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| Saturday, August 26th 2023 |
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| Female Masturbation Still Kinda Embarrassing. |
Somehow still get a bit giggly and red-faced when discussing female masturbation. So, let's unravel the mystery behind why some folks find it awkward and why it's time to embrace the beauty of self-love, along with a sprinkle of my favourite techniques that might just make you wink in delight.
Why is Female Masturbation Still a Bit of a Blush-Inducer?
1. The Hush-Hush History: Throughout history, society has thrown a cloak of secrecy over female sexuality. From Victorian times to the present day, the idea of a woman indulging in self-pleasure was deemed scandalous. But guess what? It's 2023, and it's time to shatter that ceiling along with a few misconceptions.
2. Double Standards and Gender Gaps: We've all heard the guy-talk about their "wild nights," but when it comes to women discussing their solo escapades, it's often met with raised eyebrows. It's like there's a societal belief that female pleasure should only be experienced in the presence of others. But let's be real: Your body, your business!
3. Pop Culture's Peculiarities: Movies and TV shows have often depicted male masturbation in hilarious and relatable ways. But when it's a woman on screen, it's often portrayed in a cringe-worthy, over-the-top manner. This double standard only adds to the feeling that female self-love should be hidden away like a secret stash of chocolate.
4. The Language Labyrinth: Even talking about it can be a linguistic labyrinth. While guys have their funny euphemisms, women are often left feeling tongue-tied and unsure how to casually mention it. "Having a date with Palmela Handerson" just doesn't have the same ring and Pamela Anderson, right?
5. The Myth of "Completion": Another layer of the awkwardness pie is the myth that women need a partner to feel complete sexually. Well, that's a recipe for disappointment! Celebrating your own pleasure is as natural as soaking in a bubble bath after a long day.
Let's Bust the Blush and Embrace the Glow of Self-Love!
Alright, enough with the giggles and blushes. It's time to embrace the beauty of knowing your own body, exploring what brings you pleasure, and being unapologetically yourself. Think of it as a solo dance party where you're the DJ, the dancer, and the audience.
Now, Let's Whisper About a Few Techniques...
The Artful Archivist: Start an "inspiration" folder on your phone or computer – a collection of images, stories, or fantasies that ignite your inner fire. It's like curating your own personal art gallery that sparks all the right feels.
Mindful Meanderings: Explore your body with mindfulness. Slow down and savour every touch, discovering what makes you hum with delight. It's like a treasure hunt where the map is your senses.
Vibes That Vibe: Don't be shy about introducing a vibrator to the party. They're not just for "special occasions." They're like your trusty sidekick that knows all your favorite tunes.
Sensual Soundscapes: Create a playlist of music that resonates with your mood. Sometimes, the rhythm of the music can sync magically with your inner rhythm.
Remember, female masturbation isn't just about the physical act. It's about embracing your own pleasure, taking charge of your narrative, and celebrating your body in all its glory. So, let's laugh at the blushes, ditch the discomfort, and raise a toast to self-love that's unapologetically awesome! |
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| Friday, April 29th 2022 |
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| Reasons Why I Love To Masturbate. |
Here are a few reasons why I love masturbating as a woman.
Masturbating equips a woman with a greater sense of confidence because she knows exactly what turns her on and what makes her come. It makes a woman feel in control of her body and can, without reserve, direct a partner to do what makes her feel good.
Masturbating allows a woman to understand that sex is about her as well.
Masturbation is the greatest form of self-discovery.
Eat, Pray, Love would have been infinitely better and perhaps even enjoyable had it been about the protagonist on a spiritual-awakening journey through her vagina to “find herself” from the comfort of her own bed, as opposed to having some man awaken her spirit for her.
It is the greatest act of feminism. |
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| Monday, February 28th 2022 |
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| Creative People Are More Happy. |
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In addition to being more productive in life, happy people are more creative. Positive thinking and being open to new experiences and ideas are related. This is because as our general mood becomes more positive, we can devise and envision creative solutions to a variety of problems. When I am generally happier, I often access the creative side of my brain outside of work. Yes, I love those rainy Sundays in the fall, snuggling under the covers and watching a scary horror film, there’s a place for those days too, but I try to fill my time with more creative outlets. These creative activities tend to fuel my happiness even more so it’s a win-win situation. |
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| Friday, October 15th 2021 |
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| Autumn We Are Ready For You. |
Yes, we’re more likely to see rain in September, October and November than we have for the last few months. Yes, cold drizzle and harsh winds are no fun at all, and dark evenings are depressing. But I’d argue that autumnal weather is more atmospheric than summer’s. Personally, I’d swap a moody November sunset over a pastel July one in a heartbeat.
