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Sunday, February 26th 2017

New Suspension & Multi Purpose Bench

Phew what a busy Sunday evening with my wonderful new piece of dungeon furniture delivered and installed. I am so pleased and impressed with the quality of workmanship from Nigel at MIV Furniture, he has also supplied me with my smother box, Spanking/Fuck bench and gyno bench.

I have my first willing victim lined up for the St Andrews Cross tomorrow afternoon and this particular piece of furniture has the following.

A full length cage

A removeable St Andrews Cross

A set of stocks fully height adjustable and removeable

A floating board erected and height adjustable that hangs inside and above the main bench area, fully removeable

Many suspension points and eyelets all around and above

I'm going to have so much fun using this new piece of furniture, it cost a LOT but reflects in the fine workmanship and materials used.

Tuesday, February 14th 2017

Happy Valentines

Happy Valentines to everyone I've had the pleasure of seeing over my time here and to those who are genuine about coming to see me in the future. XxX

To those who repeatedly email me with the same boring wanky message over the course of the years, don't bother wasting your time as life is too short. I can quickly see the history of ALL your copy/paste messages.

To those asking if I do "Tie & Tease" "spanking" "massage with a happy ending"

"roleplay" "Proper domination services"

"where am I"

"How much" etc etc

READ My profile as otherwise you will be ignored. If you write to me with "Hi Helen, Mistress I would love to come see you and the following dates of XYZ are good for me, what number can I call you on? Then I will reply happily with my number.

Right I'm off to session with someone who is lots of fun and its going to get messy ;) I love love love being self employed!

Friday, January 13th 2017

Massage Room to Kink Clinic

Hi slaves and kinksters

Well we are almost halfway through the month, bet many of you will be glad for payday to come around as it is a long month for some of you!

I've been very productive today with not just delivering a superb session to a new gent (what a sweetie) especially as he gifted me £60 and then tipped me on top of that! How lovely and totally unexpected and it makes up for those who play the game on here and the ones who don't value my time (tut tut)

Due to a 3 hour appointment being cancelled tomorrow with LESS than 24hrs notice today on the basis of a booking form only sent and confirmed way over a week+ ago, even if you have had a long booking before and have good feedback. I'm sorry to enforce this but ALL appointments over 1.5hrs now are subject to a non returnable deposit, with 24hrs notice I will move your booking to one new occasion. There is no snow in West Sussex and what little came down last night has gone.

It is NOT feasible to hold a THREE hour booking open on the off chance that you will brave a single snowflake or none as the case is. I love my job but please remember this is MY income! My ethos as you know is keeping bookings low and tributes affordable, this 3 hour cancellation won't be happening again! I'm really not impressed as you can tell. The decent thing would be to honour the appointment by the gent or pay a late cancellation fee based on the amount of deposit required.

After the session earlier I cleaned up my playspace and then cracked on with the cutting in of painting my massage room. I am giving it a make-over to turn it into a kinky medical clinic

The massage couch will be moved into my main play space where I have my atmospheric mood lighting.

I can't wait to have my medical kink clinic play space all set up this weekend, ready for next week.

Mmmmm roll on the medical role plays and kinky procedures
MHR xx

Monday, January 2nd 2017

Happy 2017, bring on the good times

Hi Kinksters

Please note I have updated my AW profile to reflect my domination site rather than the sensual massage website which I have now closed down. My massage services will still be the same so it's not all domination as I like variety and do need to keep my therapy hands as well as spanking hands busy

Phew what a New Years eve party I attended, I drank a few too many G&T's and had the time of my life out with friends. I had yesterday off to recover and am back fighting fit and ready to play.

I had planned on attending the gym today but sadly it's closed until tomorrow, looks like I may have to kick my own butt to go along early as I have a busy day tomorrow.

I've had a few enquiries where rates have been questioned in regards to what equipment I have. I think some chaps are suspicious over the very reasonable scale compared to many other ladies charging double with No actual equipment.

