celebrity? |
Me |
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| What is your best feature? |
Bum |
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| What three words best describe your personality? |
Bubbly sadistic geek |
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| What is your favourite food? |
Sushi |
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| What is your favourite drink? |
Hot Chocolate |
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| What is your favourite film? |
Guys and Dolls |
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| What is your favourite TV programme? |
Billions, Bobs Burgers |
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| What are your favourite flowers? |
Lillies or Yellow Roses |
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| What is your favourite perfume? |
YSL Paris or Opium |
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| What is your favourite gift? |
Luxury leather goods or Kitchen Appliances |
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| What is your favourite holiday destination? |
Caribbean or Japan |
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| What is your ethnicity? |
Black |
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| What is the colour of your eyes? |
Brown |
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| What is the colour of your hair? |
Black |
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| What length is your hair? |
Shoulder length |
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| How would you describe your body type? |
Curvy |
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| How tall are you? |
5'3" |
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| How much do you weigh? |
9½st |
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| What is your shoe size? |
6 |
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| What is your dress size? |
10 |
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| What size is your chest? |
34" |
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| What is your waist measurement? |
28" |
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| What is your hips measurement? |
36" |
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| What is your bra cup-size? |
C |
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| How would you describe the size of your breasts? |
Medium |
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| Are your breasts natural or enhanced? |
Natural |
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| How is your pubic hair fashioned? |
Shaved Mostly |
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| Do you smoke? |
No |
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| Do you have any tattoos or piercings? |
Both |
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| If you have tattoos or piercings, how discreet are they |
Visible |
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| Do you have any birth-marks or scars? If so, size and location? |
no |
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| What times are you always available? |
10:00: 20:00 |
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| Will you do overnight bookings? |
Yes |
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| List of Towns/Areas you will visit |
International |
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| How long are you prepared to travel for? |
2½+ |
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| What is the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you in public? |
N/A |
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| What sort of men turn you on? |
Men who are open minded and willing to try something at least twice. |
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| What sort of women turn you on? |
Women who are sub with me. |
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| What is the most memorable sexual experience you’ve ever had? |
Not for you to know. |
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| What is the most outrageous thing that you’ve done sexually (be honest!) |
Some would say what I do currently is. |
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| Where would you most like to have sex? |
Skyscraper |
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| What is your favourite sexual position? |
Doggy |
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| What is your second favourite sexual position? |
Reverse Cowgirl |
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| What is your biggest turn on? |
Total Power Exchange |
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| The most sensitive part of my anatomy is? |
Clit |
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| Describe the experience (when and where) |
It was good |
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| What is your favourite sexual fantasy? |
Taboo roleplay |
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| How often do you masturbate? |
A few times a week. My drive is high |
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| What sexual activity do you enjoy the most? |
Femdom |
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| When is your libido at its highest? |
All day |
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