The weather in autumn, in contrast, is blustery and gleaming and unpredictable. There are days when the sky is clear and the light is golden and the air has a bit of bite behind it, like a crisp apple. There are days when walking down the street feels like leaving a church wedding, except the confetti has been replaced by spiralling tangerine-coloured leaves. There are days when the sky is milky-white with cloud and the sun shines through like a pearl.
Then there are the smoky blue evenings that require a scarf, the evenings where the sky is slate-grey and yellow like a bruise, and the evenings when the sunset flames out desperately in orange and fuchsia. All are magical in their own way.
So bring it on, autumn: we’re ready for you. |
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| Saturday, June 12th 2021 |
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| Fire A Guys Imagination. |
A nice, perky, big, round butt means that the girl really cares about her body. She is definitely working out to make her bottom appealing and in one word—beautiful.
So, it’s no wonder that guys get turned on by bigger butts; it tells them that women who have them take care of their bodies, which equals hitting the gym regularly.
This cognition is extremely sexy to any guy out there because they immediately imagine a woman doing squats and their heart starts beating more rapidly. They can’t help but drool at the thought of seeing a woman in thousands of different sexy positions at the gym.
And if you add sweat and accelerated breathing, there you have it—the perfect combination to fire any guy’s imagination! |
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| Monday, October 5th 2020 |
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| All About Pleasure. |
The benefits of masturbation are plenty (more on those in a moment), for women especially. We become powerful when we masturbate.
The female orgasm is all about pleasure—it has nothing to do with reproduction. It’s time to own that idea, and masturbation can help. Take a stand now for owning our bodies; find the pleasure in them.
If I could say anything to that girl walking home from the neighborhood pool in her damp one-piece, it would be this: Don’t hide the pleasure you take in yourself. Tell your friends, tell them to pass it on, and tell your daughter one day: Women should and do masturbate. |
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| Wednesday, September 23rd 2020 |
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| What Is Your Take On Beauty? |
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This time, in the hope that we can all learn something about what true beauty really means. Here are a few of my favorite female celebrities that have defined the term for themselves. It is my hope that after reading this, you too will be able to come up with your own definition of what it means to you. So what is your take on beauty? What is important for women is to own who you are and accept who you are and run with that! I also think that true beauty really comes from having a sense of confidence-that you walk into a room and people wonder why you’re so confident. I think that makes for intrigue. |
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| Wednesday, August 12th 2020 |
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| Behind A Good Hair Day. |
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Most of us accept that looks matter. We know that our appearance impacts our personal, social and professional lives. We also know that how we feel influences how we look and vice versa -- a phenomena I call beauty self-esteem. Although we'd like to believe "what is inside counts most," scientific evidence, as well as common sense, tells us that an appealing appearance, good health and hygiene positively impacts our lives. Your looks matter and hair matters a lot in our general sense of attractiveness. With so many unknowns surrounding us in today's complicated world, it is nice to know that a good hair day is a simple, yet deeply "rooted' solution to our desire to look and feel good at any age. |
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| Saturday, August 8th 2020 |
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| Learn To Love Your Big Boobs. |
EVERYONE loves them. Loves Big Boobs.
Straight men, gay men, straight women, lesbians. Boobs (especially big boobs) rock, and we can pretty much all agree on that. They make the best pillows on the planet.
We can universally agree that there's nothing more awesome than laying your head down on a girl's lovelies. It doesn't matter if you're taking a nap, watching a movie, or just hanging out — boobs make the best cushions. I think most men would agree there. Also big boobs are a freaking wonderland, and nothing arouses interest like a little mystery when you cover them up, their stock skyrockets. They are just plain fun. When you're in bed, your honey is sleeping, and you're bored. You've got two fun toys right at hand! And the best part is when your aforementioned honey wakes up and starts playing, too. |
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