Well I'm very proud that I have two rooms dedicated to play, one is currently my TV dressing and sensual massage room and the other a well equipped dungeon/BDSM room. I am planning to have a new custom build suspension caged/bench/removal St Andrews cross made in approx 3 to 4 weeks. This will be in the region of 1K so I want to ensure it has everything incorporated into it that I need.

I currently have two custom benches, one of which (Gyno) I'm thinking of moving into the 1st room mentioned into a little clinic for all the medical roleplays rather than dressing the 2nd room each time it's required. This will free up space for the new bench in room 2.

I do charge extra for some sundry items and these are listed and pre agreed before you come along to your session. They are listed within the relevant sections too.

Happy 2017

Helen Xx

Friday, March 25th 2016

New Equipment I'm so excited!!!

Hi everyone

I am very pleased to announce that I now have a Venus 2000 masturbation/milking machine. Mde in the USA it is the Gold standard for such devices! Having used it on couple of gents recently they have really enjoyed the new kit and thoroughly enjoyed the new twist to the release at the end of a session.

How Does It Work ?

The Venus 2000 has a gearmotor that drives a reciprocating diaphragm. Air moves to and from the outer chamber of the Receiver by a connecting hose. The amount of air in the system, or lack of it, is adjustable and determines the stroke length. Most guys can adjust it to move the full length of their shaft. To use it, you simply put some lubricant in the Receiver and place the head of your penis to the opening. When you turn the Venus 2000 on it will suck you in. It has the velvety feel of a well lubricated partner. Venus can be set to a soft and sensual 8 strokes per minute, or you can crank it up to a ball shaking 300 strokes per minute. You decide what you want and Venus complies with your wishes.

Happy Easter all
XxX

Thursday, September 10th 2015

Helens Sensual Massage & Domination

Time for a change......

Less time on phone chats and no cam for a while, I'm concentrating on my sensual massage service and domination too, bookings taken a little in advance are best (at least an hour or two after having spoken and agreed, then pop over a booking form) so that I have time to arrange my special play room for the style of service that you enjoy.

The other day I gave the most delicious erotic massage to a gent I hadn't seen for some time, he had never received a prostrate massage so after a really good massage turning into a more erotic massage when it came to the happy ending I slipped on a glove and lubed up his hole and gently slipped a finger in whilst stroking and teasing his cock. My finger was teasing/stroking his prostrate as I wanked his cock.

He had a very powerful orgasm and it was so lovely to hear how much he was enjoying it, certainly left me with a big smile on my face afterwards.

Just a quickie blog as I have a newbie coming along for some domination, starting off with some OTK spanking before strapping him down on my bench and taking his cherry with my strap-on. All in a great fun days work!

See you soon

XxX

P.S The chap who just sent a message asking what sizes of cocks for strap-on but has now taken their profile offline so I can't reply to your message!

I have cocks of various sizes starting from the width of one finger and only 4 inches up to 5/6 inches and not too thick in girth and then larger at 8/9 inches with thicker girths. I have approx 9 or 10 different strap-ons cocks and I'm still adding to my collection, all cocks are covered in a condom as well as my harness and everything being sterilised. You are in very safe capable hands.

Friday, March 13th 2015

Helens Electro play & safety/hygiene & role plays

Hi everyone

I've been a busy bee this week with assisting a dominatrix friend in another county as a pro-switch and pro-domme. Been a fun couple of days and picked up some tips from her for some good suppliers for various add ons to my ever growing kit

As some of you know I have Estim and tens for using in electro play as well as a violet wand (by the way these are never used together as it's dangerous!) and the pads are very expensive to replace but I now have 16 brand new pads at a fraction of the price from a great medical supplier on ebay! So it's one use and dispose of.

I expect some of you may have heard of sounds, there is always a small risk of a urinary infection using these even with strict hygiene procedures, changing gloves, alcohol wipe around the cock and sterile water based lube and the sound coming from a vacuum pack which has gone through an autoclave. So these are questions you need to be asking if a dominatrix offers sounds! I own an autoclave

I buy my lube, condoms, steri wipes, gloves (nitrile) masks etc all from a medical supply company. Any toys used on you are always covered with a condom or a medical glove. Everything I use is then sterilised unless it's a one use item of course.

You can expect high standards of hygiene when you come to have some fun and not take away the worry or concern of what if when you leave.

Ok the role play part, I've just sent off for a new Nurses outfit as well as a hospital patients gown so you could come along for an examination role play and really feel the part

from checking you over to ensure you are a healthy specimen for the private breeding programme or simply to check your sperm count where your sperms may be ejected into a condom or by hand/specialist toys.

Helen xX

Thursday, May 1st 2014

Helens Chit Chat

Great start to this week with a really super gent who accepted my reverse bid for a 4 hour booking, which can always be a bit of a gamble for both parties (will we get on well & have fun?) Hence a phone call is essential as I think you can gauge if you are going to like someone and enjoy their company.

Well I can’t believe just how quickly that booking went and I really enjoyed myself! We even had a mini lunch break where I nipped downstairs to make refreshments and some light lunch before embarking on round 4 of fun and games

Rather pleased to have had a productive week with some sorting out of bits and pieces, had a good move around in my wardrobe that all work wear, rubber, pvc and those figure hugging dresses’ are all to hand and managed to be quite ruthless with items I've not worn in ages and taken them to the charity shop. I nipped out yesterday to buy some new black jeans that really hug my bottom and give a great shape to my curves, had some admiring glances whilst out doing some admin bits and going to the printers this morning re my other work.

I forgot we have another wank holiday coming up, probably not going to be working this one so hot list or email me if you want to book for Tues-Fri next week.

Edit to add I am thinking of adding Bamboo Massage to my massage qualifications, would this be of interest to anyone? So that's using warm Bamboo of various sizes on the body in a rolling & kneading techniques (not hitting you with them) lol WELL only if you ask Me nicely!

Helen X

Tuesday, April 15th 2014

Maid for the Day

Well what a fantastic day I had yesterday! I had a maid waiting on me for the day and it included a shopping trip to Tunbridge Wells before the maid fun began to stock up on stockings etc and some light refreshments & snack whilst we were out. Some light hearted banter & discussion over what would happen later that afternoon.

Then back to my place for the maid transformation! I skilfully applied maids make-up & instructed the maid to dress in her own uniform and three layers of frothy flouncy petticoats.

I put the maid to work in the kitchen making some red velvet cupcakes and then leg worship on my new gorgeous new satin tights with back seams, further maid duties and then a special treat from Mistress Helen before afternoon late Tea & cupcakes

I really enjoy my maid for the day sessions, lots of fun, giggles and much naughtiness!

Helen X

Wednesday, March 19th 2014

Helens Pampering afternoon

Good day/eve etc all

I really enjoyed a booking I had yesterday, it was for a home spa appointment and it's always lovely to chat away and break the ice/have a giggle and feel at ease with someone prior to anything else developing, whether that be sensual massage or a domination session

Anyway without going into graphic detail I am certain he left a very happy Man indeed.

I had a lunch booking with play after arranged for today, but unfortunately it's been cancelled for reasons known to the gent concerned so I'm disappointed as I now have 3 whole hours available and up for grabs that others were enquiring for only yesterday!

Well after my booking yesterday I noticed I was running low on body scrub so have just stocked up on some fab new products for you lovely people. I rather like the idea of a reverse treatment booking, where I get to lie on my couch and be thoroughly pampered, it would be a great idea to road test them!

Helen X

Thursday, January 23rd 2014

Helens feedback FR's and discretion

Leaving feedback and Field Reports, my thoughts. Hopefully not a moan but more of a guide

My thoughts on the use of leaving neutral feedback when bookings are made and then cancelled are that there is no point leaving a positive as this would be a false positive on a service provider or a seeking services. It is far better to pop truthful comments in the neutral that reflect that you haven't met & a brief low down on what prevented the booking from taking place. I appreciate that plans change & things crop up and as long as someone gives me notice then that's not a problem. Far better to cancel in advance then not have the manners to get in touch and be a no show (and then get banned)

Field reports are useful for others to see that the lady is indeed a reflection of her profile (her shop window) and that the booking that was made for specific services did happen and if the communication both before & during was excellent.

What isn't necessary in feedback is every aspect of the booking! I'm no prude as I obviously wouldn't do this job, but when I have seen other ladies field reports with gents going into graphic sexual detail of what went on I cringe.

Also location details, I have been on forums where ladies address's have been openly discussed! Please have a sense of decorum/discretion as if ladies visited your home for an out-call (and you happen to not live alone but were on your own that night) would you want people knowing you were a client and paid someone for a good hard pegging whilst your wife/partner was away?! "No" I thought not!

If you want to attend a ladies home and not have the neighbours suspecting why you are visiting then be aware of discretion, enter and leave quietly and don't make a point of being too specific in FR's.

Helen X

Monday, October 10th 2011

Come and play, Helen

Well here we are in October, how time flies and I realised there will be a half term coming up soon. Dates for my area are: Monday 24 – Friday 28 October 2011 so be sure to come and see me before you might be bogged down with any childcare arrangements you may have.

Now that the weather has turned cooler I have already cranked the heating on, well you can’t strip off and wear sexy skimpy attire if it’s chilly so lets turn up the heat and have some sizzling fun very soon ;)

It's always a good idea to try and book me a day or more ahead if you can, however if you have the urge and simply can't wait then do at least look at a couple of hours ahead.

Soon
Helen X

Thursday, September 8th 2011

Helens energy vampires & TW's

Quick where's the Garlic? lol

I have a little process in place to sort out the wheat from the chaff so to speak, thankfully most of my encounters have been wheat ;) but just recently I received an enquiry from someone that resulted in several email exchanges for a lengthly booking. So I insisted on a deposit & a booking form. Well the booking form arrived but no deposit and no phone call for ages and then on the very day guess what? Yep you guessed it the booking was cancelled! What a surprise indeed (not)

When you are self employed it makes perfect sense to invest time and positive energy building on your business and learning to spot those who are just going to try and take the piss or suck the life out of you and give them a wide berth. So when another email appeared from the cancellation person I mentioned that no further engagement would take place without a deposit being paid first. They wanted a "Dominant Bitch" so they got one. Well they just couldn't deal with it and I was accused of being cold and uncaring etc lol lol in fact I will be a little unladylike and say pmsl! They even disputed the feedback I left with a pathetic comment that I didn't look like my pics! lol lol lol "utter tosh" funny how they couldn't get enough of me and sung my praises when they thought they could play me at their silly pointless games.

I have plenty of caring, understanding and bags of patience for those who respect me as a person. In return the way that I am treated in a positive light) is returned tenfold and I take the utmost pride in providing a great quality service as well as being a dominant bitch.

Sunday, September 4th 2011

Helens personal hygiene and health!

Since I have been domming most of my experiences have been very positive and I have met some charming, sweet smelling and most courteous gentlemen. However I am sorry to say that some of my visitors have arrived not as fresh and have had no interest in the washing facilities provided that I have had to actually gee them into the shower.

When I arrange an appointment with someone I spend a good hour beforehand pampering & preening myself, just as I would if I were going on a "hot date" and when people ask for strap-on play and I have explained douching and hygiene beforehand I am horrified to see that they haven't actually washed/wiped their bottoms thoroughly.

Please note, shower or bath before you come and see me (includes washing your hair) and change your socks and underwear EVERY day! Also floss and brush your teeth prior to your visit, especially if you smoke or have eaten something strong. If you have come straight from work etc then not a problem, please USE the washing facilities provided. There is a selection of products for your use.

Don't be a dirty soap dodger!

Helen XX